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Azlady Donating Member (889 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Oct-05-08 06:51 PM
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82. Boy its a tough one..
I'm in your shoes as well right now. Saying that Obama is a racist, muslim ratical, etc, etc. I was going to do the samething... just send her links from Snopes but have not done so yet. I know I must respond to her, but in what manner. She is not only a friend but a long time client for contract work, not in the past several months though. I did not want this happen but it did. I am enraged that she would say the things she did, she is a very smart person, so to hear her rattle this stuff off was a total shock. I've not made up my mind what I am going to do yet...
I feel your anger, pain, frustration & confusion & fear as well.
Joy
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  -I am so pissed, but want to vent before doing something I will regret. Rainbowreflect  Oct-05-08 05:11 PM   #0 
  - Do it.  Whalestoe   Oct-05-08 05:12 PM   #1 
  - Do you have a pumpkin?  hisownpetard   Oct-05-08 05:12 PM   #2 
  - Tell your friend first  ibegurpard   Oct-05-08 05:12 PM   #3 
  - I did that already. He said she doesn't like the "reply all".  Rainbowreflect   Oct-05-08 05:13 PM   #10 
     - Well then let it fly.  ibegurpard   Oct-05-08 05:14 PM   #14 
     - Agreed. You will be doing him a favor. Her and the horse she rode in on.  faygokid   Oct-05-08 05:28 PM   #39 
     - That's tough shit for her.  morillon   Oct-05-08 06:27 PM   #74 
     - Then she shouldn't send things like that out, knowing it would upset you. n/t  progressivebydesign   Oct-05-08 06:46 PM   #80 
  - I wouldn't hesitate to send snopes to anyone...I do it all the time...friends and family  Demi_Babe   Oct-05-08 05:12 PM   #4 
  - Seconded. I always send Snopes.com links.  esuna   Oct-05-08 05:26 PM   #35 
  - Ask your friend to tell her to stop sending you stuff.  Curtland1015   Oct-05-08 05:12 PM   #5 
  - A true friend would send the correct info immediately  rocknation   Oct-05-08 05:13 PM   #6 
  - just get of the person's list  dsc   Oct-05-08 05:13 PM   #7 
  - I'd never forgive myself if I did not respond with the truth.  tblue   Oct-05-08 05:13 PM   #8 
  - Let her have it and hit "Reply All."  Oregonian   Oct-05-08 05:13 PM   #9 
  - Yep. "Reply All." You might just win over some Obama votes.  tblue   Oct-05-08 05:14 PM   #15 
  - That's what I've done when I've gotten those. I'm never rude about it  Lorien   Oct-05-08 06:20 PM   #69 
  - "Hey Jane, I got your email and I know you are not the kind of person who would intentionally  renie408   Oct-05-08 05:13 PM   #11 
  - That's what I would do  Mz Pip   Oct-05-08 05:19 PM   #25 
  - I vote for this one  Voice for Peace   Oct-05-08 05:21 PM   #30 
  - that's a very nice answer  renate   Oct-05-08 05:24 PM   #31 
  - Thanks. But I am sure my freeper sister would NOT agree with that...  renie408   Oct-05-08 06:20 PM   #68 
     - I love that response!  BlueGirlRedState   Oct-05-08 06:26 PM   #71 
     - she must not have a sense of humor at all  renate   Oct-05-08 06:26 PM   #73 
        - My husband is fuming. He says she deserves no apology ESPECIALLY  renie408   Oct-05-08 06:45 PM   #78 
  - Yup.  quakerboy   Oct-05-08 05:53 PM   #52 
  - Great reply!  Kajsa   Oct-05-08 06:50 PM   #81 
  - Just "Block Sender"...Solved all of my problems....n/t  monmouth   Oct-05-08 05:13 PM   #12 
  - Send the snopes link to your friend and add the Republican to your spam filter.  billyoc   Oct-05-08 05:14 PM   #13 
  - If this woman had an iota of respect for you, or your friend whom she is dating  thecatburgler   Oct-05-08 05:14 PM   #16 
  - Send her the Rolling Stone article.  Vinca   Oct-05-08 05:14 PM   #17 
  - Just send her a short but polite email  smoogatz   Oct-05-08 05:14 PM   #18 
  - You are a true diplomat!  sunnybrook   Oct-05-08 05:24 PM   #33 
  - Maybe you could do it in a nice way.  CJCRANE   Oct-05-08 05:14 PM   #19 
  - I am thinking that is what I will do.  Rainbowreflect   Oct-05-08 05:18 PM   #24 
  - Yes. It's important to stop malicious rumors and tell the truth  The Wielding Truth   Oct-05-08 05:29 PM   #42 
  - I'm in a similar situation, and I'm sure this is not the answer.  RufusEarl   Oct-05-08 05:16 PM   #20 
  - do it and send it to the entire list she sent it to  CreekDog   Oct-05-08 05:16 PM   #21 
  - Send her this link, and say no more.  1corona4u   Oct-05-08 05:17 PM   #22 
  - That's a forceful speech!  CJCRANE   Oct-05-08 06:04 PM   #60 
  - Block sender, check as spam or bounce nt  Lost-in-FL   Oct-05-08 05:17 PM   #23 
  - I'd send her the link and tell her to get the facts straight.  TheDonkey   Oct-05-08 05:19 PM   #26 
  - I see no problem with sending her the true facts.  Beregond2   Oct-05-08 05:19 PM   #27 
  - If she knows your stand on the issues, and she sent that email to you anyways...  KathieG   Oct-05-08 05:19 PM   #28 
  - Your friend needs to dump this woman or take her on a hunting  rzemanfl   Oct-05-08 05:19 PM   #29 
  - Maybe your friend put her up to it, just for a laugh?  mtnsnake   Oct-05-08 05:24 PM   #32 
  - He know my sense of humor better than that.  Rainbowreflect   Oct-05-08 05:43 PM   #49 
  - reply to her that political discussion is 100% off limits  natrat   Oct-05-08 05:25 PM   #34 
  - What if the siutation were reversed?  Bonn1997   Oct-05-08 05:26 PM   #36 
  - Correct her on her lies that she is spreading and then let her  firedupdem   Oct-05-08 05:26 PM   #37 
  - I'm sorry, I wouldn't care.  Libby2   Oct-05-08 05:28 PM   #38 
  - ALWAYS ALWAYS ALWAYS: Replay to All and DEBUNK  IWantAnyDem   Oct-05-08 05:29 PM   #40 
  - Plus which, she's a dodo for failing to blind the addresses.  mahina   Oct-05-08 05:32 PM   #45 
  - Just block her  blogslut   Oct-05-08 05:29 PM   #41 
  - She already gave you a big F-U by sending it to you in the first place  rvablue   Oct-05-08 05:30 PM   #43 
  - Open a new email account, add the recipients to your address book, forward the email to yourself,  mahina   Oct-05-08 05:31 PM   #44 
  - I like your idea. Thanks!  Rainbowreflect   Oct-05-08 05:37 PM   #46 
     - Forward it to me, I'll hit Reply All for you.  mwooldri   Oct-05-08 05:56 PM   #56 
     - Sure!  mahina   Oct-05-08 06:22 PM   #70 
  - I decide who I stay friends with based on  Teaser   Oct-05-08 05:38 PM   #47 
  - If it was just her and I involved, I would. But there is my husband  Rainbowreflect   Oct-05-08 05:42 PM   #48 
  - Send the snopes link.  Left Is Write   Oct-05-08 05:46 PM   #50 
  - What I do with any R friends I have -  Mother Of Four   Oct-05-08 05:47 PM   #51 
  - SEND THIS  HopeforChange   Oct-05-08 05:53 PM   #53 
  - I just did that...  Rainngirl   Oct-05-08 05:55 PM   #54 
  - Once they open the door (no matter who they are), I fire back  progressiveforever   Oct-05-08 05:56 PM   #55 
  - Email articles back to her about McCain back to her headed "McCain is dangerously unstable liar!"  ClarkUSA   Oct-05-08 05:58 PM   #57 
  - You MUST Reply To All and debunk it.  crispini   Oct-05-08 06:00 PM   #58 
  - Just send the link  stillcool47   Oct-05-08 06:04 PM   #59 
  - Tell her that you are glad that she sent you the email because that gives you the opportunity to  No Elephants   Oct-05-08 06:08 PM   #61 
  - Why would it make things difficult for your friend?  Erin Elizabeth   Oct-05-08 06:10 PM   #62 
  - I am just incredulous at these conservative Stepfords by now,  Waiting For Everyman   Oct-05-08 06:12 PM   #63 
  - She sent the email...  ljm2002   Oct-05-08 06:12 PM   #64 
  - give out her e-mail address to all spammers you can think of  crazy_vanilla   Oct-05-08 06:15 PM   #65 
  - Do it. It's past the time of 'politely' ignoring conservative idiots in order to not 'rock the boat'  kineta   Oct-05-08 06:17 PM   #66 
  - Yes, that's what seems to give them so much power  treestar   Oct-05-08 06:53 PM   #83 
  - ps - don't attack her directly, or even use the word 'you' in your response to her  kineta   Oct-05-08 06:18 PM   #67 
  - She already crossed the line by sending hateful lies to you.  morillon   Oct-05-08 06:26 PM   #72 
  - Politely say.. for the sake of peace, please refrain...  Ramius   Oct-05-08 06:28 PM   #75 
  - DO IT  sampsonblk   Oct-05-08 06:33 PM   #76 
  - It's not worth the conflict but you can counter with clips of Baracks finest moments at least in >  barack the house   Oct-05-08 06:40 PM   #77 
  - You can politely reply with all of the Snopes FACTS. If she took it upon herself to send you that...  progressivebydesign   Oct-05-08 06:45 PM   #79 
  - Boy its a tough one..  Azlady   Oct-05-08 06:51 PM   #82 
  - She's causing problems with your friend, not you. n/t  rucky   Oct-05-08 06:54 PM   #84 
  - Reply by telling her you'll see to it that she gets decent treatment in the re-education camps.  Ragazz68   Oct-05-08 06:57 PM   #85 
  - I send Snopes all the time.  donco6   Oct-05-08 06:59 PM   #86 
  - do it  Leeny   Oct-05-08 06:59 PM   #87 
 

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