Which asteroids tend to be the most important in astrology charts?

[Shallah Kali]

I want to do my chart using astrodienst and I see the option to add extra asteroids beyond the list here - Pars Fortunae, Vertex, Lilith, Chiron, Ceres, Pallas, Juno, Vesta, Eris, Pholus, Nessus, Ixion, Orcus, Quaoar, Sedna, Varuna. I am especially interested in the ones that indicate a tendency towards psychological issues like Chiron does. I am in the midst of clearing a lot of old stuff, a lot of shadow stuff, and it would be very fascinating to see if astrology could point me to anything I am missing. A friend did a chart years ago but I must have given her a wrong time because when I did a one without the asteroids yesterday I got a different rising sign which I think reflects me much better than the other. While I know others have gotten wonderful insights from astrology I never fully related to my chart and gave up on learning more back then. Now I am curious and will be exercising my google fu to see if this new chart is a Goldilocks for me or not.