Reply #3: I knew a few women that used to dance in clubs...

[bliss_eternal]

before lap dances were a required part of working there. When the overt pandering for tips started, they bailed--having saved up enough by then, fininshed school, etc. I feel badly for women that still work in the clubs and have to deal with this crap--they should be able to decide for themselves how close, far they are comfortable with. It all sounds like a big, fat pain in the ass.

I can't speak for those that do this, I can only speak for me--but I have issues when people in the store stand too close to me while I'm waiting in line. :scared: I like boundaries. So I know I couldn't be that close to some guy's lap.