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Mon Nov-21-11 05:42 PM
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| 33. Butt out. It's really not your business, no matter how hard you try to justify it. |
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You may think you know the status of their marriage, but in fact, you don't. Your friend and his wife are the only people who know what's really going on, and it's not up to you to stick your nose in.
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| -Simple question: You have two married friends. One starts cheating. Do you tell the other? |
Xithras |
Nov-21-11 02:04 PM |
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when they start doing these things they never think what a position they put their |
rurallib |
Nov-21-11 02:22 PM |
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It's not simple and don't be so sure about your friend... |
Phentex |
Nov-21-11 02:24 PM |
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I doubt that. |
Xithras |
Nov-21-11 02:48 PM |
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I would want to know. |
dawg |
Nov-21-11 02:27 PM |
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ugh |
Kali |
Nov-21-11 02:30 PM |
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No, I absolutely don't want to do that. |
Xithras |
Nov-21-11 02:56 PM |
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People don't really know the reality of a marriage unless they're in it |
EFerrari |
Nov-21-11 02:37 PM |
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if you're ok with losing both your friends. i mean it might still be worth it to you |
La Lioness Priyanka |
Nov-21-11 02:52 PM |
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The valient thing to do is inform your pal. That way you are still the pal. |
RedCloud |
Nov-21-11 02:57 PM |
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True, but... |
Xithras |
Nov-21-11 03:06 PM |
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When my wife was cheating on me... |
RedCloud |
Nov-21-11 03:39 PM |
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Just tell him you've heard some rumors. |
dawg |
Nov-21-11 03:08 PM |
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No WAY would I get up in that--in ANY way shape or form. |
davsand |
Nov-21-11 03:10 PM |
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That last bit would be pretty tough. |
Xithras |
Nov-21-11 03:46 PM |
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I called a friend at work and told her to go home immediately where the cheating was in progress. |
AtomicKitten |
Nov-21-11 03:10 PM |
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No, keep out of it. |
elleng |
Nov-21-11 03:12 PM |
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Ditto. n/t |
RebelOne |
Nov-21-11 03:29 PM |
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If you know FOR SURE.... |
BrendaBrick |
Nov-21-11 03:23 PM |
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0% doubt.. (cheaters shouldn't take cellphone photos). |
Xithras |
Nov-21-11 04:15 PM |
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I don't know much about pics and videos on phones but wouldn't the cheater see that your wife |
seaglass |
Nov-22-11 01:58 PM |
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Depends on whether they are both your friends, or just one is your friend. |
jobycom |
Nov-21-11 03:31 PM |
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I wouldn't call either my "best friend". |
Xithras |
Nov-21-11 04:27 PM |
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After reading the above explanation... |
jobycom |
Nov-21-11 06:18 PM |
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Yes. |
Lance_Boyle |
Nov-21-11 03:42 PM |
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that is a pretty sordid tale |
suninvited |
Nov-21-11 04:31 PM |
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Lol, yeah. I gave her a bit of a hard time about that. And I need to learn to summarize. |
Xithras |
Nov-21-11 04:48 PM |
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Yes. She's exposing him to diseases if nothing else, that isn't fair. |
riderinthestorm |
Nov-21-11 04:38 PM |
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No, it's their business |
bigwillq |
Nov-21-11 04:41 PM |
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I think the best approach is to talk her into telling him |
Major Nikon |
Nov-21-11 04:43 PM |
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I'm agreeing with this more and more. |
Xithras |
Nov-21-11 04:59 PM |
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I agree with the first part |
PRETZEL |
Nov-22-11 09:37 AM |
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Um... |
City of Mills |
Nov-21-11 04:55 PM |
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Does it bother you that your wife |
Ptah |
Nov-21-11 05:02 PM |
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Yes. |
Xithras |
Nov-21-11 05:16 PM |
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NO NO NO NO NO ! Been there, done that. |
trof |
Nov-21-11 05:30 PM |
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Butt out. It's really not your business, no matter how hard you try to justify it. |
Bunny |
Nov-21-11 05:42 PM |
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BAM! TRUE. |
trof |
Nov-21-11 06:42 PM |
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Thank YOU, trof! |
Bunny |
Nov-21-11 06:58 PM |
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Two questions. Friend is appropriate gender? Knows what revenge sex is? n/t |
dimbear |
Nov-21-11 07:07 PM |
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Do everybody a favor and stay out. |
pa28 |
Nov-21-11 07:25 PM |
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How would you feel if you later found out the husband got AIDS? |
DebJ |
Nov-21-11 07:36 PM |
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I know right. I can't believe that's not even a consideration for so many on this thread. |
riderinthestorm |
Nov-21-11 07:44 PM |
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How would you feel if you later found out the husband got AIDS? |
DebJ |
Nov-21-11 07:36 PM |
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I did. |
JNelson6563 |
Nov-22-11 08:28 AM |
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You have two married friends. One starts cheating. |
snooper2 |
Nov-22-11 09:42 AM |
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Once the friend asked your wife to lie, she involved her in the affair. |
VenusRising |
Nov-22-11 10:35 AM |
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yep |
Kali |
Nov-22-11 01:40 PM |
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I print the photos as 8x10 glossys... |
Chan790 |
Nov-22-11 01:51 PM |
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This, for me, is 'I'm outta here' territory: it's that never-never world where somebody |
struggle4progress |
Nov-22-11 01:57 PM |
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