...that is traveling on that grid? So really there could be millions of different grids if you have millions of different objects? Do I understand that correctly?
I really do appreciate you trying to explain this to me, hopefully it's not a fruitless effort

. I did read such books as why e=mc2 and why we should care as well as watched many documentaries on this but the explaination of gravity I always seem to run in to (the way I understand it) is that it's in a sense flat, which I'm sure is wrong and I think you clarified that for me a bit assuming I'm understanding you correctly.