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geniph Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Mar-15-04 05:52 PM
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50. She might be a total psycho
you might have reminded her of someone else, whom she doesn't like, for some really trivial reason. She may have decided she doesn't want to date right now. Whatever. It's HER issue, not yours. Your thing should be to meet women in relaxed circumstances in real life. Online works fine for flirting, but it's damn dicey for forming actual connections. Find something you really like to do that will involve meeting new people, including new women. Volunteer at an animal shelter, do a Sierra Singles hiking trip, take a continuing ed class in Spanish - something. Get out and about and meet actual women - without assigning each one a "potential partner" score. Friendship is the best way to meet potential mates.

I had very good luck with forming friendships through Sierra Club service trips and local politics. I didn't actually end up dating any of them, but did enjoy spending time with them. I recommend Sierra Singles for any environmentally-minded lonely folks - you can do good things and meet nice, like-minded people.
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  -What is it with Women? coloradodem2004  Mar-14-04 08:16 PM   #0 
  - I've been married for 30 years and loved many women  NewHampster   Mar-14-04 08:20 PM   #1 
  - What's that supposed to mean?  Droopy   Mar-14-04 08:29 PM   #11 
     - That means that NewHampster thinks you're gay.  Blue-Jay   Mar-14-04 09:37 PM   #28 
        - Men who have problems with women are not gay.  coloradodem2004   Mar-15-04 01:19 AM   #32 
           - true, but not all that shines is gold  Demonaut   Mar-15-04 02:07 AM   #34 
  - Never judge a person on thier words  camero   Mar-14-04 08:20 PM   #2 
  - Same thing happened to me 3 times this week... what is it with people?  HypnoToad   Mar-14-04 08:22 PM   #3 
  - Just to be clear.  coloradodem2004   Mar-14-04 08:30 PM   #12 
     - Oops, sorry!  HypnoToad   Mar-14-04 08:35 PM   #14 
  - Please DO NOT  liberalhistorian   Mar-14-04 08:23 PM   #4 
  - I am sorry that you went through that.  coloradodem2004   Mar-14-04 09:56 PM   #31 
  - Don't stop being a caring individual.  Droopy   Mar-14-04 08:25 PM   #5 
  - chalk it up and move on  WiltedFlowerChild   Mar-14-04 08:25 PM   #6 
  - Sounds like she's not for you. Look elsewhere. (nt)  jpgray   Mar-14-04 08:27 PM   #7 
  - A lot of women feel just like you  SarahBelle   Mar-14-04 08:27 PM   #8 
  - It's not just one experience.  coloradodem2004   Mar-14-04 08:33 PM   #13 
     - Here's what happened to me  Lydia Leftcoast   Mar-14-04 09:02 PM   #18 
        - Lydia has very good advice.  alittlelark   Mar-16-04 12:57 AM   #54 
  - I think your question is sexist in its phrasing, do you think  SOteric   Mar-14-04 08:28 PM   #9 
  - True.  coloradodem2004   Mar-14-04 08:49 PM   #15 
     - So,  SOteric   Mar-14-04 08:57 PM   #16 
        - now that's a better question to ask instead of laying the blame at women..  slinkerwink   Mar-15-04 06:45 AM   #38 
           - I guess you are right.  coloradodem2004   Mar-15-04 10:48 AM   #41 
  - Meeting People Online -> Offline  Crisco   Mar-14-04 08:28 PM   #10 
  - That's another point  Lydia Leftcoast   Mar-14-04 09:07 PM   #20 
  - I know you'll think this sounds corny  Susang   Mar-14-04 09:00 PM   #17 
  - You're making an assumption  EstimatedProphet   Mar-14-04 09:06 PM   #19 
  - If the physical attraction isn't there, it just ISN'T there... there has  radwriter0555   Mar-14-04 09:07 PM   #21 
  - As someone who weighs 300 pounds  EstimatedProphet   Mar-14-04 09:13 PM   #22 
  - I thought that post was awful shallow  Droopy   Mar-14-04 09:17 PM   #24 
     - Agreed  EstimatedProphet   Mar-14-04 09:30 PM   #26 
        - Providing  camero   Mar-14-04 09:35 PM   #27 
           - Ain't that the truth!  EstimatedProphet   Mar-14-04 09:38 PM   #29 
              - I know  camero   Mar-14-04 09:42 PM   #30 
  - Just to tell you.  coloradodem2004   Mar-14-04 09:21 PM   #25 
  - What a bee-otch  Moonbeam_Starlight   Mar-14-04 09:17 PM   #23 
  - so she didn't call what?  noiretblu   Mar-15-04 01:44 AM   #33 
  - It mgiht help...  foreigncorrespondent   Mar-15-04 02:07 AM   #35 
  - I saw my roommate/ex-boyfriend  FarceOfNature   Mar-15-04 03:52 AM   #36 
  - Maybe.  coloradodem2004   Mar-15-04 10:46 AM   #40 
  - It's Chickrant time again! (Now with extra Archetypes!)  BareKnuckledLiberal   Mar-15-04 04:24 AM   #37 
  - Damn that's a good post!  redqueen   Mar-15-04 01:40 PM   #47 
  - quit being nice  waldenx   Mar-15-04 06:52 AM   #39 
  - I'm sorry to hear this was so lousy.  Bertha Venation   Mar-15-04 10:48 AM   #42 
  - Please, don't give up.  cat_girl25   Mar-15-04 10:56 AM   #43 
  - Most likely.  coloradodem2004   Mar-15-04 01:00 PM   #44 
  - Get over her.. She wasn't feeling the vibe  nini   Mar-15-04 01:21 PM   #45 
  - You're right.  coloradodem2004   Mar-15-04 01:34 PM   #46 
     - Unfortunately, people think coming up with an excuse as she did..  nini   Mar-15-04 02:25 PM   #49 
  - BareKnuckledLiberal stole my thunder  redqueen   Mar-15-04 01:43 PM   #48 
  - She might be a total psycho  geniph   Mar-15-04 05:52 PM   #50 
  - Hang In There!  talkingrain   Mar-15-04 08:24 PM   #51 
  - Hi talkingrain! Welcome to DU!  RoadRunner   Mar-17-04 09:32 AM   #58 
  - A Little Bit of Repetition here . . . .  lolly   Mar-15-04 09:18 PM   #52 
  - You are right.  coloradodem2004   Mar-16-04 12:48 AM   #53 
     - coloradodem2004 I want to apologize  NewHampster   Mar-16-04 01:23 AM   #55 
        - I have been doing that.  coloradodem2004   Mar-16-04 01:50 AM   #56 
  - I guess the moral is don't trust the internet  Doomsayer13   Mar-16-04 02:04 AM   #57 

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