Reply #196: Sounds like your problem is really...

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...with the process. You're pissed because the state didn't make it easier on you. Sounds like you also chose a pretty shitty mate.

When I divorced my wife, child support was a foregone conclusion. I never questioned it in the first place. Hell, I was paying her child support even while we were separated without any legal obligation to do so, and in fact, I pay her far more than my legal obligation even though she is in far financial shape than I.

Here in Texas, when child support is ordered, it is garnished from your wages before you ever see the check. You don't have a choice short of being employed in an all cash, off-the-books job.

No, you do not have to retain counsel either. In a case such as this, the state will provide counsel. Yes, you do have to appear in court and prove the man actually IS the father, but anything else would be a travesty of justice to say the least.