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Jamastiene Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-01-09 08:52 PM
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29. Fantasies are one thing.
Like you explained, fantasies are one thing. Actively trying to "change" someone's sexual orientation is when that person has crossed the line. Well said.
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  -I got hit up on last night, by a guy. In a lesbian bar. He insisted I'd made a mistake about gay. Lil Missy  Apr-01-09 08:13 PM   #0 
  - You could've asked if he was treated badly by a man  no name no slogan   Apr-01-09 08:23 PM   #1 
  - ...  Jamastiene   Apr-01-09 08:34 PM   #12 
  - Exactly!  Withywindle   Apr-02-09 12:12 AM   #74 
  - Well damn, there goes my plan.  DarkTirade   Apr-01-09 08:24 PM   #2 
  - I'd say that is a blueprint for how NOT to pick up a woman,  Jamastiene   Apr-01-09 08:31 PM   #8 
     - And the ones it does impress are the ones I wouldn't want to date anyway.  DarkTirade   Apr-01-09 08:32 PM   #9 
        - I honestly cannot imagine who that would impress.  Jamastiene   Apr-01-09 08:38 PM   #17 
           - Eh, moot point since I've been more interested in boys lately than girls.  DarkTirade   Apr-01-09 08:53 PM   #33 
  - What a dumbass! One guy tried to persuade me (I am married)  Shell Beau   Apr-01-09 08:27 PM   #3 
  - magical 3?  Jamastiene   Apr-01-09 08:34 PM   #11 
     - I know! We laughed our asses off. 3 inches, no thanks!  Shell Beau   Apr-01-09 08:37 PM   #15 
     - That reminds me of one time when  jmm   Apr-01-09 08:47 PM   #24 
     - Haha! Awesome!  Shell Beau   Apr-01-09 08:49 PM   #26 
     - zOMG,  Jamastiene   Apr-01-09 08:52 PM   #31 
     - Wait... inches... or centimeters?  DarkTirade   Apr-01-09 08:52 PM   #30 
        - Oooh, good one!  Jamastiene   Apr-01-09 08:53 PM   #32 
     - .  Wetzelbill   Apr-01-09 11:04 PM   #62 
  - I cannot think of anything worse than that.  Jamastiene   Apr-01-09 08:27 PM   #4 
  - I'd better stop flirting with you  Oeditpus Rex   Apr-01-09 08:38 PM   #16 
  - Nah, you are ok.  Jamastiene   Apr-01-09 08:46 PM   #23 
     - Yeah, but seriously  Oeditpus Rex   Apr-01-09 09:30 PM   #44 
  - Good god, I hear you. I prefer to do things like this quietly and politely.  Lil Missy   Apr-02-09 06:36 PM   #133 
  - Why don't they ban him from the bar?  blogslut   Apr-01-09 08:28 PM   #5 
  - BEST. IDEA. YET.  Jamastiene   Apr-01-09 08:33 PM   #10 
  - Yep  blogslut   Apr-01-09 08:37 PM   #14 
     - No, he is not hanging an 86'd thing for retaliation. And what could possibly be his argument???  Lil Missy   Apr-02-09 09:55 PM   #142 
  - He would be, if we'd had a confrontation.  Lil Missy   Apr-01-09 08:45 PM   #22 
     - It's bad business  blogslut   Apr-01-09 08:50 PM   #28 
        - I'd agree if it were my bar.  DarkTirade   Apr-01-09 09:03 PM   #37 
        - I agree. But I am not so regular - maybe once or twice a month now. Because of shit like this.  Lil Missy   Apr-01-09 10:02 PM   #53 
        - He'd be unwelcome if I were in charge.  Lil Missy   Apr-02-09 08:29 PM   #138 
  - Good for you!  CaliforniaPeggy   Apr-01-09 08:29 PM   #6 
  - That's just it.  Jamastiene   Apr-01-09 08:30 PM   #7 
  - I was getting just about ready to!  Lil Missy   Apr-01-09 09:27 PM   #43 
  - ...  ccharles000   Apr-01-09 08:35 PM   #13 
  - Yeah, he made a mistake pulling that crap in a bar for lesbians, but  Mike 03   Apr-01-09 08:41 PM   #18 
  - Fantasies are one thing.  Jamastiene   Apr-01-09 08:52 PM   #29 
  - Yeah, you are right. I would never ever actually try to change someone's sexuality.  Mike 03   Apr-01-09 09:19 PM   #41 
  - This is so true. I have so many sexual fantasies about John Barrowman.  elshiva   Apr-01-09 09:46 PM   #48 
     - I wouldn't want to change his sexuality either.  DarkTirade   Apr-01-09 10:40 PM   #58 
     - Oh, NEVER, honey, NEVER. I am so glad that he so openly gay.  elshiva   Apr-01-09 10:54 PM   #59 
     - Me too.  Withywindle   Apr-02-09 12:25 AM   #78 
  - Oh, I'm sure he was younger than me. But his purpose was/is, to "cure"  Lil Missy   Apr-01-09 08:56 PM   #34 
  - Yeah, you are right. That is wrong and offensive.  Mike 03   Apr-01-09 09:23 PM   #42 
  - Oh heavens. I had no crush, he just wouldn't STFU.  Lil Missy   Apr-01-09 09:48 PM   #51 
  - You have to wonder what makes someone so absolutely  ThomCat   Apr-02-09 09:41 AM   #111 
  - It is that whole conquest mentality  KitchenWitch   Apr-01-09 11:07 PM   #64 
  - I hope you left them  ThomCat   Apr-02-09 09:42 AM   #112 
     - LOL  KitchenWitch   Apr-02-09 10:53 AM   #118 
  - Who care about fantasies? We all have them!  Withywindle   Apr-02-09 12:22 AM   #77 
  - Homophobic, macho assholes like that  Symarip   Apr-01-09 08:41 PM   #19 
  - I know all men are not like that. I have male friends, some of whom I adore, dearly.  Lil Missy   Apr-01-09 09:18 PM   #40 
     - Aw  Symarip   Apr-02-09 07:48 AM   #103 
  - Oh, honey ............  Tangerine LaBamba   Apr-01-09 08:43 PM   #20 
  - I don't know what is with the "cure" guys. Assholes, probably.  Lil Missy   Apr-01-09 11:34 PM   #69 
  - By the way, this is a great thread. I've sort of wanted someone to raise this topic. NT  Mike 03   Apr-01-09 08:43 PM   #21 
  - Care to elaborate?  Lil Missy   Apr-01-09 09:37 PM   #45 
  - Mike 03. I raised the topic. Wanna talk?  Lil Missy   Apr-02-09 10:48 PM   #144 
  - Why do people think they can change your mind? You know?  Shell Beau   Apr-01-09 08:47 PM   #25 
  - I hope you are right about the future.  Jamastiene   Apr-01-09 08:50 PM   #27 
     - Honestly I never gave much thought at all about gay people until  Shell Beau   Apr-01-09 08:57 PM   #35 
        - I just saw "Prayers for Bobby" recently. Posted here that it was on too.  Lil Missy   Apr-03-09 06:05 PM   #148 
  - He's the ONE man that could make you straight - you missed your chance!!!!!!  Captain Hilts   Apr-01-09 08:59 PM   #36 
  - Yeah! I missed that opportunity! I must be nuts!  Lil Missy   Apr-01-09 10:08 PM   #54 
     - Wouldn't you just love to have half that ego and self-esteem?!?  Captain Hilts   Apr-02-09 07:02 AM   #101 
        - That's not self-esteem. That's just freeper bullshit.  Lil Missy   Apr-02-09 07:56 AM   #104 
           - Smart girl. nt  Captain Hilts   Apr-02-09 09:35 AM   #109 
  - A buddy of ex's brother...  Roon   Apr-01-09 09:06 PM   #38 
  - Now, why do people do shit like that?  Lil Missy   Apr-01-09 10:17 PM   #56 
  - Billy is a very good looking guy and people melt over him  Roon   Apr-02-09 12:18 AM   #76 
  - I had a friend like that in college.  Withywindle   Apr-02-09 12:34 AM   #80 
     - That's so cool  Roon   Apr-02-09 06:22 AM   #99 
  - People suck.  lightningandsnow   Apr-01-09 09:17 PM   #39 
  - No problem. What comes around, goes around.  Lil Missy   Apr-02-09 03:45 AM   #90 
  - He grabbed your shoulders?!!  Critters2   Apr-01-09 09:43 PM   #46 
  - Yes he did. And I was pretty close to causing a scene. I was about ready to bust his chops.  Lil Missy   Apr-01-09 10:34 PM   #57 
  - Yow, my commiserations.  burning rain   Apr-01-09 09:45 PM   #47 
  - Lil Missy you sure get yourself into some situations.  rurallib   Apr-01-09 09:47 PM   #49 
  - Yeah, I don't know how much more I can hibernate.  Lil Missy   Apr-01-09 10:59 PM   #60 
     - Oh no - that is not what I think of you  rurallib   Apr-02-09 04:54 AM   #96 
  - Sorry, Lil Missy. He is a jerk.  elshiva   Apr-01-09 09:48 PM   #50 
  - Yup! He's lucky. I can only speak for myself though.  Lil Missy   Apr-02-09 03:54 AM   #92 
  - That type tries similar lines on straight women  Lydia Leftcoast   Apr-01-09 09:49 PM   #52 
  - Sure. You just need to get fucked.  Lil Missy   Apr-01-09 11:02 PM   #61 
  - Whatever happened to respect?  Tom Kitten   Apr-01-09 10:10 PM   #55 
  - Hi, Tom Kitten! I wish you'd have been there, cause I'd LOVE to talk to you!  Lil Missy   Apr-01-09 11:16 PM   #66 
     - So do I, but we live far apart though!  Tom Kitten   Apr-01-09 11:24 PM   #67 
        - Awwww! I'd even give you a kisser.  Lil Missy   Apr-02-09 12:01 AM   #72 
  - "He grabbed my shoulders" THAT should have been the end.  JanMichael   Apr-01-09 11:05 PM   #63 
  - I had already made it clear I was not interested. I was about ready to bust his chops!  Lil Missy   Apr-01-09 11:45 PM   #70 
  - I guess it's one thing to take an honest shot  Wetzelbill   Apr-01-09 11:10 PM   #65 
  - OMG, he wouldn't STFU. I was about ready to punch him out.  Lil Missy   Apr-02-09 12:08 AM   #73 
  - Where to start...  OmahaBlueDog   Apr-01-09 11:28 PM   #68 
  - No need to apologize for gender. Most guys are adorable.  Lil Missy   Apr-02-09 12:29 AM   #79 
  - just mention the strap on  Lethe   Apr-01-09 11:49 PM   #71 
  - Nope. I've never even seen one.  Lil Missy   Apr-02-09 12:43 AM   #81 
  - You could just say,  Withywindle   Apr-02-09 12:15 AM   #75 
  - Oh my gawd. Every time I think I've heard of the DUMBEST human ever, another one surprises me!  Richard Steele   Apr-02-09 12:58 AM   #82 
  - Hi Richard!  Lil Missy   Apr-02-09 01:20 AM   #84 
     - The science of Psychiatry has come so far in such a short time...  Richard Steele   Apr-02-09 01:50 AM   #85 
        - Sorry, "jackassery" will never be cured. I just don't worry or care about it anymore.  Lil Missy   Apr-02-09 03:01 AM   #87 
           - Well, then, perhaps you should just cold-cock the next jackass who crosses your path.  Richard Steele   Apr-02-09 04:01 AM   #93 
              - I was about ready to punch him. He just wouldn't leave me the fuck alone!  Lil Missy   Apr-02-09 04:54 AM   #95 
                 - So why didn't you punch him? I would have.  Richard Steele   Apr-02-09 05:33 AM   #97 
                    - Cuz I don't want to go to jail.  Lil Missy   Apr-02-09 05:56 AM   #98 
                       - Pfft, "Jail". Whatever. I held up a BANK at age 14, just to see what it was like,  Richard Steele   Apr-02-09 06:32 AM   #100 
  - You were too patient with him...  GoddessOfGuinness   Apr-02-09 01:08 AM   #83 
  - I think he was just a dumb jackass. When he put his hands on me, after I'd made it clear  Lil Missy   Apr-02-09 02:03 AM   #86 
  - So wait, does this mean there can never be anything between us?  Drunken Irishman   Apr-02-09 03:08 AM   #88 
  - Well, possibly a kisser and a hugger. If you're not a jackass.  Lil Missy   Apr-02-09 03:24 AM   #89 
     - Sad, I'm a total jackass!  Drunken Irishman   Apr-02-09 03:47 AM   #91 
        - Well then, you total jackass!  Lil Missy   Apr-02-09 04:12 AM   #94 
  - maybe he's the one that made a mistake and just hasn't  radfringe   Apr-02-09 07:14 AM   #102 
  - in a nyc gay bar, he would have been thrown out.  La Lioness Priyanka   Apr-02-09 07:58 AM   #105 
  - He'd be gone if I were in charge. But,  Lil Missy   Apr-02-09 08:52 AM   #106 
  - many nyc lesbian bars, prohibit men unless they are gay for these reasons  La Lioness Priyanka   Apr-02-09 08:54 AM   #107 
     - At the lesbian bar here.....  SacredCow   Apr-02-09 09:43 AM   #113 
     - Yup! We agree!  Lil Missy   Apr-02-09 09:57 AM   #114 
  - Is the bar "The Dutchess" still there?  foxfeet   Apr-02-09 10:03 AM   #115 
  - This is a dumbass question but why are they letting him in the bar  LynneSin   Apr-02-09 09:30 AM   #108 
  - Well, that's not a dumbass question.  Lil Missy   Apr-02-09 10:33 AM   #116 
  - He touched you?  SacredCow   Apr-02-09 09:40 AM   #110 
  - Yes, he did grab me by the shoulders to talk in my ear. After I'd made it pretty clear  Lil Missy   Apr-02-09 12:09 PM   #120 
     - He should be permanently kicked out, if that's his "way"  SacredCow   Apr-02-09 12:20 PM   #122 
        - You remind me. There was a gal who blew through town from Texas a couple years ago.  Lil Missy   Apr-02-09 02:19 PM   #127 
           - You were much nicer than I'd have been.....  SacredCow   Apr-02-09 02:35 PM   #128 
              - Well now, you just made my point. I am a gay woman, but that doesn't mean  Lil Missy   Apr-02-09 03:45 PM   #129 
  - This is what "they" do in their fucked up quest to try to convert  cboy4   Apr-02-09 10:44 AM   #117 
  - And why? Why do people contemplate stupid shit like that?  Lil Missy   Apr-02-09 12:28 PM   #123 
  - He sounds like a rotten small town cop with connections, "saving" the world.  hunter   Apr-02-09 11:33 AM   #119 
  - He has no connection with the bar that could ever put them in jeopardy.  Lil Missy   Apr-02-09 12:45 PM   #124 
  - 'The Gay' was an illness or something  Debi   Apr-02-09 12:15 PM   #121 
  - He really was not that all attractive.  Lil Missy   Apr-02-09 01:05 PM   #125 
  - Did you ask if he wanted to be Petticoated?  One_Life_To_Give   Apr-02-09 02:18 PM   #126 
  - I don't know what "Petticoated" means. Please explain that to me in stupid.  Lil Missy   Apr-02-09 03:58 PM   #130 
     - Petticoating or Pinaforing  One_Life_To_Give   Apr-02-09 06:02 PM   #132 
        - Ewwww!  Lil Missy   Apr-02-09 07:10 PM   #134 
           - He becoming a Lesbian as easy as you becoming straight  One_Life_To_Give   Apr-02-09 07:28 PM   #136 
              - He was just a straight guy looking for an easy fuck.  Lil Missy   Apr-02-09 08:00 PM   #137 
  - Sounds like a creep.  Sequoia   Apr-02-09 04:08 PM   #131 
  - LOL! That's a pretty good description. I could not have been less interested.  Lil Missy   Apr-02-09 07:26 PM   #135 
  - I think my jaw just shattered on the floor.  SalmonChantedEvening   Apr-02-09 08:43 PM   #139 
  - You'd pay to see me bust his chops? Hmmmm.  Lil Missy   Apr-02-09 09:20 PM   #141 
  - *wince*  BreweryYardRat   Apr-02-09 09:05 PM   #140 
  - Yes, really.  Lil Missy   Apr-02-09 10:29 PM   #143 
  - That fuckwit has very large balls. And not in a good way.  moriah   Apr-02-09 10:50 PM   #145 
  - Oh, blood and bodies are so hard to clean up and hide. I just bitched to the owner.  Lil Missy   Apr-02-09 11:45 PM   #146 
  - I am seriously considering inviting my male friends next time he comes around. And my brothers too.  Lil Missy   Apr-03-09 12:34 AM   #147 
  - kick, just for the hell of it. And morning.  Lil Missy   Apr-04-09 08:55 AM   #149 

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