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65. where is my childs house,i pay for?
i asked for a drug test on both of us fighting for custody.It didnt happen.I wanted custody but after spending $5,000 on the project and getting very little headway i realised it would take another 6-8 court sessions and thousands of more dollars.With the bank starting forclosure on my house i knew my son wasnt the one in trouble.I knew the best thing for him was for me to protect family assets.
now you people say $750 a month for cheap rent.wait alimony was banned.We both had a separate place to stay before our son was born.So shouldnt I only be paying for diapers and food?Are you telling me that her living off my child support is fair? if im paying for him to have housing then why is she leaching off of that?why is she telling me she cant wait to get another guy ,to get her pregnant so she can bring in another $1000 a month?
Why is she telling me that she has been on crack all along and her new tattoos were bought with my child support?
if there is no alimony then how could she get by without a job for 6months on just my childsupport? should we rename it childnmom support?
the problem is the support is too high if it was a household fact that child support was $250 a month you real cost of diapers and food and indexed for would hear some deadbeat bragging about getting out of paying cause anyone in their right mind would beat the guy up.fact is support is so high that people ARE trying to get out of it without feeling imbarrassed.And when they talk about the amount they pay they ARE getting sympathy.
and sure you can talk about daycare but it normally comes down to grandparents watching the kids.
I just dont see why im paying for her housing, if they are homeless they should lose custody.i have a house so i should have the child ,i dont do drugs ,i dont drink ,i dont smoke.
The court told me the child is owned 50/50 by each of us but she automaticly gets him because she is the mom.all the proof of her being a crazy stalker didnt mean anything so.
now here i am paying for her to have a place to stay,something she already had,but remember ALMIONY was banned.
and for you still not convinced i know people that have 6 kids these parents are earning less than $30,000 a year so explain how they are spending $6000/mo on their children ($1000 for each).
lets face it children cost less than $300 a month each and crackwhores are getting pregnant by the dozen earning a living on the childsupport commodity.
And why would one child get more than another anyway? is my kid not as good as bill gates kid? why would one mother get more support than the other?
If child support was $300/mo for everyone you would see alot of people tomorrow giving up custody and the real parents would stand up ,that are not in it for a profit.
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  -Child support laws in Michigan are unreasonable... KingChicken  Jan-14-05 07:29 AM   #0 
  - Do you have the text of the law?  proudbluestater   Jan-14-05 07:35 AM   #1 
  - While he is unemployed, possibly for months, he still must pay...  KingChicken   Jan-14-05 07:48 AM   #2 
  - Perhaps you missed the part where he was unemployed for a while  ET Awful   Jan-14-05 07:50 AM   #3 
  - What do you base that "feeling that they rarely face jail time" on?  BR_Parkway   Jan-14-05 07:55 AM   #6 
  - You are correct about non payment of child support leading to  Rainbowreflect   Jan-14-05 09:06 AM   #20 
     - A local guy was picked up for non payment last year...  KingChicken   Jan-14-05 09:27 AM   #23 
        - That's a bench warrant  lwfern   Jan-14-05 09:50 AM   #27 
           - Yeah bench warrant, but eventally you will be arrested just the same.  KingChicken   Jan-14-05 10:32 AM   #33 
              - "eventually"  lwfern   Jan-14-05 11:07 AM   #39 
                 - Why do you keep citing child homelessness, and not being fed?  KingChicken   Jan-14-05 12:04 PM   #40 
                    - the reason they aren't risking homelessness/wellbeing  lwfern   Jan-14-05 12:17 PM   #42 
                       - How can you say that?  KingChicken   Jan-14-05 12:50 PM   #47 
  - Sounds like the kids should quit eating and expecting shelter.  IdaBriggs   Jan-14-05 07:51 AM   #4 
  - He is extremely responsible, he does everything...  KingChicken   Jan-14-05 07:59 AM   #7 
  - I disagree with you.  IdaBriggs   Jan-14-05 08:13 AM   #14 
     - She is doing fine, not homeless by any means...  KingChicken   Jan-14-05 08:38 AM   #17 
        - "She's raking in the cash --" because his $1K is SO MUCH MONEY.  IdaBriggs   Jan-14-05 09:48 AM   #26 
           - Her job, her husbands job plus his support.  KingChicken   Jan-14-05 10:14 AM   #31 
              - ROFLMA -- Its ANOTHER man's job to support HIS kid?  IdaBriggs   Jan-14-05 10:36 AM   #34 
                 - Of course it's another man's job  lwfern   Jan-14-05 10:54 AM   #37 
                    - I guess that makes sense -- if you're sleeping with her,  IdaBriggs   Jan-14-05 11:01 AM   #38 
                    - I will argree on that, I don't know if thats the money for the car....  KingChicken   Jan-14-05 12:20 PM   #44 
  - Interesting that the OP is going out of their way to make certain  kgfnally   Jun-03-07 08:07 PM   #67 
     - Take my time, when you respond to a post from TWO YEARS AGO?  IdaBriggs   Jun-04-07 11:17 PM   #68 
     - Child Support  exacta   Jan-17-10 07:52 PM   #101 
     - Death, Incarceration, Quadraplegia  Demeter   Jun-16-07 01:21 PM   #72 
  - Married unemployed fathers don't get to put supporting their kids  elehhhhna   Jan-14-05 07:52 AM   #5 
  - Don't be ingnorant, not all single fathers are deadbeats...  KingChicken   Jan-14-05 08:03 AM   #9 
     - I said nothing about or implying Deadbeat Dad syndrome...  elehhhhna   Jan-14-05 08:22 AM   #16 
  - On the other side of the issue...  displacedtexan   Jan-14-05 08:02 AM   #8 
  - He can petition the court, however it takes months...  KingChicken   Jan-14-05 08:06 AM   #11 
  - A father who reduces his income to avoid support  Dangerous Felon   Jan-17-05 11:40 AM   #52 
     - Source for that claim?  lwfern   Jan-17-05 04:31 PM   #54 
     - That's not true.  GreenEyedLefty   Jan-20-10 11:17 AM   #102 
  - whatever you do in the dark soon comes to light.. so in the long run  sam sarrha   Jan-14-05 08:04 AM   #10 
  - I agree totally, but everyone is young at some time.  KingChicken   Jan-14-05 08:11 AM   #13 
  - I'm not sure how it works in Michigan but.....  eternalburn   Jan-14-05 08:10 AM   #12 
  - Too idealistic, reality is harsh, things usally don't work for the best...  KingChicken   Jan-14-05 08:15 AM   #15 
  - That's how it works in Michigan also  lwfern   Jan-14-05 08:41 AM   #18 
     - You're not paying attention, he pays for things like daycare...  KingChicken   Jan-14-05 08:48 AM   #19 
     - The system always sides with the mother?  lwfern   Jan-14-05 09:08 AM   #21 
        - Buddy, the court is not gender neutral...  KingChicken   Jan-14-05 09:31 AM   #24 
           - The mother's are favored...  dlcloum31   Jul-21-07 07:10 PM   #74 
              - True - mothers are favored  michiganlady   Mar-19-08 11:28 AM   #97 
              - I actually found that rather unfair.  GreenEyedLefty   Jan-20-10 11:20 AM   #103 
              - the CUSTODIAL parent gets to claim the deduction/tax credits  Scout   Jan-20-10 03:52 PM   #104 
     - Extra Gifts?  michiganlady   Mar-18-08 03:12 PM   #91 
        - You've just confused "gifts" with "needs".  lwfern   Mar-18-08 08:49 PM   #92 
           - Needs vs Gifts  michiganlady   Mar-19-08 10:51 AM   #93 
           - Needs vs gifts  lwfern   Mar-19-08 11:11 AM   #95 
           - Part of the problem  michiganlady   Mar-19-08 11:08 AM   #94 
              - The expenses when a child is at the other parents house  lwfern   Mar-19-08 11:22 AM   #96 
                 - Agree to disagree  michiganlady   Mar-19-08 11:52 AM   #98 
  - The child support laws need to change.....  KingChicken   Jan-14-05 09:24 AM   #22 
  - There's nothing extreme in the solution  lwfern   Jan-14-05 09:36 AM   #25 
  - The guy is 28, what do you want?  KingChicken   Jan-14-05 09:54 AM   #28 
     - What do I want?  lwfern   Jan-14-05 10:04 AM   #30 
  - Let's try the new system for a while before we change it.  IdaBriggs   Jan-14-05 10:03 AM   #29 
     - He can't have custody.....  KingChicken   Jan-14-05 10:27 AM   #32 
        - You do seem to have a victim mentality here  lwfern   Jan-14-05 10:44 AM   #35 
        - There is no victim here, i'm not claiming a victim, just unfair...  KingChicken   Jan-14-05 12:36 PM   #46 
        - Incorrect. Michigan is VERY gender neutral.  IdaBriggs   Jan-14-05 10:46 AM   #36 
           - Stop using sensationalism to sell your point...  KingChicken   Jan-14-05 12:16 PM   #41 
              - Stop using sensationalism to sell your point  lwfern   Jan-14-05 12:19 PM   #43 
              - Do you have any suggestions? What's the solution?  KingChicken   Jan-14-05 12:30 PM   #45 
                 - The statistics say I'm right  lwfern   Jan-14-05 01:30 PM   #48 
              - Stop using ignorance to ignore reality.  IdaBriggs   Jan-15-05 08:08 AM   #49 
              - Deleted message  Name removed   Jan-17-05 11:35 AM   #51 
                 - That IS what happens  lwfern   Jan-17-05 04:54 PM   #55 
              - Your friend needs a lawyer.  hickman1937   Jan-17-05 02:52 PM   #53 
  - If you have never dealt with the system do not speak of it.  sarcasmo   Jan-16-05 06:53 PM   #50 
  - Michigan is NOT the toughest in the Union  lwfern   Jan-17-05 05:03 PM   #56 
  - Maybe both abortion and murder should be easier....  stavka   Jan-17-05 09:30 PM   #57 
  - When the child support gestapo comes to your door then talk to me.  sarcasmo   Jan-25-05 10:03 AM   #58 
     - hopefully you love your kid  lwfern   Jan-25-05 03:30 PM   #59 
        - Love for my kid is not in question, If you have kids and Divorce then your  sarcasmo   Jan-26-05 08:52 AM   #60 
           - Kids don't "become" a case number  lwfern   Jan-26-05 11:37 AM   #62 
              - Friend of the Court does nothing right away, LMFAO.  sarcasmo   Jan-27-05 09:32 AM   #63 
                 - You think I haven't dealt with them?  lwfern   Jan-27-05 12:52 PM   #64 
                    - where is my childs house,i pay for?  bummer   May-31-07 12:10 PM   #65 
  - methinks thou dost protest too much!  Scout   Jan-26-05 11:09 AM   #61 
  - If they throw you in jail  michreject   Jun-02-07 07:52 AM   #66 
  - I worked for a temp agency once, in their office, and it is bad.  knitter4democracy   Jun-05-07 09:10 PM   #69 
  - His children continue to live regardless of the situation. Something  MrsGrumpy   Jun-13-07 06:19 AM   #70 
  - I read through all the posts and he is blaming the woman for not taking the pill  LisaM   Jun-14-07 01:24 PM   #71 
     - Birth Control Responsibility  michiganlady   Mar-18-08 12:08 PM   #90 
        - Welcome to D/U and enjoy the many great forums.  sarcasmo   Mar-21-08 10:14 AM   #99 
  - Child Support Laws ARE unreasonable...  dlcloum31   Jul-21-07 06:34 PM   #73 
  - Seven children is a lot to support.  lwfern   Jul-21-07 11:52 PM   #75 
  - Here is a math suggestion for you --  IdaBriggs   Jul-27-07 10:33 AM   #76 
  - no math suggestion!  dlcloum31   Jul-30-07 08:11 PM   #79 
     - It doesn't sound to me like your husband's getting screwed by the state  lwfern   Jul-31-07 12:03 PM   #80 
     - You can whine all you want -- I think the situation is perfectly reasonable.  IdaBriggs   Jul-31-07 05:06 PM   #81 
        - I would hardly say I am selfish...  dlcloum31   Aug-03-07 07:21 PM   #83 
           - I will expain to you once more why I think YOU are selfish.  IdaBriggs   Aug-05-07 09:31 AM   #84 
           - your whole attitude DRIPS selfishness and now you're trying to play the martyr...  Scout   Aug-05-07 10:27 AM   #85 
           - It does look a little selfish  lwfern   Aug-06-07 09:43 AM   #86 
  - Lots of whining in here ...  Scout   Jul-27-07 11:51 AM   #77 
  - Why do so many people have children they can't afford?  skipos   Jul-28-07 03:30 PM   #78 
  - Sounds like an argument for just not having kids at all  bluestateguy   Aug-01-07 08:05 PM   #82 
  - My Son turned 18 on Friday, I am done!  sarcasmo   Sep-01-07 06:05 PM   #87 
  - Hopefully if he needs help  lwfern   Sep-01-07 07:00 PM   #88 
     - Done with the Court system. Does that sound better for you?  sarcasmo   Sep-02-07 03:43 PM   #89 
  - Mothers pay child support as well - I am one of them n/t  addreamgirl   Mar-26-08 12:05 PM   #100 
  - We never had to wait "months" for a "hearing"  noamnety   Jan-26-10 05:48 PM   #105 
  - To all of those who want to jail someone over the almighty dollar  Chucky_The_Freak   Feb-07-10 12:48 AM   #106 
  - Mike Cox is that you?  sarcasmo   Nov-15-10 09:05 AM   #110 
  - Deleted message  Name removed   Oct-29-10 08:28 PM   #107 
  - Deleted message  Name removed   Nov-01-10 09:26 PM   #108 
  - Hello  Lions_fan   Nov-14-10 03:57 PM   #109 

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