Azlady
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Sun Oct-05-08 06:51 PM
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| 82. Boy its a tough one.. |
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I'm in your shoes as well right now. Saying that Obama is a racist, muslim ratical, etc, etc. I was going to do the samething... just send her links from Snopes but have not done so yet. I know I must respond to her, but in what manner. She is not only a friend but a long time client for contract work, not in the past several months though. I did not want this happen but it did. I am enraged that she would say the things she did, she is a very smart person, so to hear her rattle this stuff off was a total shock. I've not made up my mind what I am going to do yet... I feel your anger, pain, frustration & confusion & fear as well. Joy
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| -I am so pissed, but want to vent before doing something I will regret. |
Rainbowreflect |
Oct-05-08 05:11 PM |
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Do it. |
Whalestoe |
Oct-05-08 05:12 PM |
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Do you have a pumpkin? |
hisownpetard |
Oct-05-08 05:12 PM |
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Tell your friend first |
ibegurpard |
Oct-05-08 05:12 PM |
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I did that already. He said she doesn't like the "reply all". |
Rainbowreflect |
Oct-05-08 05:13 PM |
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Well then let it fly. |
ibegurpard |
Oct-05-08 05:14 PM |
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Agreed. You will be doing him a favor. Her and the horse she rode in on. |
faygokid |
Oct-05-08 05:28 PM |
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That's tough shit for her. |
morillon |
Oct-05-08 06:27 PM |
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Then she shouldn't send things like that out, knowing it would upset you. n/t |
progressivebydesign |
Oct-05-08 06:46 PM |
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I wouldn't hesitate to send snopes to anyone...I do it all the time...friends and family |
Demi_Babe |
Oct-05-08 05:12 PM |
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Seconded. I always send Snopes.com links. |
esuna |
Oct-05-08 05:26 PM |
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Ask your friend to tell her to stop sending you stuff. |
Curtland1015 |
Oct-05-08 05:12 PM |
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A true friend would send the correct info immediately |
rocknation |
Oct-05-08 05:13 PM |
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just get of the person's list |
dsc |
Oct-05-08 05:13 PM |
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I'd never forgive myself if I did not respond with the truth. |
tblue |
Oct-05-08 05:13 PM |
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Let her have it and hit "Reply All." |
Oregonian |
Oct-05-08 05:13 PM |
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Yep. "Reply All." You might just win over some Obama votes. |
tblue |
Oct-05-08 05:14 PM |
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That's what I've done when I've gotten those. I'm never rude about it |
Lorien |
Oct-05-08 06:20 PM |
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"Hey Jane, I got your email and I know you are not the kind of person who would intentionally |
renie408 |
Oct-05-08 05:13 PM |
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That's what I would do |
Mz Pip |
Oct-05-08 05:19 PM |
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I vote for this one |
Voice for Peace |
Oct-05-08 05:21 PM |
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that's a very nice answer |
renate |
Oct-05-08 05:24 PM |
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Thanks. But I am sure my freeper sister would NOT agree with that... |
renie408 |
Oct-05-08 06:20 PM |
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I love that response! |
BlueGirlRedState |
Oct-05-08 06:26 PM |
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she must not have a sense of humor at all |
renate |
Oct-05-08 06:26 PM |
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My husband is fuming. He says she deserves no apology ESPECIALLY |
renie408 |
Oct-05-08 06:45 PM |
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Yup. |
quakerboy |
Oct-05-08 05:53 PM |
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Great reply! |
Kajsa |
Oct-05-08 06:50 PM |
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Just "Block Sender"...Solved all of my problems....n/t |
monmouth |
Oct-05-08 05:13 PM |
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Send the snopes link to your friend and add the Republican to your spam filter. |
billyoc |
Oct-05-08 05:14 PM |
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If this woman had an iota of respect for you, or your friend whom she is dating |
thecatburgler |
Oct-05-08 05:14 PM |
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Send her the Rolling Stone article. |
Vinca |
Oct-05-08 05:14 PM |
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Just send her a short but polite email |
smoogatz |
Oct-05-08 05:14 PM |
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You are a true diplomat! |
sunnybrook |
Oct-05-08 05:24 PM |
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Maybe you could do it in a nice way. |
CJCRANE |
Oct-05-08 05:14 PM |
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I am thinking that is what I will do. |
Rainbowreflect |
Oct-05-08 05:18 PM |
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Yes. It's important to stop malicious rumors and tell the truth |
The Wielding Truth |
Oct-05-08 05:29 PM |
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I'm in a similar situation, and I'm sure this is not the answer. |
RufusEarl |
Oct-05-08 05:16 PM |
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do it and send it to the entire list she sent it to |
CreekDog |
Oct-05-08 05:16 PM |
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Send her this link, and say no more. |
1corona4u |
Oct-05-08 05:17 PM |
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That's a forceful speech! |
CJCRANE |
Oct-05-08 06:04 PM |
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Block sender, check as spam or bounce nt |
Lost-in-FL |
Oct-05-08 05:17 PM |
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I'd send her the link and tell her to get the facts straight. |
TheDonkey |
Oct-05-08 05:19 PM |
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I see no problem with sending her the true facts. |
Beregond2 |
Oct-05-08 05:19 PM |
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If she knows your stand on the issues, and she sent that email to you anyways... |
KathieG |
Oct-05-08 05:19 PM |
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Your friend needs to dump this woman or take her on a hunting |
rzemanfl |
Oct-05-08 05:19 PM |
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Maybe your friend put her up to it, just for a laugh? |
mtnsnake |
Oct-05-08 05:24 PM |
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He know my sense of humor better than that. |
Rainbowreflect |
Oct-05-08 05:43 PM |
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reply to her that political discussion is 100% off limits |
natrat |
Oct-05-08 05:25 PM |
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What if the siutation were reversed? |
Bonn1997 |
Oct-05-08 05:26 PM |
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Correct her on her lies that she is spreading and then let her |
firedupdem |
Oct-05-08 05:26 PM |
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I'm sorry, I wouldn't care. |
Libby2 |
Oct-05-08 05:28 PM |
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ALWAYS ALWAYS ALWAYS: Replay to All and DEBUNK |
IWantAnyDem |
Oct-05-08 05:29 PM |
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Plus which, she's a dodo for failing to blind the addresses. |
mahina |
Oct-05-08 05:32 PM |
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Just block her |
blogslut |
Oct-05-08 05:29 PM |
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She already gave you a big F-U by sending it to you in the first place |
rvablue |
Oct-05-08 05:30 PM |
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Open a new email account, add the recipients to your address book, forward the email to yourself, |
mahina |
Oct-05-08 05:31 PM |
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I like your idea. Thanks! |
Rainbowreflect |
Oct-05-08 05:37 PM |
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Forward it to me, I'll hit Reply All for you. |
mwooldri |
Oct-05-08 05:56 PM |
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Sure! |
mahina |
Oct-05-08 06:22 PM |
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I decide who I stay friends with based on |
Teaser |
Oct-05-08 05:38 PM |
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If it was just her and I involved, I would. But there is my husband |
Rainbowreflect |
Oct-05-08 05:42 PM |
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Send the snopes link. |
Left Is Write |
Oct-05-08 05:46 PM |
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What I do with any R friends I have - |
Mother Of Four |
Oct-05-08 05:47 PM |
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SEND THIS |
HopeforChange |
Oct-05-08 05:53 PM |
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I just did that... |
Rainngirl |
Oct-05-08 05:55 PM |
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Once they open the door (no matter who they are), I fire back |
progressiveforever |
Oct-05-08 05:56 PM |
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Email articles back to her about McCain back to her headed "McCain is dangerously unstable liar!" |
ClarkUSA |
Oct-05-08 05:58 PM |
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You MUST Reply To All and debunk it. |
crispini |
Oct-05-08 06:00 PM |
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Just send the link |
stillcool47 |
Oct-05-08 06:04 PM |
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Tell her that you are glad that she sent you the email because that gives you the opportunity to |
No Elephants |
Oct-05-08 06:08 PM |
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Why would it make things difficult for your friend? |
Erin Elizabeth |
Oct-05-08 06:10 PM |
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I am just incredulous at these conservative Stepfords by now, |
Waiting For Everyman |
Oct-05-08 06:12 PM |
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She sent the email... |
ljm2002 |
Oct-05-08 06:12 PM |
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give out her e-mail address to all spammers you can think of |
crazy_vanilla |
Oct-05-08 06:15 PM |
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Do it. It's past the time of 'politely' ignoring conservative idiots in order to not 'rock the boat' |
kineta |
Oct-05-08 06:17 PM |
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Yes, that's what seems to give them so much power |
treestar |
Oct-05-08 06:53 PM |
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ps - don't attack her directly, or even use the word 'you' in your response to her |
kineta |
Oct-05-08 06:18 PM |
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She already crossed the line by sending hateful lies to you. |
morillon |
Oct-05-08 06:26 PM |
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Politely say.. for the sake of peace, please refrain... |
Ramius |
Oct-05-08 06:28 PM |
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DO IT |
sampsonblk |
Oct-05-08 06:33 PM |
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It's not worth the conflict but you can counter with clips of Baracks finest moments at least in > |
barack the house |
Oct-05-08 06:40 PM |
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You can politely reply with all of the Snopes FACTS. If she took it upon herself to send you that... |
progressivebydesign |
Oct-05-08 06:45 PM |
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Boy its a tough one.. |
Azlady |
Oct-05-08 06:51 PM |
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She's causing problems with your friend, not you. n/t |
rucky |
Oct-05-08 06:54 PM |
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Reply by telling her you'll see to it that she gets decent treatment in the re-education camps. |
Ragazz68 |
Oct-05-08 06:57 PM |
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I send Snopes all the time. |
donco6 |
Oct-05-08 06:59 PM |
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do it |
Leeny |
Oct-05-08 06:59 PM |
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