Reply #70: Probably too Late for You

[liberalmike27]

But when you get your recording device, make sure that when someone starts making advances, you get on tape a very clear reply, like "I'm sorry you think that me just being a friend in any way says it's OK for you to ask me out or suggest any sexual relationship. In the future, never ask me out again, or for sex, as I am just not interested in you in that way."

Some guys are dense, and some think that women want to be pursued. Personally I always liked it the other way. If someone has no interest in me, it's a pretty clear turnoff. Other guys aren't that way, sadly more of them than those like myself.

It sounds like the guy is a real (*) but for any woman out there, you should be very, very clear that you aren't interested, and that no other attempts should be made, as in truth, an awful lot of people do meet their significant other, at work. It may not be right, but it's true. Sucks to be in this situation for you, but I'm sure it isn't great to be on the other side if you were sincerely interested in a woman, and all of a sudden you are on the other side of some sexual harrassment thing. Let me emphasize, it doesn't sound at all like this is the case here, but I'm just saying, guys are dense, be clear, and get it on tape if you can. There is nothing like evidence, clear and unrebuttable evidence.