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pnwmom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-12-06 10:30 PM
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10. I think my subject line may have mislead you. I wasn't specifically
Edited on Wed Apr-12-06 10:40 PM by pnwmom
talking about the Easter Egg Roll -- what I thought was dumb was my father's behavior -- not these parents, whom I don't know. Did you happen to read the whole post, or just the headline? I'm just wondering.

I agree that I can't know what's right for these families. But any parent should be cautious about using their kids in their own causes. Just something to think about, for the parents who may be reading . . .

But to refer to your post . . . if the gay parents have the same motivation as the straight parents -- just having fun with their kids -- they don't need to hang the leis around their kids necks, or put them out in front of the tv cameras. Do they?

And with regard to your opinion that this wasn't my business, that was certainly true -- until they decided to make it my business, and your business, and everybody else's business, when they decided to make this a media event. If they are going to use little children to "put a face" on LGBT issues, then we have a right to discuss whether that's a good thing to do.

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  -Should kids of LGBT parents be "showcased"? pnwmom  Apr-12-06 06:43 PM   #0 
  - Showcased as  rpannier   Apr-12-06 06:49 PM   #1 
  - Well, when *I* have kids with MY partner and 2 lesbos  baby_mouse   Apr-12-06 06:50 PM   #2 
  - it's up to each family -- they have to figure on their own  xchrom   Apr-12-06 06:54 PM   #3 
  - Of course the fundies showcase their kids. That doesn't make it  pnwmom   Apr-12-06 07:06 PM   #4 
     - ok pnwmom -- i just said it was up to each individual family.  xchrom   Apr-12-06 07:22 PM   #5 
        - I realize that. But as an "adult kid," I still think it's a mistake  pnwmom   Apr-12-06 07:46 PM   #6 
  - It depends on many factors, but generally speaking no.  Meldread   Apr-12-06 08:18 PM   #7 
  - Parents, gay or straight, can be unbelievably dumb.  pnwmom   Apr-12-06 08:29 PM   #8 
  - Gay people are such bad parents: They're "showcasing" their children!  94114_San_Francisco   Apr-12-06 10:12 PM   #9 
  - I think my subject line may have mislead you. I wasn't specifically  pnwmom   Apr-12-06 10:30 PM   #10 
  - P.S. "Showcase" was their word, not mine. I'm glad you don't know any  pnwmom   Apr-12-06 10:34 PM   #11 
  - It's ACTIVISM, not showcasing  Ayesha   Apr-13-06 04:09 AM   #12 
  - Why on earth not? Because some kids don't like to be on display.  pnwmom   Apr-13-06 04:41 AM   #13 
  - More info from the organizers -- "Family Pride Coalition"  pnwmom   Apr-13-06 05:56 AM   #14 
  - Just think about this for a moment!  foreigncorrespondent   Apr-13-06 07:01 PM   #15 
  - Actually, it was the gay families that SAID they were showcasing  pnwmom   Apr-17-06 03:29 AM   #16 
     - Could you be...  foreigncorrespondent   Apr-17-06 05:53 AM   #17 
     - What is wrong with using a word like "cover" when that is the  pnwmom   Apr-17-06 12:04 PM   #21 
        - Honey...  foreigncorrespondent   Apr-17-06 07:45 PM   #22 
           - Why is a statement that gay parents, like straight, run the whole gamut  pnwmom   Apr-17-06 08:07 PM   #23 
              - It's not...  foreigncorrespondent   Apr-17-06 08:21 PM   #24 
                 - It's not an issue of trying to make anybody "look" fucked up.  pnwmom   Apr-17-06 08:35 PM   #25 
                    - Oh please...  foreigncorrespondent   Apr-17-06 09:02 PM   #26 
                       - That is exactly the opposite of what I said. Gay parents being in  pnwmom   Apr-17-06 09:07 PM   #27 
                          - *shrug* (n/t)  foreigncorrespondent   Apr-17-06 09:15 PM   #28 
     - Actually, no. Chrisler says in the article that the originators....  PaulHo   Apr-17-06 06:00 AM   #18 
        - Yes, I can see the distinction.  pnwmom   Apr-17-06 11:56 AM   #20 
  - Children are our worlds most precious resource & hope.  William769   Apr-17-06 07:22 AM   #19 
 

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