Evoman
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Wed Aug-19-09 02:08 PM
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| 25. Ha...good luck getting out of the friend zone. |
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I did it, but just barely. But then again, I'm a freakin' awesome and I didn't fall in love till after I started dating her.
Here's what you do...either ask her out (and risk getting rejected), or be a ballsy like I was and ask her to come over to watch a movie, and then try to make out with her (and really risk getting rejected). Luckily, it was easy for me, because I just liked her, didn't love her, and didn't care THAT much if I fucked up the friendship.
That being said, if you do something, and she rejects you, then you gotta stop right away. Don't keep pestering her. Do it once, and if she says no, you walk the other way. You date other girls. You don't dwell. If you go on with your life and keep dating, and minimize her role in your life, you have a chance of kindling some interest just by virtue of having other interests. Whatever you do, don't try to spend MORE time with her....familiarity breeds contempt. You wanna look like you have something going on in your life.
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| -I must be living in a bizarro universe (**I need relationship advice**)... |
armyowalgreens |
Aug-19-09 04:26 AM |
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Why not just ask her out and go from there? |
suninvited |
Aug-19-09 05:30 AM |
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I don't think the roommate knows about my interest... |
armyowalgreens |
Aug-19-09 05:34 AM |
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Also, I'm scared fucking shitless of asking her out... |
armyowalgreens |
Aug-19-09 05:41 AM |
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If you're not really good a covering up |
Q3JR4 |
Aug-19-09 06:51 AM |
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So she is playing mind games? |
armyowalgreens |
Aug-19-09 07:12 AM |
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I don't think that her waiting for you to take the first step is... |
I Have A Dream |
Aug-20-09 06:31 AM |
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I would go for it. |
Sky Masterson |
Aug-19-09 06:02 AM |
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I have already spent 3 years loathing... |
armyowalgreens |
Aug-19-09 06:10 AM |
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I here what you are saying |
Sky Masterson |
Aug-19-09 06:16 AM |
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Being bold is attractive. |
RadiationTherapy |
Aug-19-09 06:24 AM |
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I agree! Be bold and be strong. You are young with much to learn... |
clixtox |
Aug-19-09 06:54 AM |
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You HAVE to go for it! |
City of Mills |
Aug-19-09 06:47 AM |
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2 questions - 2 answers... |
old mark |
Aug-19-09 06:50 AM |
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This sounds like the position most supported in the thread. |
armyowalgreens |
Aug-19-09 07:14 AM |
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If you really care about this person, and want to spend time with her, |
old mark |
Aug-19-09 05:00 PM |
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you cant, its in the bro code, |
vadawg |
Aug-19-09 06:52 AM |
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OK, a few things |
Ohio Joe |
Aug-19-09 06:56 AM |
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Go for it... |
gmoney |
Aug-19-09 07:32 AM |
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Okay, So I'm running that scenario through my head... |
armyowalgreens |
Aug-19-09 07:36 AM |
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Again, if she's worth having, she's worth the risk |
gmoney |
Aug-19-09 11:14 AM |
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What's the big deal? Just a girl man. Just a girl. |
Evoman |
Aug-19-09 06:12 PM |
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If you value your friendship with the roommate talk to him about your intentions |
NJmaverick |
Aug-19-09 11:19 AM |
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I was in a situation like that back in college. |
brendan120678 |
Aug-19-09 11:25 AM |
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go but go slow |
dembotoz |
Aug-19-09 12:38 PM |
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I was a rebound girlfriend |
mentalsolstice |
Aug-19-09 12:55 PM |
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You will never know unless you ask, and if you don't ask you will kick yourself forever. |
kwassa |
Aug-19-09 01:00 PM |
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I'm with the crowd, go for it! |
Withywindle |
Aug-19-09 01:41 PM |
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Ha...good luck getting out of the friend zone. |
Evoman |
Aug-19-09 02:08 PM |
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No, maybe, and no. |
elehhhhna |
Aug-19-09 02:15 PM |
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Echoing others: 1) no, he was a tosspot, 2) Always possible but ... |
mwooldri |
Aug-19-09 05:15 PM |
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This is what I agree with |
astral |
Aug-19-09 11:44 PM |
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Been there, done that and from my vantage I think of this |
achtung_circus |
Aug-19-09 10:27 PM |
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I love that poem. Especially its last lines. |
Withywindle |
Aug-19-09 10:48 PM |
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I married a woman who was "my friend." The hard part was telling her how much I loved her. |
NNadir |
Aug-19-09 10:32 PM |
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She's been dating your friend for 3 years, and they just broke up 2 weeks ago... |
GoddessOfGuinness |
Aug-19-09 10:40 PM |
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## PLEASE DONATE TO DEMOCRATIC UNDERGROUND! ## |
DU GrovelBot |
Aug-19-09 10:40 PM |
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Go for it! You will be kicking yourself for all eternity if you don't. |
Odin2005 |
Aug-19-09 10:42 PM |
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I'd worry about the "rebound" part... |
regnaD kciN |
Aug-20-09 03:56 AM |
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I agree with most of the posts here- you are overthinking it |
JCMach1 |
Aug-20-09 04:04 AM |
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You are infatuated. You need to step back or you'll lose two friends and make a fool of yourself. |
Monk06 |
Aug-20-09 06:00 AM |
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You've got a good chance here |
JoDog |
Aug-20-09 07:38 AM |
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So there opinions would be biased. |
snooper2 |
Aug-20-09 09:36 AM |
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