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Sun Apr-11-10 01:01 PM
Response to Reply #70 |
| 76. Is something up with you today? |
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You seem so angry at the responses.  |
| -have you cheated while married. |
seabeyond |
Apr-10-10 03:09 PM |
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Have you given interviews claiming to be devoted to family and cheated? |
Captain Hilts |
Apr-10-10 03:11 PM |
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is that another question you would like me to ask, or are you asking me, lol? nt |
seabeyond |
Apr-10-10 03:12 PM |
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Over fifty years married. Never cheated, never will. nt. |
Libertyfirst |
Apr-10-10 09:07 PM |
#57 |
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I think a definition of "cheating" is needed here. |
flvegan |
Apr-10-10 03:13 PM |
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Good point...I've had people describe flirting online |
HipChick |
Apr-10-10 03:14 PM |
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I think it's a pretty big stretch to call looking at porn, for instance, 'cheating'. |
Warren DeMontague |
Apr-10-10 03:24 PM |
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By the expansive definition, my wife and I cheat every time we watch Lost |
SoxFan |
Apr-10-10 07:58 PM |
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Funny. We had a talk last night about how unattractive I think all the LOST women are. |
Warren DeMontague |
Apr-11-10 01:35 AM |
#58 |
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Even Zoe the pole dancing librarian? |
Bucky |
Apr-11-10 10:01 AM |
#72 |
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What the hell is wrong with you??? |
SoxFan |
Apr-11-10 02:12 PM |
#80 |
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I was mostly just talking about the main Oceanic characters, but, here you go. |
Warren DeMontague |
Apr-11-10 03:27 PM |
#86 |
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Cheating is a loose term. I think if you know your SO will |
Shell Beau |
Apr-10-10 08:22 PM |
#46 |
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i do agree. on this poll i really wanted the black and white of it with sex. but you are |
seabeyond |
Apr-10-10 08:26 PM |
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I agree, and certainly it's better to hash that stuff out BEFORE getting married. |
Warren DeMontague |
Apr-11-10 01:36 AM |
#59 |
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Good point, Shell Beau. |
tango-tee |
Apr-12-10 03:17 PM |
#108 |
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Yours is the voice of reason. |
tango-tee |
Apr-13-10 02:34 AM |
#116 |
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is that clear enough. i hear what you are saying. that was brought up in that other poll |
seabeyond |
Apr-10-10 03:15 PM |
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Yes, very clear. And to answer the question, no. |
flvegan |
Apr-10-10 03:18 PM |
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surprisingly i find it not even challenging to not cheat. i was surprised, being so old |
seabeyond |
Apr-10-10 03:24 PM |
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I am going to stay with a higher number.. |
HipChick |
Apr-10-10 03:19 PM |
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i was single until 32, saw a lot too. saw also, not even close to third of the male that cheat |
seabeyond |
Apr-10-10 03:23 PM |
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How about oral sex? A lot of churches don't define that as sex, so is that okay to do? |
AnArmyVeteran |
Apr-10-10 03:56 PM |
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It's GREAT to do! |
dems_rightnow |
Apr-11-10 09:10 AM |
#64 |
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* |
Warren DeMontague |
Apr-11-10 06:37 PM |
#93 |
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there's an old jazz number which deals with that... |
unpossibles |
Apr-12-10 02:37 PM |
#103 |
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Arrgh. |
tango-tee |
Apr-12-10 03:19 PM |
#109 |
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Ideally people have good enough communication to set their own ground rules. |
LeftyMom |
Apr-10-10 04:30 PM |
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Exactly. I think each relationship has its own versions of what |
Shell Beau |
Apr-10-10 08:24 PM |
#47 |
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"Some think that fantasizing is cheating" |
Art_from_Ark |
Apr-11-10 01:39 AM |
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I think the definition of cheating depends on the couple. nt |
ZombieHorde |
Apr-11-10 03:30 PM |
#87 |
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Yes, as it should. |
Dappleganger |
Apr-12-10 02:46 PM |
#105 |
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Never been married, it's not a goal of mine. Currently single and happy. |
Electric Monk |
Apr-10-10 03:15 PM |
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good for you.... being happy. i was single and happy lots and lots of years. nt |
seabeyond |
Apr-10-10 03:16 PM |
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No, never. But we married in our 30s. I think a lot of people get married too early, and |
Warren DeMontague |
Apr-10-10 03:18 PM |
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i got married in 30's too. i think that is a huge difference |
seabeyond |
Apr-10-10 03:53 PM |
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+1 |
rucky |
Apr-10-10 03:56 PM |
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Breakdown of Sex & Age Would Be Interesting... |
KharmaTrain |
Apr-10-10 03:22 PM |
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since i am so into behavior ect... yes, all that breakdown would be interesting. i would be |
seabeyond |
Apr-10-10 03:26 PM |
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Nope. |
LeftyMom |
Apr-10-10 03:24 PM |
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I voted no. My ex (a woman) did, though. |
frustrated_lefty |
Apr-10-10 03:26 PM |
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Same here |
villager |
Apr-10-10 03:41 PM |
#19 |
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Absolutely not |
etherealtruth |
Apr-10-10 03:32 PM |
#18 |
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Married 32 years this May, no intention to be anything but true to myself. . . |
Journeyman |
Apr-10-10 03:42 PM |
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I wish all people were like you. |
liquid diamond |
Apr-11-10 01:51 PM |
#79 |
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That is lovely. |
tango-tee |
Apr-13-10 02:40 AM |
#117 |
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According to the Bible, just lusting is equivalent to fucking, so why not just go all the way!!! |
AnArmyVeteran |
Apr-10-10 03:55 PM |
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your choice, but i am gonna take a stab in the dark, ... the bible really doesnt mean much to you |
seabeyond |
Apr-10-10 03:57 PM |
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Isn't that what the Bible is for? |
rcrush |
Apr-11-10 02:21 PM |
#81 |
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Lusting doesn't give you an STD. |
ShortnFiery |
Apr-12-10 12:35 PM |
#102 |
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Put this poll on FR if you want to see some really big numbers.... |
HysteryDiagnosis |
Apr-10-10 03:59 PM |
#26 |
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Using Kinsey for anyting is clearly flawed at this point... |
ProgressiveProfessor |
Apr-10-10 04:27 PM |
#27 |
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Try these stats |
Warpy |
Apr-10-10 04:32 PM |
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Studies are all over the place .... exactly |
seabeyond |
Apr-10-10 04:35 PM |
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Kinda. He was abusive, and I left him first, but technically we were still married. |
Lyric |
Apr-10-10 04:44 PM |
#31 |
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i hear ya. that is the tricky with these type polls.... there are all kinds of well??? |
seabeyond |
Apr-10-10 05:01 PM |
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I voted "Yes" since it was technically true. |
Lyric |
Apr-10-10 05:13 PM |
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good for you.... in all regards to your post. yea. nt |
seabeyond |
Apr-10-10 05:16 PM |
#37 |
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I admit I have fudged the score in Scrabble |
ashling |
Apr-10-10 05:10 PM |
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cute... but nu uh... |
seabeyond |
Apr-10-10 05:12 PM |
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I'm kinda like President Carter. I've lusted in my heart |
Ishoutandscream2 |
Apr-10-10 05:14 PM |
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Hmm... |
Ms. Toad |
Apr-10-10 05:48 PM |
#38 |
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hm.... lol, wink |
seabeyond |
Apr-10-10 05:52 PM |
#39 |
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If we lived in a world that *I* would really want to live in, |
tango-tee |
Apr-13-10 07:00 AM |
#119 |
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I went with no as its true... |
here_is_to_hope |
Apr-10-10 07:28 PM |
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another hm.... lol |
seabeyond |
Apr-10-10 07:41 PM |
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I think that 90 percent statement is true |
here_is_to_hope |
Apr-10-10 08:16 PM |
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Is it the feeling of the "afterglow" that you might be missing? |
tango-tee |
Apr-13-10 02:54 AM |
#118 |
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Not married but find this interesting |
JustAnotherGen |
Apr-10-10 07:51 PM |
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Are you really expecting people to be HONEST about this? |
Odin2005 |
Apr-10-10 07:52 PM |
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why wouldnt they be, lol. it is the most anonymous. i dont see any reason to lie |
seabeyond |
Apr-10-10 08:24 PM |
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No! Never cheated in any form or fashion while married. |
Shell Beau |
Apr-10-10 08:26 PM |
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people justifying the behavior like to say, .... none of us ever know. well |
seabeyond |
Apr-10-10 08:28 PM |
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I'm with you. If I get to that point, then my marriage is over. |
Shell Beau |
Apr-10-10 08:31 PM |
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People change |
dendrobium |
Apr-13-10 11:07 AM |
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good post. |
seabeyond |
Apr-13-10 11:58 AM |
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I'm not married, but I dated a woman who was. |
Lucian |
Apr-10-10 08:44 PM |
#53 |
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tempted but no. |
dana_b |
Apr-10-10 08:50 PM |
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31 years married |
Old Troop |
Apr-10-10 09:01 PM |
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I've had some crushes on others, but I've never cheated. |
deutsey |
Apr-10-10 09:06 PM |
#56 |
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i think a huge difference is |
seabeyond |
Apr-11-10 09:02 AM |
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Never been married, so technically the answer is NO. |
4lbs |
Apr-11-10 01:46 AM |
#61 |
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nope |
bigtree |
Apr-11-10 09:07 AM |
#63 |
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LOL !!! - I Love It... 1754 Views, Only 194 Votes... As Of Now... |
WillyT |
Apr-11-10 09:14 AM |
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i really wanted the gender split BUT |
seabeyond |
Apr-11-10 09:53 AM |
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No one has said "yes" yet? |
EFerrari |
Apr-11-10 03:33 PM |
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so the people that say they havent had an affair is lying? really? hm. |
seabeyond |
Apr-11-10 04:56 PM |
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I was mostly kidding. But, yes, I am surprised. |
EFerrari |
Apr-11-10 08:00 PM |
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actually |
seabeyond |
Apr-11-10 08:12 PM |
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Well, there are some bits of information that you don't share |
EFerrari |
Apr-12-10 12:26 AM |
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there is that. |
seabeyond |
Apr-12-10 06:57 AM |
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Can't get married, so no. |
donco6 |
Apr-11-10 09:22 AM |
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and i am sorry |
seabeyond |
Apr-11-10 09:56 AM |
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No problem - it's certainly not your fault. |
donco6 |
Apr-11-10 09:58 AM |
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no |
seabeyond |
Apr-11-10 10:02 AM |
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Are you trying to figure out how many have cheated or how many are lying about it? |
cbdo2007 |
Apr-11-10 09:31 AM |
#67 |
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are you trying to validate your own belief and agenda? |
seabeyond |
Apr-11-10 09:57 AM |
#70 |
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Is something up with you today? |
donco6 |
Apr-11-10 01:01 PM |
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nah |
seabeyond |
Apr-11-10 01:19 PM |
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Sorry, must be misinterpreting. |
donco6 |
Apr-11-10 01:32 PM |
#78 |
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I'm not looking for validation, just clarification. |
cbdo2007 |
Apr-11-10 03:16 PM |
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well, of course. i see what you are saying now. |
seabeyond |
Apr-11-10 03:21 PM |
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C'mon |
alcibiades_mystery |
Apr-11-10 03:23 PM |
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that would be my thought. granted i didnt think to put that clarification in |
seabeyond |
Apr-11-10 04:08 PM |
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never been married |
TheFarseer |
Apr-11-10 10:07 AM |
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to the girlfriends |
seabeyond |
Apr-11-10 10:14 AM |
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I have never cheated, whether married or not. nt |
LWolf |
Apr-11-10 03:16 PM |
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No. nt |
old mark |
Apr-11-10 04:26 PM |
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Never been married. |
Arkana |
Apr-11-10 04:56 PM |
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Nope. |
goldcanyonaz |
Apr-11-10 08:17 PM |
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Never been married |
Lurks Often |
Apr-12-10 12:08 PM |
#99 |
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good points |
unpossibles |
Apr-13-10 03:37 PM |
#126 |
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i appreciate listening to both you guys.... thanks. nt |
seabeyond |
Apr-13-10 04:52 PM |
#127 |
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No, I did not - however, as soon as my ex-wife filed for divorce |
NewJeffCT |
Apr-12-10 12:29 PM |
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Alright, I'll fess up. |
muffin1 |
Apr-12-10 12:34 PM |
#101 |
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While I haven't cheated |
Dappleganger |
Apr-12-10 02:43 PM |
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define cheating |
aquattro_660 |
Apr-12-10 02:56 PM |
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No. Because I was cheated on in my first marriage and it hurt like hell. |
tango-tee |
Apr-12-10 03:06 PM |
#107 |
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i am currently in marriage therapy because my spouse cheated on me |
dugaresa |
Apr-12-10 03:22 PM |
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good luck to you on that. though nothing to do with luck. |
seabeyond |
Apr-12-10 03:49 PM |
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No. I haven't had any reason to. |
MrSlayer |
Apr-12-10 03:36 PM |
#111 |
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. |
seabeyond |
Apr-12-10 03:50 PM |
#113 |
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I am ashamed to admit that I have |
Roon |
Apr-12-10 04:01 PM |
#114 |
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I have honestly never cheated on anyone ever. |
Forkboy |
Apr-12-10 04:45 PM |
#115 |
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I had to vote yes, |
PRETZEL |
Apr-13-10 12:22 PM |
#122 |
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that is being honest |
seabeyond |
Apr-13-10 12:32 PM |
#123 |
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in hindsight, |
PRETZEL |
Apr-13-10 12:50 PM |
#124 |
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thanks for the add on |
seabeyond |
Apr-13-10 12:53 PM |
#125 |
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