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MissHoneychurch Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Nov-08-10 02:34 AM
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71. After reading through the replies
and found out the "best friend since high school" isn't anymore .... I'd say go for it and have fun. Who knows what will become of it.

Been in a similar situation. Between bf of best friend during college and me was a lot of sexual tension. Slept even in the same bed with him and nothing happened (that was AFTER they broke up). A couple years later we did connect in bed ... but it wasn't really that awesome.

And Richard, of course I am jealous of that women :mad:

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  -This is not a joke. I would like your opinions and comments on this situation. Richard Steele  Nov-07-10 08:29 AM   #0 
  - Go for it  lillypaddle   Nov-07-10 09:02 AM   #1 
  - Ditto, nt  Broken_Hero   Nov-07-10 04:12 PM   #52 
  - How awful was the breakup?  hunter   Nov-07-10 09:13 AM   #2 
  - This is true.  woo me with science   Nov-07-10 10:07 AM   #11 
  - Fairly awful. When I said she kicked me out, I meant it literally.  Richard Steele   Nov-07-10 10:08 AM   #12 
     - Wait!!! If THAT is the 2nd, I want to know about FIRST worst break up.  dixiegrrrrl   Nov-07-10 10:35 AM   #14 
     - I said it was MAYBE my second worst breakup ever.  Richard Steele   Nov-07-10 11:23 AM   #20 
     - I take it back  lillypaddle   Nov-07-10 12:18 PM   #25 
     - My advice:  noamnety   Nov-07-10 01:49 PM   #38 
        - I don't talk about women that way. You are really stretching reality there. Welcome to "ignore"  Richard Steele   Nov-07-10 02:30 PM   #41 
  - I would go for it...  driver8   Nov-07-10 09:18 AM   #3 
  - If you're going for Forbidden Fruit, don't go lower than #2. It's the rules.  rug   Nov-07-10 09:42 AM   #4 
  - I'd say no.  zanana1   Nov-07-10 09:47 AM   #5 
  - The key word here is "Ex"  Generic Brad   Nov-07-10 09:53 AM   #6 
  - That's what I'm thinking. I have bent over backward to let her have her space...  Richard Steele   Nov-07-10 10:52 AM   #15 
  - There's a reason  cloudbase   Nov-07-10 09:54 AM   #7 
  - Sounds like fun  rrneck   Nov-07-10 10:01 AM   #8 
  - I like this answer!  tigereye   Nov-07-10 10:57 AM   #17 
  - Have fun!  rbnyc   Nov-07-10 10:03 AM   #9 
  - To me, this has trouble written all over it.  Sweet Freedom   Nov-07-10 10:03 AM   #10 
  - If they both want sloppy seconds...  Phentex   Nov-07-10 03:16 PM   #48 
  - I would say IF you do decide to go for VERY careful. It could be a  madmom   Nov-07-10 10:18 AM   #13 
  - I'd say go for it. The person who should feel moral obligation in this situation is your  snagglepuss   Nov-07-10 01:11 PM   #29 
  - Yes. (No comment. Just yes.) n/t  Chan790   Nov-07-10 10:54 AM   #16 
  - you need a male answers vs female answers here!  tigereye   Nov-07-10 10:58 AM   #18 
  - What's the problem?  LaurenG   Nov-07-10 11:05 AM   #19 
  - Could be trouble  IDemo   Nov-07-10 11:32 AM   #21 
  - tee hee  Richard Steele   Nov-07-10 01:31 PM   #31 
  - Get 'er, dude. But remember...  Iggo   Nov-07-10 11:47 AM   #22 
  - You have no obligation to the ex, so I'd say you're free to do as you will  petronius   Nov-07-10 11:59 AM   #23 
  - If she has you over to her place and fixes you both drinks just out of eyeshot...  MilesColtrane   Nov-07-10 12:01 PM   #24 
  - Are you that hard up for sex?  PassingFair   Nov-07-10 12:23 PM   #26 
  - After reading reply #12,  Rosie1223   Nov-07-10 12:50 PM   #27 
  - Not enough info. Are they still best friends? Makes a big difference.  nolabear   Nov-07-10 12:56 PM   #28 
  - No, they are no longer friends. My EX has dumped all of her old friends.  Richard Steele   Nov-07-10 01:54 PM   #39 
  - Too good to be true? Nah; even a blind squirrel finds an acorn on occasion.  cherokeeprogressive   Nov-07-10 01:21 PM   #30 
  - Off ya go, then.  SalmonChantedEvening   Nov-07-10 01:32 PM   #32 
  - You are so naughty.  Richard Steele   Nov-07-10 01:45 PM   #34 
     - Appointments are available.  SalmonChantedEvening   Nov-07-10 02:41 PM   #45 
        - Sure, but just -TRY- to find a decent-quality 24" wooden ruler these days.  Richard Steele   Nov-07-10 06:01 PM   #60 
           - I have a friend at the local school district.  SalmonChantedEvening   Nov-07-10 06:19 PM   #61 
  - Fuck your ex.  Lucian   Nov-07-10 01:34 PM   #33 
  - knock the bottom out of it!  blueknight   Nov-07-10 01:46 PM   #36 
  - I see what you did there.  Richard Steele   Nov-07-10 01:47 PM   #37 
  - I can't believe you're even contemplating NOT doing it.  flvegan   Nov-07-10 01:45 PM   #35 
  - You do realize that it's probably a TRAP of some sort, right?  Richard Steele   Nov-07-10 02:24 PM   #40 
     - "So, whats a guy supposed to do? "  MilesColtrane   Nov-07-10 02:31 PM   #42 
     - That's what I'm thinking, Miles:Hit it with all I've got, and try to act like I've been there before  Richard Steele   Nov-07-10 02:45 PM   #46 
     - Okay you're getting a little icky here.  nolabear   Nov-07-10 06:28 PM   #62 
        - A little more than a little.  demmiblue   Nov-07-10 06:35 PM   #64 
        - I know. And thanks for appreciating the line. nm  Richard Steele   Nov-07-10 06:36 PM   #65 
  - Life is short. Go have fun. Nt  xchrom   Nov-07-10 02:33 PM   #43 
  - Speaking of "go have fun"....  Richard Steele   Nov-07-10 02:57 PM   #47 
     - I'm here! Let me know if you're around. Nt  xchrom   Nov-07-10 05:12 PM   #58 
  - Go for it! Ex has been out of your life for 2 years & is now a stranger to you.  pacalo   Nov-07-10 02:34 PM   #44 
  - Ask yourself: could this person be even crazier than I am? If the answer is "maybe" or "yes"  struggle4progress   Nov-07-10 03:47 PM   #49 
  - S4P, my dear friend, no one is crazier than I am.  Richard Steele   Nov-07-10 03:58 PM   #51 
     - I try not to assess the sanity of others. I merely told you my own rule: it can be  struggle4progress   Nov-07-10 05:07 PM   #56 
  - Two years after the breakup? She's been non-forbidden fruit for that long. Go for it.  Rabrrrrrr   Nov-07-10 03:53 PM   #50 
  - Damn right! My ex has sure as hell been busy with a lot of women since we split...  Richard Steele   Nov-07-10 04:52 PM   #55 
  - Go for it, Dude.  unhappycamper   Nov-07-10 04:14 PM   #53 
  - I'm wearing a shit-eating grin already, thinking about what MIGHT gonna happen 3 weeks from now.  Richard Steele   Nov-07-10 05:12 PM   #57 
  - Unless your ex  Moondog   Nov-07-10 04:26 PM   #54 
  - sounds like your ex is the one  supernova   Nov-07-10 05:16 PM   #59 
  - Your opinion carries a lot of weight in this matter, since you were on my "Forbidden Fruit" list ..  Richard Steele   Nov-07-10 06:33 PM   #63 
  - How much loyalty can you expect from a woman who would do this  Love Bug   Nov-07-10 06:51 PM   #66 
  - I say she's off the list and on your plate but (if this even matters)  REP   Nov-07-10 08:37 PM   #67 
  - Assuming she's not joking, sounds like she's trying to get revenge  BlueIris   Nov-08-10 01:20 AM   #68 
  - Serious question:  XemaSab   Nov-08-10 01:43 AM   #69 
  - WHAT?! You should be on her list of forbidden fruit, she should be number one on your "to fuck" list  HEyHEY   Nov-08-10 01:57 AM   #70 
  - After reading through the replies  MissHoneychurch   Nov-08-10 02:34 AM   #71 
  - Like everyone sez: This will end badly ...  JustABozoOnThisBus   Nov-08-10 05:55 AM   #72 

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