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84. "Trouble is a grand and lovely thing. I live for it." --TIW
This is a day for tears all around.

Dear EFerrari, your tribute is perfect.

Trouble and I circled each other suspiciously at first, and our interaction ran the gamut. She ran deep, and her intelligence was profound. She had many interests and passions, and she could be ridiculously silly. I still treasure the time she spent making friends with her DU pal "gyorg W Boosh".

She understood gyorg perfectly well, even though my eyes cross as I reread it.

We laughed for a few days straight on that bit of self-indulgence :)

She PMed me: "Oh. My. Fuckin. Gawd.

It took me a full fifteen minutes to read that post. Laughin out loud, grabbin the kleenx box to wipe the laughin tears, trying to breathe. Dog staring at me. He is planning to run away.

I was laughing so hard, I could only get about 5 or 8 words at a time. Two punchlines in every sentence."

We were "engaged to be married" Here is some of our wedding planning correspondence.

"I have already gone for the fitting for my custom-made pink vinyl body-suit to wear for the ceremony on "Our Special Day"! I got the satin ballet toe shoes, too. It's a little hard learning how to walk in them, but WOW the view is amazing.

I am wondering how you feel about wearing lederhosen? Maybe shirtless?!?!! I get all woozy just thinking about it!!!!!

I am having a hard time finding a company to provide tiny bats to release at the end of the ceremony (they all seem to only have doves).

So many decisions to make.

Yours in strange love,

I will miss her, and I will regret always--as i always seem to--regret not treasuring what I have more than I do. life is a huge wave we ride, and we sometimes lose the board.

She was special. Rest in peace, sweet and strong one.

Final word on the wedding plan:

"I think "Hula Barbie" will be our theme! I love you."

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  -Let's have ourselves a fine thread to celebrate the life of our friend troubleinwinter. EFerrari  Dec-17-10 06:57 PM   #0 
  - A beautiful tribute, EFerrari. Rest in peace, sister. nt.  gateley   Dec-17-10 06:59 PM   #1 
  - Thank you for this beautiful tribute. Rest in peace.  myrna minx   Dec-17-10 06:59 PM   #2 
  - I am so sorry.  sabrina 1   Dec-17-10 07:07 PM   #3 
  - I'm sorry you didn't meet her, sabrina.  EFerrari   Dec-17-10 11:51 PM   #36 
     - I wish I had also. I did read her posts many times though  sabrina 1   Dec-18-10 06:21 PM   #99 
  - Oh, that's terrible...  CoffeeCat   Dec-17-10 07:08 PM   #4 
  - The last time I talked to her, she was scolding me  EFerrari   Dec-17-10 07:11 PM   #7 
  - A beautiful tribute.  Solly Mack   Dec-17-10 07:09 PM   #5 
  - When you connect with someone, there's a moment of recognition  EFerrari   Dec-17-10 08:43 PM   #25 
  - I'm sorry you lost your friend  DoBotherMe   Dec-17-10 07:09 PM   #6 
  - Thank you, Dana.  EFerrari   Dec-17-10 07:25 PM   #11 
  - I remember  Echotrail   Dec-17-10 07:15 PM   #8 
  - I'm sorry now that I didn't save any of her snapshots of herself.  EFerrari   Dec-17-10 07:23 PM   #10 
  - RIP to a talented gal  corpseratemedia   Dec-17-10 07:15 PM   #9 
  - :( another loss - this has been a hard and harsh year for DU  UpInArms   Dec-17-10 07:32 PM   #12 
  - Don't see you often enough, UpInArms.  EFerrari   Dec-17-10 08:24 PM   #22 
  - I cannot remember if I met trouble in this forum or  merh   Dec-17-10 07:51 PM   #13 
  - Her being gone was unreal to me until the thread went up.  EFerrari   Dec-17-10 07:56 PM   #14 
  - She was very involved - and she was involved in so much.  merh   Dec-17-10 08:20 PM   #20 
  - I think this is Andy's thread that started the Wrinkles. She posted to it.  EFerrari   Dec-17-10 08:18 PM   #19 
     - Thanks for the memories  merh   Dec-17-10 08:38 PM   #23 
     - I think Andy would have loved wikileaks.  EFerrari   Dec-17-10 08:49 PM   #26 
        - I think you are right  merh   Dec-17-10 11:11 PM   #33 
           - Exactly. In some ways, Andy was more hopeful but more pragmatic, too,  EFerrari   Dec-17-10 11:35 PM   #34 
     - I remember.  Hissyspit   Dec-17-10 09:04 PM   #27 
     - I was here Nov 2004. So, there was that screwed up election,  EFerrari   Dec-17-10 09:13 PM   #28 
     - Oh my goodness, I didn't want to see that thread by Andy.  juajen   Dec-18-10 03:31 PM   #81 
  - That's a lovely tribute to troubleinwinter....  greatauntoftriplets   Dec-17-10 08:06 PM   #15 
  - I don't even know all the forums she posted to.  EFerrari   Dec-17-10 08:08 PM   #16 
  - My thoughts go out to her family and friends. Very sad.  cbayer   Dec-17-10 08:09 PM   #17 
  - Thanks, cbayer.  EFerrari   Dec-17-10 08:22 PM   #21 
  - what a lovely tribute.  Smashcut   Dec-17-10 08:18 PM   #18 
  - RIP Troubleinwinter - she was trouble year round to bullies and punks  WillYourVoteBCounted   Dec-17-10 08:43 PM   #24 
  - I sure as hell wouldn't want to cross her.  EFerrari   Dec-17-10 09:16 PM   #29 
  - To your friend  yellerpup   Dec-17-10 09:41 PM   #30 
  - Thank you, yellerpup.  EFerrari   Dec-17-10 10:41 PM   #31 
  - RIP Trouble  WhiteTara   Dec-17-10 10:59 PM   #32 
  - What a great person. RIP.  applegrove   Dec-17-10 11:41 PM   #35 
  - Awful, awful news. She was a real truthseeker!  Bill Bored   Dec-18-10 12:09 AM   #37 
  - Yes, she was!  EFerrari   Dec-18-10 12:17 AM   #39 
  - She was the answer to the question, "Who's watching the watchers?"  merh   Dec-18-10 12:36 AM   #40 
  - Damn. Thanks for the thread.  lildreamer316   Dec-18-10 12:09 AM   #38 
  - Welcome.  EFerrari   Dec-18-10 12:52 AM   #41 
  - I still have a copy of her poster of Ballot  Generic Other   Dec-18-10 03:01 AM   #42 
  - I'm sorry, Generic Other.  EFerrari   Dec-18-10 03:10 AM   #43 
  - Rest in peace  mogster   Dec-18-10 05:07 AM   #44 
  - Hi there, mogster.  EFerrari   Dec-18-10 08:52 AM   #48 
  - Rest in peace, troubleinwinter.  Skinner   Dec-18-10 06:32 AM   #45 
  - I remember  Time for change   Dec-18-10 07:49 AM   #46 
  - I do remember.  Patsy Stone   Dec-18-10 08:20 AM   #47 
  - That icon looks very nice on you, Patsy.  EFerrari   Dec-18-10 08:53 AM   #49 
  - She was among those who "get it".  Wilms   Dec-18-10 09:04 AM   #50 
  - I am sorry to hear of this  Tsiyu   Dec-18-10 09:27 AM   #51 
  - Thanks, Tsiyu.  EFerrari   Dec-18-10 10:32 AM   #56 
  - A beautiful tribute  me b zola   Dec-18-10 09:41 AM   #52 
  - . . .  EFerrari   Dec-18-10 10:35 AM   #57 
  - She helped me get to Seattle to play for Andy's memorial...all of you did.  goodboy   Dec-18-10 09:56 AM   #53 
  - RIP.  OnyxCollie   Dec-18-10 10:05 AM   #54 
  - RIP dear Troubleinwinter. You will be missed. nt  Mojorabbit   Dec-18-10 10:10 AM   #55 
  - I'm so sorry. RIP Trouble.  nolabear   Dec-18-10 10:39 AM   #58 
  - my condolences to you and to her family  spooky3   Dec-18-10 10:46 AM   #59 
  - "testy, silly and razor sharp" -- that's exactly right  OnTheOtherHand   Dec-18-10 11:08 AM   #60 
  - May she rest in Peace.  formercia   Dec-18-10 12:07 PM   #61 
  - trouble was a wonderful DUer.  EFerrari   Dec-18-10 01:03 PM   #63 
     - A loss of one of us, is a loss to all of us.  formercia   Dec-18-10 02:02 PM   #69 
  - This thread brings home to me the fact  Kaleko   Dec-18-10 12:45 PM   #62 
  - That happens in big families sometimes, doesn't it?  EFerrari   Dec-18-10 01:13 PM   #65 
  - I tell ya, it's hard sometimes to not shoot back left and right  Kaleko   Dec-18-10 02:17 PM   #72 
  - I so disagree. I always find warmth on this forum. NT  juajen   Dec-18-10 03:38 PM   #83 
  - RIP troubleinwinter RIP  MadMaddie   Dec-18-10 01:09 PM   #64 
  - what a nice upbeat tribute and celebration of someone who obviously should be celebrated  tomm2thumbs   Dec-18-10 01:39 PM   #66 
  - A beautiful tribute  suffragette   Dec-18-10 01:41 PM   #67 
  - Rest well my acerbic friend. You will be dearly missed.  Ellipsis   Dec-18-10 01:48 PM   #68 
  - Flout 'em and scout 'em /And scout 'em and flout 'em /Thought is free.  EFerrari   Dec-18-10 02:19 PM   #73 
  - I'm so sorry to hear this.  pacalo   Dec-18-10 02:08 PM   #70 
  - A wonderful tribute post. RIP.  Hoosier   Dec-18-10 02:16 PM   #71 
  - This was not your call, Beth. Have you no sense of respect?  fooj   Dec-18-10 02:20 PM   #74 
  - Hi there, fooj.  EFerrari   Dec-18-10 02:26 PM   #75 
  - You don't believe DUers would want to know?  proud2BlibKansan   Dec-18-10 02:55 PM   #78 
  - Sorry for your loss.  earcandle   Dec-18-10 02:31 PM   #76 
  - Thank you for letting us know.  calimary   Dec-18-10 02:34 PM   #77 
  - OMG I remember her well  proud2BlibKansan   Dec-18-10 02:56 PM   #79 
  - So very sorry for the many people who loved her. RIP  juajen   Dec-18-10 03:24 PM   #80 
  - RIP dear lady.  glinda   Dec-18-10 03:33 PM   #82 
  - "Trouble is a grand and lovely thing. I live for it." --TIW  Kurovski   Dec-18-10 03:55 PM   #84 
  - There was no one like trouble.  EFerrari   Dec-18-10 04:50 PM   #88 
  - o no!!  NMDemDist2   Dec-18-10 04:15 PM   #85 
  - I'm so sorry,  EFerrari   Dec-18-10 04:55 PM   #90 
  - RiP troublewinter-this vid is in tribute to you  unapatriciated   Dec-18-10 04:17 PM   #86 
  - Excellent!  EFerrari   Dec-18-10 04:56 PM   #92 
  - I am so terribly saddened to hear of this.  hippywife   Dec-18-10 04:30 PM   #87 
  - Sorry for the loss of troubleinwinter  madmax   Dec-18-10 04:50 PM   #89 
  - Thanks for celebrating trouble with us, madmax.  EFerrari   Dec-18-10 04:57 PM   #93 
  - RIP wonderful lady. You will be missed.  dogday   Dec-18-10 04:55 PM   #91 
  - AKA Ellie Wyatt elsewhere...  jberryhill   Dec-18-10 04:58 PM   #94 
  - EFerrari, dear DU brother/sister...  laylah   Dec-18-10 05:58 PM   #95 
  - Thank you so much.  EFerrari   Dec-18-10 06:53 PM   #101 
  - Godspeed, troubleinwinter; blessings to those who remain behind...  OneGrassRoot   Dec-18-10 06:07 PM   #96 
  - I will miss her  proud patriot   Dec-18-10 06:10 PM   #97 
  - This is so sad  eleny   Dec-18-10 06:19 PM   #98 
  - Fare well and rest in peace.  pinto   Dec-18-10 06:27 PM   #100 
  - She was a great human being. She will be missed. RIP sweet lady.  Mnemosyne    Dec-18-10 09:11 PM   #102 
  - My condolences to her family and friends  Kelvin Mace   Dec-18-10 09:36 PM   #103 
  - Rest in Peace, Trouble...  Jeanette in FL   Dec-19-10 04:41 AM   #104 
  - RIP, Troubleinwinter  Catherine Vincent   Dec-20-10 10:25 PM   #105 
  - To trouble  Stinky The Clown   Dec-21-10 06:50 PM   #106 
  - Oh, my.  yowzayowzayowza   Dec-23-10 06:53 PM   #107 

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