Reply #22: Solitary Druid

[Arianrhod]

by way of Zen and Taoism. A follower of the Goddess of the Moon.

I like keeping company with fellow Pagans, but the idea of being enthralled to a Group Mind just doesn't appeal to me. While I study in order to understand various traditions, spells, and rituals, I write all of my own practices. (I treat spellwork the same way I do recipes: Try the basic format once, then improve on it!) I think that the only true power in Paganism is that which is experienced individually. IMO, Groups tend to force one into little boxes (even if unintentionally) that restrict freedom of expression, thought, and action. The human need to "fit in" is extremely strong, and we always can find reasons for going along with the crowd. I prefer to buck those reasons I come up with. . . .

Being solitary is, IMO, more difficult than belonging to a Group. But in the long run, I think one attains more assurance in the Cosmos, and confidence in one's power, when these things are gained in solitary practice. I have never found myself estranged from other Pagans because of this. OTC; I feel deeply connected to others.