Reply #2: you'd have to read

[mzteris]

more of bell hook's to really understand; these snippets can't possibly convey who the woman is. And she's VERY complex.

I HATED her when I first started reading her books, (and I still don't agree with everything she says) - but as I read through her I began to really see things in a different way.

As far as ***If that's what she enjoyed, then what was the issue? I simply don't understand women who feel that certain aspects of their sexual nature are "wrong." ***

Sometimes it is just "wrong". Or wrong for that person - for whatever reason. If you'd like to take this to PM I think I can be a bit more forthright in describing *why* this might be an important issue for some women.