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Wed Nov-16-11 08:35 AM
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| 119. that's a LOT of loss, GPV! And grief is rotten for *everyone*! |
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I don't know of anyone who handles it easily. I guess some sublimate it or repress it better than others....... Ha, my little whiney mantra is "grief sucks, grief sucks" thanks for your compassion for Weenie--I didn't mean to derail your focus, just well....we've all been through grief. You say it well when you say we can't always *know* what to protect them from. 
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| -And now we come to the end of the story of Pickles, who went for a final time to the vet today. |
GreenPartyVoter |
Nov-11-11 08:38 PM |
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I am sorry for the loss of your beloved Pickles. |
redwitch |
Nov-11-11 08:42 PM |
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Thank you! She had so much spirit in such a teeny tiny little body. *hugs* |
GreenPartyVoter |
Nov-11-11 08:50 PM |
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My sympathy. |
JohnnyLib2 |
Nov-11-11 08:45 PM |
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Thanks! *hugs* |
GreenPartyVoter |
Nov-11-11 08:50 PM |
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Wonderful pictures and an even WONDERFULLER tribute. |
MiddleFingerMom |
Nov-11-11 08:55 PM |
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Thanks, MFM! Thank goodness you figured out where your kitty was! *hugs* |
GreenPartyVoter |
Nov-11-11 08:57 PM |
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Great memories. |
rurallib |
Nov-11-11 08:55 PM |
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Thank you. I was lucky to have her for so long. She did indeed leave us with so many memories! |
GreenPartyVoter |
Nov-11-11 08:58 PM |
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I am so sorry, GPV. {{hugs}} |
Pool Hall Ace |
Nov-11-11 08:55 PM |
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Thanks, PHA! *hugs* |
GreenPartyVoter |
Nov-11-11 09:01 PM |
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I'm so sorry. :( |
polly7 |
Nov-11-11 09:02 PM |
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Thanks, Polly! |
GreenPartyVoter |
Nov-11-11 09:02 PM |
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I'm so sorry. |
MrsBrady |
Nov-11-11 09:04 PM |
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Thank you *hugs* She will be my baby girl forever and ever. |
GreenPartyVoter |
Nov-11-11 09:06 PM |
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had she been sick long? n/t |
MrsBrady |
Nov-11-11 09:09 PM |
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She was diagnosed with hyperthyroidism a few years ago, and we controlled it with meds as long as we |
GreenPartyVoter |
Nov-11-11 09:16 PM |
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I know the new house gives you lots to do |
MrsBrady |
Nov-11-11 09:22 PM |
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Yes, it will keep us busy for quite a while. The kids are already talking about kittens, because |
GreenPartyVoter |
Nov-11-11 09:24 PM |
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that's a good idea. |
MrsBrady |
Nov-11-11 09:25 PM |
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Yeah, I think it'll be for the best that way. Plus, we'll need time to kittenproof the house! It's |
GreenPartyVoter |
Nov-11-11 09:27 PM |
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her story sounds like my Tabby |
tabbycat31 |
Nov-14-11 09:25 PM |
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Apparently it's a common ailment in older kittehs. :^( I couldn't afford the surgery, so we |
GreenPartyVoter |
Nov-15-11 04:47 PM |
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Such a sweet kitty - RIP, Pickles. |
The Velveteen Ocelot |
Nov-11-11 09:12 PM |
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Thank you. She was surely was. |
GreenPartyVoter |
Nov-11-11 09:17 PM |
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So beautiful |
begin_within |
Nov-11-11 09:31 PM |
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Thank you! I wonder sometimes what happened to the rest of her family. They were all |
GreenPartyVoter |
Nov-11-11 09:37 PM |
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I am so sorry you had to say goodbye to your beloved Pickles. Safe passage to her |
Flaxbee |
Nov-11-11 09:32 PM |
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Thank you! *hugs* It is so dreadfully hard. Luckily I have a huggy kid who |
GreenPartyVoter |
Nov-11-11 09:38 PM |
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She was such a precious baby! |
CaliforniaPeggy |
Nov-11-11 09:36 PM |
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Thanks, Peggy! *hugs* My little photographer took the last few photos of her, and I am so |
GreenPartyVoter |
Nov-11-11 09:40 PM |
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Sorry for your loss GPV. They really do wrap themselves around your heart don't they? |
bluesbassman |
Nov-11-11 09:49 PM |
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They sure do! *hugs* |
GreenPartyVoter |
Nov-11-11 09:53 PM |
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I'm so sorry. |
GoCubsGo |
Nov-11-11 10:19 PM |
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It crept up on us, and then hit her, WHAM! She weighed 4 and a half pounds today at the vet, she |
GreenPartyVoter |
Nov-11-11 10:27 PM |
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My kitty was down to 3 lbs. |
GoCubsGo |
Nov-12-11 06:42 PM |
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They certainly do. I thought I had learned my lesson with Pretzel about |
GreenPartyVoter |
Nov-12-11 08:53 PM |
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So sorry, she was a beautiful girl - |
haele |
Nov-11-11 10:27 PM |
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Thanks, Haele! *hugs* How could someone so tiny make such a huge tear in my heart? |
GreenPartyVoter |
Nov-12-11 11:47 AM |
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I'm so sorry! What a sweet kitty! |
Odin2005 |
Nov-11-11 10:48 PM |
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Thanks, Odin. She really was such a sweet little girl. |
GreenPartyVoter |
Nov-12-11 11:47 AM |
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Hassin Bin Sober |
Nov-11-11 10:54 PM |
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Thank you. *cries too* |
GreenPartyVoter |
Nov-12-11 11:48 AM |
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have a good rest Pickles |
Bombero1956 |
Nov-11-11 11:37 PM |
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Thank you for that lovely thought! |
GreenPartyVoter |
Nov-12-11 11:49 AM |
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what a beautiful girl |
fizzgig |
Nov-12-11 12:12 AM |
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Thanks, Fizzgig. She had the most amazing green eyes, and they were so huge on her. I used to call |
GreenPartyVoter |
Nov-12-11 11:50 AM |
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that last picture is wonderful |
suninvited |
Nov-12-11 12:54 AM |
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Yes, it's so hard when they have been a part of your life for so long. We got her for our first |
GreenPartyVoter |
Nov-12-11 11:53 AM |
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You provided her with a great life. My deepest sympathy for your loss. |
Liberal Veteran |
Nov-12-11 10:17 AM |
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Thank you! *hugs* |
GreenPartyVoter |
Nov-12-11 11:53 AM |
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Skittles |
Nov-12-11 11:40 AM |
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Aw, Skittles. You just completely wrecked me. *bawling* |
GreenPartyVoter |
Nov-12-11 11:54 AM |
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it was on the card my vet sent me when my beloved kitty LB was put to sleep |
Skittles |
Nov-12-11 06:35 PM |
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That was very thoughtful of the vet. We have also been lucky in having kind |
GreenPartyVoter |
Nov-12-11 08:54 PM |
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Skittles |
Nov-12-11 06:33 PM |
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Damn, you both got me.... |
OneGrassRoot |
Nov-12-11 07:41 PM |
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Thank you for your hugs, and for reading about my little girl cat. *hugs* |
GreenPartyVoter |
Nov-12-11 08:55 PM |
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RIP Pickles - nt |
Ohio Joe |
Nov-12-11 11:58 AM |
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Thank you! |
GreenPartyVoter |
Nov-12-11 04:34 PM |
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So sorry for your loss! |
BiggJawn |
Nov-12-11 12:25 PM |
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Thank you. She was a really beautful girl. Very graceful and elegant, even for a cat. :^) |
GreenPartyVoter |
Nov-12-11 08:56 PM |
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I feel your pain. It is heartbreaking to lose a pet that is a member of your family. |
RebelOne |
Nov-12-11 12:46 PM |
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Thank you. I still miss Pretzel, but the pain is less now. I am sure it will be the same |
GreenPartyVoter |
Nov-12-11 08:58 PM |
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Heartfelt condolences |
Dystopian |
Nov-12-11 12:56 PM |
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Thank you so much! *hugs* I miss her terribly. She was so little, I carried her around like a baby |
GreenPartyVoter |
Nov-12-11 09:00 PM |
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I'm sorry for your loss |
Hayabusa |
Nov-12-11 07:29 PM |
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Thank you very much for taking the time to read it. :^) |
GreenPartyVoter |
Nov-13-11 08:37 AM |
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Sounds like Pickles had tons of character. What a priviledge to be owned by a cat like that. |
applegrove |
Nov-12-11 07:55 PM |
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An extreme priviledge! :^) |
GreenPartyVoter |
Nov-13-11 08:38 AM |
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what a good old girl. |
peacefreak |
Nov-12-11 08:06 PM |
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We did, and I am so glad we had each other. :^) |
GreenPartyVoter |
Nov-13-11 08:38 AM |
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I'm so, so sorry. |
Withywindle |
Nov-12-11 08:10 PM |
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Thank you. *hugs* I can't imagine what life would have been like without my furbabies. |
GreenPartyVoter |
Nov-13-11 08:39 AM |
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I am so sorry..... |
Tikki |
Nov-12-11 08:25 PM |
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Thank you! *hugs* It is very, very hard. |
GreenPartyVoter |
Nov-13-11 06:29 PM |
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aww Pickles was a pretty thing |
Kali |
Nov-12-11 09:15 PM |
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Thank you! I think hubby had just removed them, and she recognized a warm spot. LOL |
GreenPartyVoter |
Nov-13-11 06:30 PM |
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I am SO sorry, GreenPartyVoter. |
muffin1 |
Nov-12-11 09:31 PM |
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Thank you so much! *hugs* |
GreenPartyVoter |
Nov-13-11 06:30 PM |
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Beautiful little baby. She was loved and had a good life. Sorry for your loss. |
amyrose2712 |
Nov-12-11 09:36 PM |
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Thank you. She really was a beautiful baby girl. I miss having her around. :^( |
GreenPartyVoter |
Nov-13-11 06:31 PM |
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Love is where you find it....I think Pickles found it..... |
Rowdyboy |
Nov-12-11 10:06 PM |
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Thank you for that beautiful thought! |
GreenPartyVoter |
Nov-13-11 06:32 PM |
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So sorry - hang on to the memories. |
emilyg |
Nov-12-11 11:16 PM |
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Thank you. I surely will. :^) |
GreenPartyVoter |
Nov-13-11 06:32 PM |
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What a great life she had! Thanks for the tribute. |
Patiod |
Nov-13-11 09:20 AM |
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Thank you. :^) I used to do that, too, when I read about a DUer whose animal friend had |
GreenPartyVoter |
Nov-13-11 06:34 PM |
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Oh, no. Poor sweet baby |
WildEyedLiberal |
Nov-13-11 09:48 PM |
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Oh, yes, I remember those years away from home when the childhood pets couldn't |
GreenPartyVoter |
Nov-14-11 11:45 AM |
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I'm so very sorry for your loss |
TorchTheWitch |
Nov-14-11 03:00 AM |
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Thank you! *hugs* |
GreenPartyVoter |
Nov-14-11 11:45 AM |
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What a lovely tribute to Pickles! |
cherish44 |
Nov-14-11 07:19 AM |
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Thank you. *hugs* I am so sorry that Elmer is also gone. :^( |
GreenPartyVoter |
Nov-14-11 11:46 AM |
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She will always live in your heart. |
hifiguy |
Nov-14-11 09:45 AM |
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Thanks, hifiguy. *hugs* You are right on both counts. I will keep her memories always. The kids are |
GreenPartyVoter |
Nov-14-11 11:47 AM |
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What a sweety! |
Mendocino |
Nov-14-11 05:56 PM |
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Thank you! *hugs* I am so sorry that your pup is not doing well. :^( |
GreenPartyVoter |
Nov-15-11 12:03 PM |
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Awwww what an adorable sweetie......Grieve..... |
BlancheSplanchnik |
Nov-14-11 06:54 PM |
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Thank you. Grieving is hard for me. In the past 7 years I have lost both my parents, both my cats |
GreenPartyVoter |
Nov-15-11 12:13 PM |
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that's a LOT of loss, GPV! And grief is rotten for *everyone*! |
BlancheSplanchnik |
Nov-16-11 08:35 AM |
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Yeah, a lot of grief, and a lot of weight gained. That's how I sublimate it. *sigh* |
GreenPartyVoter |
Nov-16-11 11:23 AM |
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I'm sorry for your loss. |
geardaddy |
Nov-15-11 01:02 PM |
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Thank you! She was indeed. :^) |
GreenPartyVoter |
Nov-15-11 04:44 PM |
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So sorry for your loss. n/t |
ceile |
Nov-15-11 01:16 PM |
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Thank you, ceile. |
GreenPartyVoter |
Nov-15-11 04:44 PM |
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I went back and read about Pretzel. |
ceile |
Nov-15-11 04:54 PM |
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They really were. It's hard to believe anyone could just abandon them, but |
GreenPartyVoter |
Nov-15-11 06:41 PM |
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What a lovely cat. I'm sorry for your loss. :hug: nt |
raccoon |
Nov-15-11 02:46 PM |
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Thanks. She was my little beauty. :^) |
GreenPartyVoter |
Nov-15-11 04:45 PM |
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Very sorry for your loss. Letting every fur-kid go is hard. I wonder why they can't have |
sinkingfeeling |
Nov-15-11 02:58 PM |
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Thank you. I wish they did live as long as we do. :^( |
GreenPartyVoter |
Nov-15-11 04:45 PM |
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So sorry - my Tater Tot, Hannah, and 33 ferrets are showing her the good stuff on the other side. |
mikeytherat |
Nov-15-11 03:01 PM |
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Pickles has never met a ferret before. This ought to be interesting! :^D |
GreenPartyVoter |
Nov-15-11 04:46 PM |
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Ferrets are like permanent kittens. She'll have a ball! |
mikeytherat |
Nov-16-11 08:00 AM |
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So cute! LOL |
GreenPartyVoter |
Nov-16-11 11:22 AM |
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Awww.....Damn it. |
tblue |
Nov-15-11 04:50 PM |
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Thank you. *hugs* We did have another one, but he actually predeceased Pickles by nearly a year. I |
GreenPartyVoter |
Nov-15-11 06:43 PM |
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Ah, so sorry |
TuxedoKat |
Nov-15-11 06:52 PM |
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Thank you! *hugs* |
GreenPartyVoter |
Nov-15-11 07:13 PM |
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I am so sorry about Pickles |
ellie |
Nov-15-11 06:56 PM |
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Thank you, ellie. I am sorry your own heart is breaking too. *hugs* |
GreenPartyVoter |
Nov-15-11 07:13 PM |
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i had a friend once,her name was kelsey |
SwampG8r |
Nov-16-11 12:02 PM |
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Thanks. I think the blues would be just the ticket these days! (I'm sorry you lost your furkid too) |
GreenPartyVoter |
Nov-16-11 07:11 PM |
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So sorry about your baby. |
pinstikfartherin |
Nov-16-11 07:55 PM |
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Thank you. :^) |
GreenPartyVoter |
Nov-16-11 08:46 PM |
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So sorry on your loss. Clearly, a great one n/t |
Bossy Monkey |
Nov-16-11 09:21 PM |
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Thanks! |
GreenPartyVoter |
Nov-16-11 09:28 PM |
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What a perfectly delightful kitty. |
Enthusiast |
Nov-17-11 08:20 AM |
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Thank you! |
GreenPartyVoter |
Nov-17-11 12:46 PM |
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I'm sorry for your loss, I hope her trip across Brifrost was gentle |
Tyrs WolfDaemon |
Nov-17-11 08:54 AM |
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That is a lovely piece of art, Tyrs. |
hifiguy |
Nov-17-11 09:19 AM |
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I wish I could say I drew it, but alas I didn't. |
Tyrs WolfDaemon |
Nov-17-11 09:59 AM |
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Dupe |
Tyrs WolfDaemon |
Nov-17-11 10:00 AM |
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Thanks! I do think she would be happier with Freya than with Bast, being a Maine cat and all. |
GreenPartyVoter |
Nov-17-11 12:47 PM |
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