Reply #15: I totally agree, I think many parents in this situation

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are so caught up in the angst, that they would never even think to take a photograph of a child that was very real to them, for however short a time. For a photographer, it would take nerves of steel, and possibly some counseling skills (on detachment) to be able to do such a thing. I tend to cry at the drop of a hat when I see something deeply personal and touching, I would have to practice telling myself that this is a celebration of life, instead of a death that came too soon. That part would be difficult, I guess because I have been blessed with two healthy children, and would start thinking about my girls, that might set me off...but in general I think this is a wonderful service.

Those that want it will seek it out, those that don't won't.