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Fri Jan-14-05 01:30 PM
Response to Reply #45 |
| 48. The statistics say I'm right |
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Do you have anything to back up your statement on gender bias? Or you just think it's wrong, even though the studies contradict what you think?
I am helping, I've given two specific suggestions, and a third would be that police ought to actually go to a nonpaying person's house to arrest them, rather than only arresting the ones that get a speeding ticket.
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| -Child support laws in Michigan are unreasonable... |
KingChicken |
Jan-14-05 07:29 AM |
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Do you have the text of the law? |
proudbluestater |
Jan-14-05 07:35 AM |
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While he is unemployed, possibly for months, he still must pay... |
KingChicken |
Jan-14-05 07:48 AM |
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Perhaps you missed the part where he was unemployed for a while |
ET Awful |
Jan-14-05 07:50 AM |
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What do you base that "feeling that they rarely face jail time" on? |
BR_Parkway |
Jan-14-05 07:55 AM |
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You are correct about non payment of child support leading to |
Rainbowreflect |
Jan-14-05 09:06 AM |
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A local guy was picked up for non payment last year... |
KingChicken |
Jan-14-05 09:27 AM |
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That's a bench warrant |
lwfern |
Jan-14-05 09:50 AM |
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Yeah bench warrant, but eventally you will be arrested just the same. |
KingChicken |
Jan-14-05 10:32 AM |
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"eventually" |
lwfern |
Jan-14-05 11:07 AM |
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Why do you keep citing child homelessness, and not being fed? |
KingChicken |
Jan-14-05 12:04 PM |
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the reason they aren't risking homelessness/wellbeing |
lwfern |
Jan-14-05 12:17 PM |
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How can you say that? |
KingChicken |
Jan-14-05 12:50 PM |
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Sounds like the kids should quit eating and expecting shelter. |
IdaBriggs |
Jan-14-05 07:51 AM |
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He is extremely responsible, he does everything... |
KingChicken |
Jan-14-05 07:59 AM |
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I disagree with you. |
IdaBriggs |
Jan-14-05 08:13 AM |
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She is doing fine, not homeless by any means... |
KingChicken |
Jan-14-05 08:38 AM |
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"She's raking in the cash --" because his $1K is SO MUCH MONEY. |
IdaBriggs |
Jan-14-05 09:48 AM |
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Her job, her husbands job plus his support. |
KingChicken |
Jan-14-05 10:14 AM |
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ROFLMA -- Its ANOTHER man's job to support HIS kid? |
IdaBriggs |
Jan-14-05 10:36 AM |
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Of course it's another man's job |
lwfern |
Jan-14-05 10:54 AM |
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I guess that makes sense -- if you're sleeping with her, |
IdaBriggs |
Jan-14-05 11:01 AM |
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I will argree on that, I don't know if thats the money for the car.... |
KingChicken |
Jan-14-05 12:20 PM |
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Interesting that the OP is going out of their way to make certain |
kgfnally |
Jun-03-07 08:07 PM |
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Take my time, when you respond to a post from TWO YEARS AGO? |
IdaBriggs |
Jun-04-07 11:17 PM |
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Child Support |
exacta |
Jan-17-10 07:52 PM |
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Death, Incarceration, Quadraplegia |
Demeter |
Jun-16-07 01:21 PM |
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Married unemployed fathers don't get to put supporting their kids |
elehhhhna |
Jan-14-05 07:52 AM |
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Don't be ingnorant, not all single fathers are deadbeats... |
KingChicken |
Jan-14-05 08:03 AM |
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I said nothing about or implying Deadbeat Dad syndrome... |
elehhhhna |
Jan-14-05 08:22 AM |
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On the other side of the issue... |
displacedtexan |
Jan-14-05 08:02 AM |
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He can petition the court, however it takes months... |
KingChicken |
Jan-14-05 08:06 AM |
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A father who reduces his income to avoid support |
Dangerous Felon |
Jan-17-05 11:40 AM |
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Source for that claim? |
lwfern |
Jan-17-05 04:31 PM |
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That's not true. |
GreenEyedLefty |
Jan-20-10 11:17 AM |
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whatever you do in the dark soon comes to light.. so in the long run |
sam sarrha |
Jan-14-05 08:04 AM |
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I agree totally, but everyone is young at some time. |
KingChicken |
Jan-14-05 08:11 AM |
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I'm not sure how it works in Michigan but..... |
eternalburn |
Jan-14-05 08:10 AM |
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Too idealistic, reality is harsh, things usally don't work for the best... |
KingChicken |
Jan-14-05 08:15 AM |
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That's how it works in Michigan also |
lwfern |
Jan-14-05 08:41 AM |
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You're not paying attention, he pays for things like daycare... |
KingChicken |
Jan-14-05 08:48 AM |
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The system always sides with the mother? |
lwfern |
Jan-14-05 09:08 AM |
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Buddy, the court is not gender neutral... |
KingChicken |
Jan-14-05 09:31 AM |
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The mother's are favored... |
dlcloum31 |
Jul-21-07 07:10 PM |
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True - mothers are favored |
michiganlady |
Mar-19-08 11:28 AM |
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I actually found that rather unfair. |
GreenEyedLefty |
Jan-20-10 11:20 AM |
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the CUSTODIAL parent gets to claim the deduction/tax credits |
Scout |
Jan-20-10 03:52 PM |
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Extra Gifts? |
michiganlady |
Mar-18-08 03:12 PM |
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You've just confused "gifts" with "needs". |
lwfern |
Mar-18-08 08:49 PM |
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Needs vs Gifts |
michiganlady |
Mar-19-08 10:51 AM |
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Needs vs gifts |
lwfern |
Mar-19-08 11:11 AM |
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Part of the problem |
michiganlady |
Mar-19-08 11:08 AM |
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The expenses when a child is at the other parents house |
lwfern |
Mar-19-08 11:22 AM |
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Agree to disagree |
michiganlady |
Mar-19-08 11:52 AM |
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The child support laws need to change..... |
KingChicken |
Jan-14-05 09:24 AM |
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There's nothing extreme in the solution |
lwfern |
Jan-14-05 09:36 AM |
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The guy is 28, what do you want? |
KingChicken |
Jan-14-05 09:54 AM |
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What do I want? |
lwfern |
Jan-14-05 10:04 AM |
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Let's try the new system for a while before we change it. |
IdaBriggs |
Jan-14-05 10:03 AM |
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He can't have custody..... |
KingChicken |
Jan-14-05 10:27 AM |
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You do seem to have a victim mentality here |
lwfern |
Jan-14-05 10:44 AM |
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There is no victim here, i'm not claiming a victim, just unfair... |
KingChicken |
Jan-14-05 12:36 PM |
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Incorrect. Michigan is VERY gender neutral. |
IdaBriggs |
Jan-14-05 10:46 AM |
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Stop using sensationalism to sell your point... |
KingChicken |
Jan-14-05 12:16 PM |
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Stop using sensationalism to sell your point |
lwfern |
Jan-14-05 12:19 PM |
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Do you have any suggestions? What's the solution? |
KingChicken |
Jan-14-05 12:30 PM |
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The statistics say I'm right |
lwfern |
Jan-14-05 01:30 PM |
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Stop using ignorance to ignore reality. |
IdaBriggs |
Jan-15-05 08:08 AM |
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Jan-17-05 11:35 AM |
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That IS what happens |
lwfern |
Jan-17-05 04:54 PM |
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Your friend needs a lawyer. |
hickman1937 |
Jan-17-05 02:52 PM |
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If you have never dealt with the system do not speak of it. |
sarcasmo |
Jan-16-05 06:53 PM |
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Michigan is NOT the toughest in the Union |
lwfern |
Jan-17-05 05:03 PM |
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Maybe both abortion and murder should be easier.... |
stavka |
Jan-17-05 09:30 PM |
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When the child support gestapo comes to your door then talk to me. |
sarcasmo |
Jan-25-05 10:03 AM |
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hopefully you love your kid |
lwfern |
Jan-25-05 03:30 PM |
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Love for my kid is not in question, If you have kids and Divorce then your |
sarcasmo |
Jan-26-05 08:52 AM |
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Kids don't "become" a case number |
lwfern |
Jan-26-05 11:37 AM |
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Friend of the Court does nothing right away, LMFAO. |
sarcasmo |
Jan-27-05 09:32 AM |
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You think I haven't dealt with them? |
lwfern |
Jan-27-05 12:52 PM |
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where is my childs house,i pay for? |
bummer |
May-31-07 12:10 PM |
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methinks thou dost protest too much! |
Scout |
Jan-26-05 11:09 AM |
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If they throw you in jail |
michreject |
Jun-02-07 07:52 AM |
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I worked for a temp agency once, in their office, and it is bad. |
knitter4democracy |
Jun-05-07 09:10 PM |
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His children continue to live regardless of the situation. Something |
MrsGrumpy |
Jun-13-07 06:19 AM |
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I read through all the posts and he is blaming the woman for not taking the pill |
LisaM |
Jun-14-07 01:24 PM |
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Birth Control Responsibility |
michiganlady |
Mar-18-08 12:08 PM |
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Welcome to D/U and enjoy the many great forums. |
sarcasmo |
Mar-21-08 10:14 AM |
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Child Support Laws ARE unreasonable... |
dlcloum31 |
Jul-21-07 06:34 PM |
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Seven children is a lot to support. |
lwfern |
Jul-21-07 11:52 PM |
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Here is a math suggestion for you -- |
IdaBriggs |
Jul-27-07 10:33 AM |
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no math suggestion! |
dlcloum31 |
Jul-30-07 08:11 PM |
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It doesn't sound to me like your husband's getting screwed by the state |
lwfern |
Jul-31-07 12:03 PM |
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You can whine all you want -- I think the situation is perfectly reasonable. |
IdaBriggs |
Jul-31-07 05:06 PM |
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I would hardly say I am selfish... |
dlcloum31 |
Aug-03-07 07:21 PM |
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I will expain to you once more why I think YOU are selfish. |
IdaBriggs |
Aug-05-07 09:31 AM |
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your whole attitude DRIPS selfishness and now you're trying to play the martyr... |
Scout |
Aug-05-07 10:27 AM |
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It does look a little selfish |
lwfern |
Aug-06-07 09:43 AM |
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Lots of whining in here ... |
Scout |
Jul-27-07 11:51 AM |
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Why do so many people have children they can't afford? |
skipos |
Jul-28-07 03:30 PM |
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Sounds like an argument for just not having kids at all |
bluestateguy |
Aug-01-07 08:05 PM |
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My Son turned 18 on Friday, I am done! |
sarcasmo |
Sep-01-07 06:05 PM |
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Hopefully if he needs help |
lwfern |
Sep-01-07 07:00 PM |
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Done with the Court system. Does that sound better for you? |
sarcasmo |
Sep-02-07 03:43 PM |
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Mothers pay child support as well - I am one of them n/t |
addreamgirl |
Mar-26-08 12:05 PM |
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We never had to wait "months" for a "hearing" |
noamnety |
Jan-26-10 05:48 PM |
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To all of those who want to jail someone over the almighty dollar |
Chucky_The_Freak |
Feb-07-10 12:48 AM |
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Mike Cox is that you? |
sarcasmo |
Nov-15-10 09:05 AM |
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Oct-29-10 08:28 PM |
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Nov-01-10 09:26 PM |
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Hello |
Lions_fan |
Nov-14-10 03:57 PM |
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