Reply #54: to be honest, i've seen this from both sides in a scary way-

[bettyellen]

and my point being is both partners have the opportunity to behave in a completely responsible way.
it is not unkown for some people to engage in willful, controlling behaviour, to the point of enslaving others. and "your having my baby whether you want it or not" falls into that for me. both people have consequences to face, imho.
i would rather have died than had a child and give it up to a freak who would knock me up against my wishes. and the case you state sounds a bit too similar.