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elleng Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-25-10 11:31 PM
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15. Apt fine, tho frozen pipes caused some water damage, so
Edited on Sat Dec-25-10 11:32 PM by elleng
staying with friend; good excuse to be other-than-alone.

NOT final! S.o.b's been playing games as usual; thought we had agreement Nov. 1, he refused to sign. I rec'd 'final' notice from IRS couple weeks ago, forwarded by him, suggesting he hadn't forwarded ### previous notices, that I owe abt 9,000 for '06; then learned he didn't file jointly for '07 either, tho we'd been doing so for 20+ years, so I'll owe ??? for '07! So your story reminded me!

Seeing tax acct. tues, and looking forward to getting professional assessment + idea what I can add to my new demand in our 'agreement.' W/o agreement, trial scheduled for mid-March. SO, his failure to sign will cost him! S.O.B.

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  -Note to self: stop talking to mother-in-law Pool Hall Ace  Dec-25-10 06:48 PM   #0 
  - Oh, PoolHallAce  LiberalEsto   Dec-25-10 06:52 PM   #1 
  - Thanks hon.  Pool Hall Ace   Dec-25-10 07:14 PM   #3 
  - Remind her that she needs to stop being old and bitchy  REP   Dec-25-10 06:54 PM   #2 
  - Thank you for the laugh! It means a great deal to me.  Pool Hall Ace   Dec-25-10 07:22 PM   #4 
  - Is she making the payments on the house? If not....  Honeycombe8   Dec-25-10 07:42 PM   #5 
  - My husband was not an active drinker when I married him.  Pool Hall Ace   Dec-25-10 09:57 PM   #6 
     - Hitting bottom can save some alcoholics  siligut   Dec-25-10 10:09 PM   #7 
     - I would be perfectly happy if she foreclosed on us.  Pool Hall Ace   Dec-25-10 10:40 PM   #12 
     - "Truth-impaired"? LOL! I love that expression. Otherwise...oh, my.  Honeycombe8   Dec-25-10 10:10 PM   #8 
     - My health is better; thanks for asking. :-)  Pool Hall Ace   Dec-25-10 10:36 PM   #11 
     - There are probably others in the family, so she may know something abt it.  elleng   Dec-25-10 11:36 PM   #16 
     - Now that you mention it . . .  Pool Hall Ace   Dec-25-10 11:47 PM   #18 
        - and blood relatives of your husb, highly likely.  elleng   Dec-25-10 11:51 PM   #19 
     - Next time he's asleep when she calls, wake him up!  pacalo   Dec-25-10 11:54 PM   #20 
        - I am doing everything I can to get out of the situation, and I know  Pool Hall Ace   Dec-26-10 11:19 AM   #21 
           - Dear Ace, we do our best to do the 'right' thing, like tell the truth,  elleng   Dec-26-10 01:52 PM   #24 
     - +1!  pacalo   Dec-25-10 11:45 PM   #17 
     - Well, there's Newt Gingrich, who informed his wife by telephone while she was in the hospital...  NNadir   Dec-26-10 11:42 AM   #23 
        - Egads, is Newt going to run for President?  Pool Hall Ace   Dec-26-10 06:46 PM   #44 
     - No such thing as 'selfish' for you; its your only job at the moment,  elleng   Dec-25-10 10:17 PM   #9 
     - elleng! Is your divorce final?  Pool Hall Ace   Dec-25-10 10:45 PM   #13 
        - Apt fine, tho frozen pipes caused some water damage, so  elleng   Dec-25-10 11:31 PM   #15 
     - Can she? If the deed is in your name?  Lucinda   Dec-25-10 10:30 PM   #10 
     - I believe she can, because she holds the mortgage.  Pool Hall Ace   Dec-25-10 10:48 PM   #14 
        - I don't see how they own the house or hold the mortgage...  Kaleva   Dec-26-10 10:44 PM   #51 
           - I don't recall signing anything.  Pool Hall Ace   Dec-27-10 06:50 PM   #61 
              - My knowledge of real estate law is limited.....  Kaleva   Dec-27-10 10:27 PM   #66 
     - Vibes, hon  kimi   Dec-26-10 11:06 PM   #54 
  - She is paying for her grwn son and DIL's house and expresses concern that he is passed out drunk....  alphafemale   Dec-26-10 11:30 AM   #22 
  - Have you read any of this thread at all except the OP?  hippywife   Dec-26-10 02:19 PM   #25 
     - I read it. Reads like every sob enabling story that's ever been thoughout the arc of time.  alphafemale   Dec-26-10 03:59 PM   #26 
        - Right. Because imposing *your* judgment is so much more useful.  EFerrari   Dec-26-10 04:25 PM   #27 
        - This person doesn't need sympathy.  alphafemale   Dec-26-10 04:30 PM   #30 
           - You have no idea what this person needs.  EFerrari   Dec-26-10 04:32 PM   #31 
           - And you DO know what she needs?  alphafemale   Dec-26-10 05:01 PM   #34 
              - This tough love cr@p is simply one side of dysfunctional relationship, privileged.  EFerrari   Dec-26-10 05:22 PM   #36 
                 - Yeah. Needy dependent friends are so much fun  alphafemale   Dec-26-10 05:26 PM   #37 
                    - What need are you satisfying in this thread  EFerrari   Dec-26-10 05:30 PM   #39 
           - I have been to Al Anon meetings in the past  Pool Hall Ace   Dec-26-10 06:49 PM   #45 
              - and people thought I was being mean to  alphafemale   Dec-26-10 09:43 PM   #48 
                 - Bashing people is not support, it's just bashing. n/t  EFerrari   Dec-27-10 03:42 PM   #58 
        - Beware.  hippywife   Dec-26-10 04:26 PM   #28 
           - hows that?  alphafemale   Dec-26-10 04:37 PM   #32 
              - What do you do when  hippywife   Dec-26-10 04:41 PM   #33 
                 - Because she needs a kick in the ass at this point in her life.  alphafemale   Dec-26-10 05:05 PM   #35 
                    - Why do you feel entitled to intrude on the privacy of PHA's relationship  EFerrari   Dec-26-10 05:29 PM   #38 
                    - But you feel you have the right to by enabling this?  alphafemale   Dec-26-10 05:40 PM   #40 
                       - Attacking other people is not an intervention.  EFerrari   Dec-26-10 06:14 PM   #43 
                    -!  hippywife   Dec-26-10 05:51 PM   #41 
                    - What kind of ass-kicking do you have in mind?  Pool Hall Ace   Dec-26-10 07:10 PM   #46 
                    - Ya know  kimi   Dec-26-10 11:01 PM   #53 
  - My mom would do something like that.  EFerrari   Dec-26-10 04:27 PM   #29 
  - Yeah, that's my beef with her  Pool Hall Ace   Dec-26-10 08:02 PM   #47 
     - Living with practicing alcoholics is traumatizing because they're always  EFerrari   Dec-27-10 03:40 PM   #57 
        - I'm concentrating on me and my puppeh  Pool Hall Ace   Dec-28-10 09:09 AM   #67 
           - Sounds like a good plan to me.  EFerrari   Dec-28-10 03:27 PM   #68 
  - i told my over bearing bigoted mil to get fucked one day....  madrchsod   Dec-26-10 05:58 PM   #42 
  - :(  SalmonChantedEvening   Dec-26-10 09:55 PM   #49 
  - I'd give you a big hug if you were here.  dawg   Dec-26-10 10:17 PM   #50 
  - I think you both need help.  Kaleva   Dec-26-10 10:54 PM   #52 
     - I have no intention of going down with my husband.  Pool Hall Ace   Dec-26-10 11:20 PM   #55 
     - Do you feel like you are stuck with him because you cannot make it on your own?  Kaleva   Dec-26-10 11:59 PM   #56 
     - Yes, I am for the time being.  Pool Hall Ace   Dec-27-10 07:14 PM   #63 
     - I'm sorry you only came here for some much-needed venting  Tsiyu   Dec-27-10 05:58 PM   #60 
        - That's okay. If you're talking about alphafemale, I didn't think she was being mean.  Pool Hall Ace   Dec-27-10 07:06 PM   #62 
           - I know the feeling  Tsiyu   Dec-27-10 08:40 PM   #64 
     - Maybe reading the thread would be a good idea  EFerrari   Dec-27-10 03:50 PM   #59 
        - I've read the thread  Kaleva   Dec-27-10 10:00 PM   #65 

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