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lunatica Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Apr-18-10 07:12 PM
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30. Look around at others in the same search
Life really only boils down to doing one's part to create Right Relationships in which the people in the relationship are free to grow in the way that is best for them. It doesn't matter if one is in a relationship with their spouse or their children or their parents and siblings or just friends. It's what is best for each person.

I think you and your partner are doing this. It sounds like you'll both part ways with mutual respect and best wishes and both of you may end up much happier with other people. You might very well continue to be friends. That would be a successful relationship don't you think?
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  -well, looks like my hun and I are incompatible. Next time I'll check for Progressive creds first. BlancheSplanchnik  Apr-18-10 04:34 PM   #0 
  - my condolences.  Lerkfish   Apr-18-10 04:37 PM   #1 
  - thank you Lerkfish....  BlancheSplanchnik   Apr-18-10 04:45 PM   #9 
  - So sorry. I have been there and done that, so I empathize.  BrklynLiberal   Apr-18-10 04:37 PM   #2 
  - thanks BL  BlancheSplanchnik   Apr-18-10 04:52 PM   #15 
     - Stay strong.  BrklynLiberal   Apr-18-10 04:55 PM   #16 
  - Sorry to hear this - it is hard enough to build a relationship when everything matches  csziggy   Apr-18-10 04:38 PM   #3 
  - yeah....I think if more other issues were working,  BlancheSplanchnik   Apr-18-10 04:59 PM   #18 
  - My dear BlancheSplanchnik...  CaliforniaPeggy   Apr-18-10 04:39 PM   #4 
  - Thank you, CaliforniaPeggy  BlancheSplanchnik   Apr-18-10 05:05 PM   #19 
  - One thing I know...if, after 2 1/2 years, you can't live without him..something is seriously missing  BlueJazz   Apr-18-10 04:41 PM   #5 
  - yes, exactly!  BlancheSplanchnik   Apr-18-10 05:06 PM   #20 
  - Im sorry you are going thru this, sounds like you have the right attitude.  Lost4words   Apr-18-10 04:41 PM   #6 
  - lol! 25 years, not bad!  BlancheSplanchnik   Apr-18-10 05:17 PM   #21 
  - Do you think being a web-surfing addict had anything to do with it? n/t  Zywiec   Apr-18-10 04:43 PM   #7 
  - LOL! Well, the web surfing addiction  BlancheSplanchnik   Apr-18-10 04:49 PM   #12 
  - There really is no easy way to break up.  Quantess   Apr-18-10 04:43 PM   #8 
  - thanks!  BlancheSplanchnik   Apr-18-10 05:19 PM   #22 
  - {{ BlancheSplanchnik}} Different drums.  WinkyDink   Apr-18-10 04:48 PM   #10 
  - thanks WinkyDink  BlancheSplanchnik   Apr-18-10 05:20 PM   #23 
  - Your going to be OK....  daleanime   Apr-18-10 04:48 PM   #11 
  - Good luck. But 2-1/2 years ain't very long.  stevedeshazer   Apr-18-10 04:50 PM   #13 
  - huh? what do you mean?  BlancheSplanchnik   Apr-18-10 05:21 PM   #24 
  - I'm sorry to hear this, because I do know it's always  Flying Dream Blues   Apr-18-10 04:52 PM   #14 
  - good idea,  BlancheSplanchnik   Apr-18-10 05:23 PM   #25 
  - OOOPS. Got moved. I kind of feel like I'm intruding  BlancheSplanchnik   Apr-18-10 04:56 PM   #17 
  - You are NOT intruding...  CaliforniaPeggy   Apr-18-10 06:01 PM   #26 
     - Thanks CaliforniaPeggy!!!!  BlancheSplanchnik   Apr-18-10 06:35 PM   #28 
  - I should have divorced within the first 4 years  lunatica   Apr-18-10 06:28 PM   #27 
  - having a good love r-ship has always been something I've wanted  BlancheSplanchnik   Apr-18-10 06:48 PM   #29 
     - Look around at others in the same search  lunatica   Apr-18-10 07:12 PM   #30 
        - oh I totally agree  BlancheSplanchnik   Apr-18-10 07:21 PM   #31 
  - I'm sorry you are hurting  Haole Girl   Apr-18-10 07:24 PM   #32 
  - Ah, bless your heart  kimi   Apr-18-10 07:41 PM   #33 
  - (((BlancheSplanchnik)))  tilsammans   Apr-18-10 10:13 PM   #34 

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