PRETZEL
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Tue Apr-13-10 12:50 PM
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it was a mistake (for me anyway, no idea how ex feels) in the sense that our kids had to deal with this also.
It was bad enough to have to have them deal with the divorce but to see each of us going out and not necessarily coming home when we should have.
So, I didn't think things through the way I should have.
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| -have you cheated while married. |
seabeyond |
Apr-10-10 03:09 PM |
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Have you given interviews claiming to be devoted to family and cheated? |
Captain Hilts |
Apr-10-10 03:11 PM |
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is that another question you would like me to ask, or are you asking me, lol? nt |
seabeyond |
Apr-10-10 03:12 PM |
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Over fifty years married. Never cheated, never will. nt. |
Libertyfirst |
Apr-10-10 09:07 PM |
#57 |
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I think a definition of "cheating" is needed here. |
flvegan |
Apr-10-10 03:13 PM |
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Good point...I've had people describe flirting online |
HipChick |
Apr-10-10 03:14 PM |
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I think it's a pretty big stretch to call looking at porn, for instance, 'cheating'. |
Warren DeMontague |
Apr-10-10 03:24 PM |
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By the expansive definition, my wife and I cheat every time we watch Lost |
SoxFan |
Apr-10-10 07:58 PM |
#44 |
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Funny. We had a talk last night about how unattractive I think all the LOST women are. |
Warren DeMontague |
Apr-11-10 01:35 AM |
#58 |
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Even Zoe the pole dancing librarian? |
Bucky |
Apr-11-10 10:01 AM |
#72 |
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What the hell is wrong with you??? |
SoxFan |
Apr-11-10 02:12 PM |
#80 |
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I was mostly just talking about the main Oceanic characters, but, here you go. |
Warren DeMontague |
Apr-11-10 03:27 PM |
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Cheating is a loose term. I think if you know your SO will |
Shell Beau |
Apr-10-10 08:22 PM |
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i do agree. on this poll i really wanted the black and white of it with sex. but you are |
seabeyond |
Apr-10-10 08:26 PM |
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I agree, and certainly it's better to hash that stuff out BEFORE getting married. |
Warren DeMontague |
Apr-11-10 01:36 AM |
#59 |
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Good point, Shell Beau. |
tango-tee |
Apr-12-10 03:17 PM |
#108 |
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Yours is the voice of reason. |
tango-tee |
Apr-13-10 02:34 AM |
#116 |
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is that clear enough. i hear what you are saying. that was brought up in that other poll |
seabeyond |
Apr-10-10 03:15 PM |
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Yes, very clear. And to answer the question, no. |
flvegan |
Apr-10-10 03:18 PM |
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surprisingly i find it not even challenging to not cheat. i was surprised, being so old |
seabeyond |
Apr-10-10 03:24 PM |
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I am going to stay with a higher number.. |
HipChick |
Apr-10-10 03:19 PM |
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i was single until 32, saw a lot too. saw also, not even close to third of the male that cheat |
seabeyond |
Apr-10-10 03:23 PM |
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How about oral sex? A lot of churches don't define that as sex, so is that okay to do? |
AnArmyVeteran |
Apr-10-10 03:56 PM |
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It's GREAT to do! |
dems_rightnow |
Apr-11-10 09:10 AM |
#64 |
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* |
Warren DeMontague |
Apr-11-10 06:37 PM |
#93 |
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there's an old jazz number which deals with that... |
unpossibles |
Apr-12-10 02:37 PM |
#103 |
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Arrgh. |
tango-tee |
Apr-12-10 03:19 PM |
#109 |
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Ideally people have good enough communication to set their own ground rules. |
LeftyMom |
Apr-10-10 04:30 PM |
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Exactly. I think each relationship has its own versions of what |
Shell Beau |
Apr-10-10 08:24 PM |
#47 |
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"Some think that fantasizing is cheating" |
Art_from_Ark |
Apr-11-10 01:39 AM |
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I think the definition of cheating depends on the couple. nt |
ZombieHorde |
Apr-11-10 03:30 PM |
#87 |
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Yes, as it should. |
Dappleganger |
Apr-12-10 02:46 PM |
#105 |
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Never been married, it's not a goal of mine. Currently single and happy. |
Electric Monk |
Apr-10-10 03:15 PM |
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good for you.... being happy. i was single and happy lots and lots of years. nt |
seabeyond |
Apr-10-10 03:16 PM |
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No, never. But we married in our 30s. I think a lot of people get married too early, and |
Warren DeMontague |
Apr-10-10 03:18 PM |
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i got married in 30's too. i think that is a huge difference |
seabeyond |
Apr-10-10 03:53 PM |
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+1 |
rucky |
Apr-10-10 03:56 PM |
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Breakdown of Sex & Age Would Be Interesting... |
KharmaTrain |
Apr-10-10 03:22 PM |
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since i am so into behavior ect... yes, all that breakdown would be interesting. i would be |
seabeyond |
Apr-10-10 03:26 PM |
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Nope. |
LeftyMom |
Apr-10-10 03:24 PM |
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I voted no. My ex (a woman) did, though. |
frustrated_lefty |
Apr-10-10 03:26 PM |
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Same here |
villager |
Apr-10-10 03:41 PM |
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Absolutely not |
etherealtruth |
Apr-10-10 03:32 PM |
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Married 32 years this May, no intention to be anything but true to myself. . . |
Journeyman |
Apr-10-10 03:42 PM |
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I wish all people were like you. |
liquid diamond |
Apr-11-10 01:51 PM |
#79 |
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That is lovely. |
tango-tee |
Apr-13-10 02:40 AM |
#117 |
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According to the Bible, just lusting is equivalent to fucking, so why not just go all the way!!! |
AnArmyVeteran |
Apr-10-10 03:55 PM |
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your choice, but i am gonna take a stab in the dark, ... the bible really doesnt mean much to you |
seabeyond |
Apr-10-10 03:57 PM |
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Isn't that what the Bible is for? |
rcrush |
Apr-11-10 02:21 PM |
#81 |
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Lusting doesn't give you an STD. |
ShortnFiery |
Apr-12-10 12:35 PM |
#102 |
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Put this poll on FR if you want to see some really big numbers.... |
HysteryDiagnosis |
Apr-10-10 03:59 PM |
#26 |
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Using Kinsey for anyting is clearly flawed at this point... |
ProgressiveProfessor |
Apr-10-10 04:27 PM |
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Try these stats |
Warpy |
Apr-10-10 04:32 PM |
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Studies are all over the place .... exactly |
seabeyond |
Apr-10-10 04:35 PM |
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Kinda. He was abusive, and I left him first, but technically we were still married. |
Lyric |
Apr-10-10 04:44 PM |
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i hear ya. that is the tricky with these type polls.... there are all kinds of well??? |
seabeyond |
Apr-10-10 05:01 PM |
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I voted "Yes" since it was technically true. |
Lyric |
Apr-10-10 05:13 PM |
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good for you.... in all regards to your post. yea. nt |
seabeyond |
Apr-10-10 05:16 PM |
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I admit I have fudged the score in Scrabble |
ashling |
Apr-10-10 05:10 PM |
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cute... but nu uh... |
seabeyond |
Apr-10-10 05:12 PM |
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I'm kinda like President Carter. I've lusted in my heart |
Ishoutandscream2 |
Apr-10-10 05:14 PM |
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Hmm... |
Ms. Toad |
Apr-10-10 05:48 PM |
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hm.... lol, wink |
seabeyond |
Apr-10-10 05:52 PM |
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If we lived in a world that *I* would really want to live in, |
tango-tee |
Apr-13-10 07:00 AM |
#119 |
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I went with no as its true... |
here_is_to_hope |
Apr-10-10 07:28 PM |
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another hm.... lol |
seabeyond |
Apr-10-10 07:41 PM |
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I think that 90 percent statement is true |
here_is_to_hope |
Apr-10-10 08:16 PM |
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Is it the feeling of the "afterglow" that you might be missing? |
tango-tee |
Apr-13-10 02:54 AM |
#118 |
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Not married but find this interesting |
JustAnotherGen |
Apr-10-10 07:51 PM |
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Are you really expecting people to be HONEST about this? |
Odin2005 |
Apr-10-10 07:52 PM |
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why wouldnt they be, lol. it is the most anonymous. i dont see any reason to lie |
seabeyond |
Apr-10-10 08:24 PM |
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No! Never cheated in any form or fashion while married. |
Shell Beau |
Apr-10-10 08:26 PM |
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people justifying the behavior like to say, .... none of us ever know. well |
seabeyond |
Apr-10-10 08:28 PM |
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I'm with you. If I get to that point, then my marriage is over. |
Shell Beau |
Apr-10-10 08:31 PM |
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People change |
dendrobium |
Apr-13-10 11:07 AM |
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good post. |
seabeyond |
Apr-13-10 11:58 AM |
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I'm not married, but I dated a woman who was. |
Lucian |
Apr-10-10 08:44 PM |
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tempted but no. |
dana_b |
Apr-10-10 08:50 PM |
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31 years married |
Old Troop |
Apr-10-10 09:01 PM |
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I've had some crushes on others, but I've never cheated. |
deutsey |
Apr-10-10 09:06 PM |
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i think a huge difference is |
seabeyond |
Apr-11-10 09:02 AM |
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Never been married, so technically the answer is NO. |
4lbs |
Apr-11-10 01:46 AM |
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nope |
bigtree |
Apr-11-10 09:07 AM |
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LOL !!! - I Love It... 1754 Views, Only 194 Votes... As Of Now... |
WillyT |
Apr-11-10 09:14 AM |
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i really wanted the gender split BUT |
seabeyond |
Apr-11-10 09:53 AM |
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No one has said "yes" yet? |
EFerrari |
Apr-11-10 03:33 PM |
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so the people that say they havent had an affair is lying? really? hm. |
seabeyond |
Apr-11-10 04:56 PM |
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I was mostly kidding. But, yes, I am surprised. |
EFerrari |
Apr-11-10 08:00 PM |
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actually |
seabeyond |
Apr-11-10 08:12 PM |
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Well, there are some bits of information that you don't share |
EFerrari |
Apr-12-10 12:26 AM |
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there is that. |
seabeyond |
Apr-12-10 06:57 AM |
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Can't get married, so no. |
donco6 |
Apr-11-10 09:22 AM |
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and i am sorry |
seabeyond |
Apr-11-10 09:56 AM |
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No problem - it's certainly not your fault. |
donco6 |
Apr-11-10 09:58 AM |
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no |
seabeyond |
Apr-11-10 10:02 AM |
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Are you trying to figure out how many have cheated or how many are lying about it? |
cbdo2007 |
Apr-11-10 09:31 AM |
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are you trying to validate your own belief and agenda? |
seabeyond |
Apr-11-10 09:57 AM |
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Is something up with you today? |
donco6 |
Apr-11-10 01:01 PM |
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nah |
seabeyond |
Apr-11-10 01:19 PM |
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Sorry, must be misinterpreting. |
donco6 |
Apr-11-10 01:32 PM |
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I'm not looking for validation, just clarification. |
cbdo2007 |
Apr-11-10 03:16 PM |
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well, of course. i see what you are saying now. |
seabeyond |
Apr-11-10 03:21 PM |
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C'mon |
alcibiades_mystery |
Apr-11-10 03:23 PM |
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that would be my thought. granted i didnt think to put that clarification in |
seabeyond |
Apr-11-10 04:08 PM |
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never been married |
TheFarseer |
Apr-11-10 10:07 AM |
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to the girlfriends |
seabeyond |
Apr-11-10 10:14 AM |
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I have never cheated, whether married or not. nt |
LWolf |
Apr-11-10 03:16 PM |
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No. nt |
old mark |
Apr-11-10 04:26 PM |
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Never been married. |
Arkana |
Apr-11-10 04:56 PM |
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Nope. |
goldcanyonaz |
Apr-11-10 08:17 PM |
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Never been married |
Lurks Often |
Apr-12-10 12:08 PM |
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good points |
unpossibles |
Apr-13-10 03:37 PM |
#126 |
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i appreciate listening to both you guys.... thanks. nt |
seabeyond |
Apr-13-10 04:52 PM |
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No, I did not - however, as soon as my ex-wife filed for divorce |
NewJeffCT |
Apr-12-10 12:29 PM |
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Alright, I'll fess up. |
muffin1 |
Apr-12-10 12:34 PM |
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While I haven't cheated |
Dappleganger |
Apr-12-10 02:43 PM |
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define cheating |
aquattro_660 |
Apr-12-10 02:56 PM |
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No. Because I was cheated on in my first marriage and it hurt like hell. |
tango-tee |
Apr-12-10 03:06 PM |
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i am currently in marriage therapy because my spouse cheated on me |
dugaresa |
Apr-12-10 03:22 PM |
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good luck to you on that. though nothing to do with luck. |
seabeyond |
Apr-12-10 03:49 PM |
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No. I haven't had any reason to. |
MrSlayer |
Apr-12-10 03:36 PM |
#111 |
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. |
seabeyond |
Apr-12-10 03:50 PM |
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I am ashamed to admit that I have |
Roon |
Apr-12-10 04:01 PM |
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I have honestly never cheated on anyone ever. |
Forkboy |
Apr-12-10 04:45 PM |
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I had to vote yes, |
PRETZEL |
Apr-13-10 12:22 PM |
#122 |
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that is being honest |
seabeyond |
Apr-13-10 12:32 PM |
#123 |
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in hindsight, |
PRETZEL |
Apr-13-10 12:50 PM |
#124 |
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thanks for the add on |
seabeyond |
Apr-13-10 12:53 PM |
#125 |
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