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Fri Jun-05-09 11:22 PM
Response to Reply #77 |
| 78. We're working on 3 weeks with nary a drop. |
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I'm expecting either snow or 120 degree heat on July 4.  |
| -I am so angry at my daughter, I don't want to speak to her again. |
Th1onein |
Jun-05-09 08:36 PM |
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Cancel those credit cards. |
skooooo |
Jun-05-09 08:37 PM |
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Cut her off, she seems to be a leech from what you are telling us. |
UndertheOcean |
Jun-05-09 08:38 PM |
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Vent away, then calm down and read your post as if someone else wrote it. |
Gormy Cuss |
Jun-05-09 08:38 PM |
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Gormy's smart. listen to gormy. |
mainegreen |
Jun-05-09 09:05 PM |
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flvegan likes this. |
flvegan |
Jun-05-09 09:12 PM |
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I wish I knew what to say, Th1onein. |
leftyclimber |
Jun-05-09 08:39 PM |
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It's not complicated. |
skooooo |
Jun-05-09 09:07 PM |
#14 |
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You need to stop paying |
bigwillq |
Jun-05-09 08:42 PM |
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I don't mean to be cruel, but you are not part of the problem, you ARE the problem. |
Midlodemocrat |
Jun-05-09 08:43 PM |
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Let's see how that would work out........ |
Th1onein |
Jun-05-09 09:08 PM |
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You're not helping her. |
skooooo |
Jun-05-09 09:09 PM |
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I travel all over the country in an RV |
Th1onein |
Jun-05-09 09:18 PM |
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Ok, well I guess put up with it then. |
skooooo |
Jun-05-09 09:21 PM |
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Right. Drag my pregnant daughter all over the country in an RV. |
Th1onein |
Jun-05-09 09:27 PM |
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No in between?? I just gave you other suggestions. |
skooooo |
Jun-05-09 09:28 PM |
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You need the read the rest of the thread, friend. |
Th1onein |
Jun-05-09 09:36 PM |
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It sounds like you've made a decision then.. |
skooooo |
Jun-05-09 09:38 PM |
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He's a no good no father piece of shit. |
Th1onein |
Jun-05-09 10:11 PM |
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just like your daughters partner- nice! the both of you need to quit whining + get help |
bettyellen |
Jun-05-09 11:59 PM |
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Good for you! |
bigwillq |
Jun-05-09 09:40 PM |
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Talk to her about the suicide threats. |
Jamastiene |
Jun-06-09 01:54 AM |
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We ARE trying to help you. |
bigwillq |
Jun-05-09 09:28 PM |
#27 |
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I am listening. But you must admit, you are offering simplistic solutions. |
Th1onein |
Jun-05-09 09:33 PM |
#29 |
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Did she not work before all of this? |
bigwillq |
Jun-05-09 09:38 PM |
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Who's going to take care of the baby if she doesn't step up? |
nini |
Jun-05-09 10:54 PM |
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You're not helping her, you're infantilizing her. You've taught her to be selfish and greedy. |
Rabrrrrrr |
Jun-05-09 09:58 PM |
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Jun-05-09 10:42 PM |
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Hereditary, indeed! Well said! |
Rabrrrrrr |
Jun-05-09 10:48 PM |
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Nail hit |
REP |
Jun-05-09 10:56 PM |
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If you can't see how amazingly fucked up this is? None of us can help you. Good fucking luck. |
Midlodemocrat |
Jun-05-09 10:51 PM |
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i see, so except for throwing yourslef a big fat pity paty you have no idea what else to do.... |
bettyellen |
Jun-05-09 11:46 PM |
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Hello? Do you just chime in with the insults before you read the posts or what? |
Th1onein |
Jun-06-09 12:17 AM |
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no, i read the whole thing+you're who daughter learned to play the "poor me' game from and we |
bettyellen |
Jun-06-09 12:28 AM |
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Nah. You're not reading the posts. It's obvious. |
Th1onein |
Jun-06-09 12:35 AM |
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i read the whole thing. conspiculously lacking any info on how your daughter fell into this tailspin |
bettyellen |
Jun-06-09 12:44 AM |
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And it'll ramp up once the baby is born - she'll need more $$$$$$$$$ for the baby, of course |
REP |
Jun-06-09 12:59 AM |
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she seems unconcerned about this unhealthy situation the kids being born into- boozy whoring dad... |
bettyellen |
Jun-06-09 01:01 AM |
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She's trapped. Has that occurred to you? |
Th1onein |
Jun-06-09 01:18 AM |
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trapped is bullshit. if she needs help get her HELP. money is'nt helping- especially if |
bettyellen |
Jun-06-09 01:28 AM |
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Oh, such simple solutions, bettyellen. Thanks SO much! |
Th1onein |
Jun-06-09 01:31 AM |
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you don;t realize how you sound exactly iike your daughter, angry self pitying, making excuses ... |
bettyellen |
Jun-06-09 01:34 AM |
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Bettyellen, I guess I just have an affinity for the truth. |
Th1onein |
Jun-06-09 01:50 AM |
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LOL |
bettyellen |
Jun-06-09 01:55 AM |
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It was just like you said, bettyellen! |
Th1onein |
Jun-06-09 02:07 AM |
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all the work is bullshit if you;re more interested in gratitude than your grandkids welfare |
bettyellen |
Jun-06-09 02:14 AM |
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Inability to cope? |
Th1onein |
Jun-06-09 02:26 AM |
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of course, in every scenario you're the victim. thats the theme of this thread... |
bettyellen |
Jun-06-09 02:32 AM |
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Is there a point to this fight the both of you refuse to let die? |
Fleshdancer |
Jun-06-09 02:38 AM |
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naaah, i'm just waiting on a friend and i was curious. |
bettyellen |
Jun-06-09 02:43 AM |
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All the doors are locked? Her legs are broken? |
REP |
Jun-06-09 01:30 AM |
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because she;d have no drama then. no one to make her feel shitty! |
bettyellen |
Jun-06-09 01:38 AM |
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Well, like I said, you know it all, bettyellen. |
Th1onein |
Jun-06-09 01:56 AM |
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you said plenty, and every single person here gave you advice you don;t want to hear.... |
bettyellen |
Jun-06-09 02:05 AM |
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Yes, bettyellen, I'm sure you know all about my life. |
Th1onein |
Jun-06-09 02:14 AM |
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so petty, so helpless and angry. all traits you now share - proudly- with your daughter. |
bettyellen |
Jun-06-09 02:22 AM |
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You're very angry, aren't you, bettyellen? |
Th1onein |
Jun-06-09 02:31 AM |
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.. |
skooooo |
Jun-06-09 02:34 AM |
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oh i see, your rubber and i'm glue! wow is that one of those science things u spend all your time on |
bettyellen |
Jun-06-09 02:37 AM |
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Bless your heart |
REP |
Jun-06-09 02:42 AM |
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OMG! This is absolutely amazing! Hahaha! |
Th1onein |
Jun-06-09 01:16 AM |
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"...with very little help from me..." |
REP |
Jun-06-09 01:21 AM |
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welll yeah, but i'd take five creidt cards if anyone was fool enough to give them to me |
bettyellen |
Jun-06-09 01:25 AM |
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Not sure if I could ... depends upon the sucker, though |
REP |
Jun-06-09 01:27 AM |
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i know, i;d actually have to hate the person alot- that;s why so may were specualting drugs... |
bettyellen |
Jun-06-09 01:31 AM |
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Well, my mother always said that we judge others by the way we are ourselves......so..... |
Th1onein |
Jun-06-09 01:43 AM |
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if ahe had the major 180 degree change you claim she has, then you had better worry |
bettyellen |
Jun-06-09 01:49 AM |
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Well, then she MUST be like you, right, REP? |
Th1onein |
Jun-06-09 01:35 AM |
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Obviously, she's not a thing like me |
REP |
Jun-06-09 01:44 AM |
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so not putting up with or knocked up by a fucking abusive whoring loser is all uppity huh? |
bettyellen |
Jun-06-09 01:44 AM |
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Ya know, bettyellen, sometimes people get into these situations without knowing what they're getting |
Th1onein |
Jun-06-09 01:53 AM |
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"ALL their own fault" |
REP |
Jun-06-09 01:55 AM |
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god forbid her daughter have a better life than her- trapped worked for her- she belives trapped |
bettyellen |
Jun-06-09 01:58 AM |
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sadly they learn to "put up with it" more often than not from Mom, also learn to put the kids last.. |
bettyellen |
Jun-06-09 02:10 AM |
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OR, it just might keep the $52k/year boyfriend out of the titty bars. |
flvegan |
Jun-06-09 12:20 AM |
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She does this because you allow it. |
GOPisEvil |
Jun-05-09 08:44 PM |
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You are allowing yourself to be the victim here. |
Ikonoklast |
Jun-05-09 08:45 PM |
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Time for a little tough love. |
The Velveteen Ocelot |
Jun-05-09 08:46 PM |
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Seconded. Mine did that to me... |
Deja Q |
Jun-05-09 09:15 PM |
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Right. It is not as if she's 16 ... She's twice that. |
Arugula Latte |
Jun-05-09 09:50 PM |
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As long as you enable her |
latebloomer |
Jun-05-09 08:49 PM |
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Oh, man. Sorry, Th1onein. |
Orangepeel |
Jun-05-09 09:03 PM |
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Are you insane or just think you are worthless? |
graywarrior |
Jun-05-09 09:04 PM |
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You've apparently got the wrong idea here. |
Th1onein |
Jun-05-09 09:12 PM |
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My impression from him was that he was speaking of your daughter |
Deja Q |
Jun-05-09 09:16 PM |
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I think graywarrior was trying to build you up, not cut you down. |
leftyclimber |
Jun-05-09 09:42 PM |
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This is a good post. |
bigwillq |
Jun-05-09 09:44 PM |
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Well said. |
graywarrior |
Jun-05-09 10:05 PM |
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Ruh roh. |
graywarrior |
Jun-05-09 10:02 PM |
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I feel sorry for you and your daughter... if I may ask, |
Deja Q |
Jun-05-09 09:08 PM |
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Woh. Time out. You're the victim but you have allowed them to use you. |
triguy46 |
Jun-05-09 09:08 PM |
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She needs to get the fucking tooth pulled. Fuck the root canal. |
Th1onein |
Jun-05-09 09:22 PM |
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I'm really sorry that you are going |
Texasgal |
Jun-05-09 09:36 PM |
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I just want to get it OUT, so I don't feel like I'm going to destroy something. |
Th1onein |
Jun-05-09 11:58 PM |
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Sounds like a good idea! |
latebloomer |
Jun-05-09 09:40 PM |
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Oooh, I like your last line! |
bigwillq |
Jun-05-09 09:41 PM |
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I'm not being defensive. Your "solutions" are judgemental and simplistic |
Th1onein |
Jun-05-09 10:17 PM |
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Tooth pulled is probably the best choice. |
leftyclimber |
Jun-05-09 09:59 PM |
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If he's pissing off that much money on strippers - THEY have the money to pay for it |
nini |
Jun-05-09 10:47 PM |
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Good choices. |
LiberalAndProud |
Jun-06-09 01:50 AM |
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CUT THEM OFF. |
Zavulon |
Jun-05-09 09:41 PM |
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respect your instinct and get away from/cut them off for awhile |
pitohui |
Jun-05-09 09:54 PM |
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I'd think my parents were total suckers if they did all that for me when I was 30. |
Lex |
Jun-05-09 09:58 PM |
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Our next door neighbor does this |
Dappleganger |
Jun-05-09 10:17 PM |
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they have FIVE credit cards of YOURS???!!! |
Kali |
Jun-05-09 10:08 PM |
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I'm sure that you mean well |
Dappleganger |
Jun-05-09 10:10 PM |
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I'm canceling the credit cards and the internet service. |
Th1onein |
Jun-06-09 12:15 AM |
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Sucky monkey |
quakerboy |
Jun-05-09 10:34 PM |
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$1000 a week on strippers? |
Zomby Woof |
Jun-05-09 10:36 PM |
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And Zomby Woof has experienced the greatest strippers ever! |
Renew Deal |
Jun-05-09 10:46 PM |
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I couldn't help it! |
Zomby Woof |
Jun-05-09 10:47 PM |
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Just keep those $1 bills coming. |
GOPisEvil |
Jun-05-09 10:54 PM |
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Damn, you're cheap! |
Zomby Woof |
Jun-05-09 10:55 PM |
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I'll just make you buy the $20 champagne cocktails. |
GOPisEvil |
Jun-05-09 10:56 PM |
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You said "cock tails" |
Zomby Woof |
Jun-05-09 10:58 PM |
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Dude! You're naked! |
GOPisEvil |
Jun-05-09 11:02 PM |
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This is the Lounge! |
Zomby Woof |
Jun-05-09 11:04 PM |
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Tuesdays are amateur nights. |
GOPisEvil |
Jun-05-09 11:07 PM |
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Do they teach you these incentives in mgt. school? |
Zomby Woof |
Jun-05-09 11:09 PM |
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Right after they give you the lobotomy. |
GOPisEvil |
Jun-05-09 11:11 PM |
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I got one of those! |
Zomby Woof |
Jun-05-09 11:15 PM |
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I had a brainstorm today. |
GOPisEvil |
Jun-05-09 11:19 PM |
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Leave the drizzle to L.A. |
Zomby Woof |
Jun-05-09 11:21 PM |
#77 |
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We're working on 3 weeks with nary a drop. |
GOPisEvil |
Jun-05-09 11:22 PM |
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Why not both? |
Zomby Woof |
Jun-05-09 11:24 PM |
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Oh, I like that! |
GOPisEvil |
Jun-05-09 11:31 PM |
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He's getting something more than a lap dance or two. |
MilesColtrane |
Jun-05-09 11:23 PM |
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Truly |
Zomby Woof |
Jun-05-09 11:26 PM |
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She will NEVER take care of herself if you keep doing it |
nini |
Jun-05-09 10:44 PM |
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For they sow the wind; And they reap the whirlwind. |
REP |
Jun-05-09 10:58 PM |
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Drugs? Seriously, I doubt the guy's burning through that much money just at titty bars. |
LeftyMom |
Jun-05-09 11:07 PM |
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I'm not sure what the little bastard is doing with his money..... |
Th1onein |
Jun-06-09 12:31 AM |
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you're paying for groceries because he has no money left after the boozing and whoring, DOH! |
bettyellen |
Jun-06-09 12:36 AM |
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Gosh sheez, Miss Bettyellen! You are SO smart! |
Th1onein |
Jun-06-09 12:47 AM |
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Actually, I'd guess the drug problem is his. |
LeftyMom |
Jun-06-09 12:50 AM |
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Jun-06-09 12:59 AM |
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Martyrdom is the chosen profession of some |
REP |
Jun-06-09 01:01 AM |
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getting attention is so much more important right now than her grandchild health and welfare |
bettyellen |
Jun-06-09 01:05 AM |
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That figures; she identifies as anti-abortion |
REP |
Jun-06-09 01:46 AM |
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she identifies as spending all her time working and then throwing money at problems |
bettyellen |
Jun-06-09 02:34 AM |
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okay i;ll type slow- the five credit cards ar payng for all expenses and you have no fucking clue |
bettyellen |
Jun-06-09 12:57 AM |
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Grubby little hands? Allowance? Poisoning my grandkid? |
Th1onein |
Jun-06-09 01:28 AM |
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If you want to subsidize your adult daughter that's really your decision, |
LeftyMom |
Jun-06-09 12:44 AM |
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And where do I sign up? I can act ALL grateful |
Kali |
Jun-06-09 01:08 AM |
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First and foremost Th1onein, I'm so sorry you're hurting... |
Fleshdancer |
Jun-05-09 11:18 PM |
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Thank you so much for your kind and insightful words, Fleshdancer. |
Th1onein |
Jun-06-09 01:04 AM |
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and then it will be when the baby is weaned, and then when it is in day care, and then when you get |
Kali |
Jun-06-09 01:14 AM |
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At this rate.... |
Fleshdancer |
Jun-06-09 01:18 AM |
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Jun-05-09 11:54 PM |
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Do you feel better now? |
Th1onein |
Jun-06-09 12:03 AM |
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I felt fine before - |
Tangerine LaBamba |
Jun-06-09 12:13 AM |
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Well, actually, there was this little insult: |
Th1onein |
Jun-06-09 12:42 AM |
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That's not a jolly |
Tangerine LaBamba |
Jun-06-09 12:50 AM |
#110 |
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You're not letting her grow-up. |
emilyg |
Jun-05-09 11:54 PM |
#85 |
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There is an addiction (gambling or drugs) on the part of someone... |
mitchum |
Jun-06-09 12:06 AM |
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Her boyfriend is, I think, an alcoholic. |
Th1onein |
Jun-06-09 03:19 AM |
#168 |
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"... they've got five credit cards of MINE..." |
madeline_con |
Jun-06-09 12:07 AM |
#90 |
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ditto. |
Schema Thing |
Jun-06-09 12:16 AM |
#93 |
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Ok, so you were just venting then? |
BarenakedLady |
Jun-06-09 12:27 AM |
#96 |
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Well, I thought that my first line in my first paragraph might clue them in. |
Th1onein |
Jun-06-09 12:50 AM |
#109 |
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The closing line of your post is the essence of it, I think |
Orrex |
Jun-06-09 12:28 AM |
#98 |
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Thanks, Orrex. It's not appreciation that I want, though. |
Th1onein |
Jun-06-09 03:06 AM |
#166 |
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Wow. I don't have time to reply in any detail right now, but |
Duer 157099 |
Jun-06-09 12:35 AM |
#100 |
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It's a bit more complicated than that |
Orrex |
Jun-06-09 12:44 AM |
#106 |
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But I'm not sure I agree |
Duer 157099 |
Jun-06-09 12:51 AM |
#112 |
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I said I was going to bed, but I have to thank you for your post. |
Th1onein |
Jun-06-09 02:56 AM |
#165 |
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Will this be the first grandchild? |
LiberalAndProud |
Jun-06-09 12:48 AM |
#108 |
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I take it you just wanted to vent. |
Jamastiene |
Jun-06-09 01:46 AM |
#140 |
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Thanks, Jamastiene. |
Th1onein |
Jun-06-09 03:09 AM |
#167 |
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Locking... |
Danger Mouse |
Jun-06-09 04:27 AM |
#169 |
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