Reply #4: I have once

[MARALE]

But I usually think that it is ignorance of the other posters that have done it. I do less on this board than anywhere before. I am a very strong person that won't let other people put me in a place. Many people are uncomfortable with that, like my in-laws. They are of the generation where women knew their place. I think that everyone feels like they have a place chosen for them, one they didn't ask for at one time or another. I have seen it with my son as well. We need not to let people define us, we need to be ourselves.

there I am glad I am out of the closet.]