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Wed Apr-01-09 03:52 PM
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| 63. You just need to stop looking |
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I know, sometimes it is difficult not to look, but in your situation, you really have to learn how not to look.
Since it is already April, this has likely been going on since September when school started - unless she suddenly blossomed during the winter... if her dress violated the school dress codes, somebody else in her 1st period or 2nd period classes, or her 4th through 7th/8th period classes likely would already have pointed it out to her within the previous 7 months.
So, my advice to you is to suck it up and learn not to look.
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| -I need helpful suggestions. A student in my class is over cleavaged every day. |
Bucky |
Apr-01-09 09:55 AM |
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Someone needs a spiffy new cardigan. |
MrCoffee |
Apr-01-09 09:58 AM |
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If it is within dress code, what can you do? |
Shell Beau |
Apr-01-09 10:11 AM |
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this thread is useless without pics |
guitar man |
Apr-01-09 10:13 AM |
#3 |
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sigh |
Bucky |
Apr-01-09 10:23 AM |
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a good pair of shades? |
guitar man |
Apr-01-09 03:37 PM |
#61 |
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What exactly is the dress code? |
surrealAmerican |
Apr-01-09 10:14 AM |
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I would get a FEMALE teacher that you know and trust |
crispini |
Apr-01-09 10:14 AM |
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That is EXACTLY what I was going to suggest!!! |
HopeHoops |
Apr-01-09 10:17 AM |
#6 |
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Is that on account of teh global warming? |
ashling |
Apr-03-09 09:42 AM |
#124 |
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that's what I was going to say... |
Maine-ah |
Apr-01-09 10:17 AM |
#8 |
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Second that |
sarge43 |
Apr-01-09 02:53 PM |
#57 |
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I'll endorse this approach, as well. |
hippywife |
Apr-01-09 04:39 PM |
#66 |
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I'm a 57 year old teacher |
erinlough |
Apr-02-09 08:36 PM |
#111 |
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delete, repeat response |
erinlough |
Apr-02-09 08:36 PM |
#112 |
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Say nothing. Do nothing. There is no way this can work out well for you. |
RadiationTherapy |
Apr-01-09 10:17 AM |
#7 |
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strongly second this. also not fair to embarrass her because of your issues |
La Lioness Priyanka |
Apr-01-09 10:30 AM |
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3rded |
NashVegas |
Apr-01-09 10:41 AM |
#27 |
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Yes! Your second sentence is what I meant. Thanks. |
RadiationTherapy |
Apr-01-09 11:04 AM |
#36 |
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Agree'd this can only end badly. |
rcrush |
Apr-02-09 04:19 PM |
#101 |
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What a sticky situation. That would truly embarrass me,too. |
Swede |
Apr-01-09 10:18 AM |
#9 |
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It would embarrass you? How? |
RadiationTherapy |
Apr-01-09 10:20 AM |
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You might enjoy the situation,but it would be as uncomfortible for me as the OP. |
Swede |
Apr-01-09 10:30 AM |
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Deleted message |
Name removed |
Apr-01-09 11:05 AM |
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To clarify my deleted post: I'm a fucking grown up - I would not "enjoy" ogling a 16 yr old. |
RadiationTherapy |
Apr-01-09 04:54 PM |
#68 |
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It's that "in loco parentis" thing |
Bucky |
Apr-01-09 10:44 AM |
#29 |
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There is no physical aspect of their body that a teen isn't completely aware of; |
RadiationTherapy |
Apr-01-09 11:07 AM |
#38 |
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This was my first thought, poverty issues. |
siligut |
Apr-01-09 03:18 PM |
#58 |
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This reminds me of a line from "Made In America" |
HopeHoops |
Apr-01-09 10:18 AM |
#10 |
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i suggest you talk to a higher authority.... |
madrchsod |
Apr-01-09 10:18 AM |
#11 |
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I would discuss this with a female teacher or school nurse |
LynneSin |
Apr-01-09 10:21 AM |
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I thought about that. I've done that before. Sadly, it did not work out well |
Bucky |
Apr-01-09 10:29 AM |
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Twice!? Have you considered not caring at all? This is weird now. |
RadiationTherapy |
Apr-01-09 11:15 AM |
#39 |
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You can't stop noticing, but I'd sure recommend you stop sharing |
Schema Thing |
Apr-01-09 02:27 PM |
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He hasn't shared her name or anything. |
Shell Beau |
Apr-01-09 02:31 PM |
#45 |
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no, not here. but I mean even with other teachers |
Schema Thing |
Apr-01-09 02:34 PM |
#46 |
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I agree about the school nurse |
AwakeAtLast |
Apr-01-09 10:36 AM |
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If we had a school nurse who did her job well, I'd agree |
Bucky |
Apr-01-09 10:38 AM |
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No, if she's within dress code limits she isn't the one with the problem. |
Dappleganger |
Apr-01-09 02:46 PM |
#54 |
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Ask a female coworker to address it.. |
skooooo |
Apr-01-09 10:22 AM |
#14 |
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Here at the middle school |
vard28 |
Apr-01-09 10:26 AM |
#16 |
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well you shouldnt attempt to control her clothes. you should attempt to get a grip on yourself |
La Lioness Priyanka |
Apr-01-09 10:29 AM |
#18 |
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I roll my eyes at thee |
Bucky |
Apr-01-09 10:37 AM |
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roll your eyes all you want. i am not the one distracted by a 16 year olds boobs. nt |
La Lioness Priyanka |
Apr-01-09 10:38 AM |
#24 |
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Maybe it's my fault |
Bucky |
Apr-01-09 10:51 AM |
#33 |
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very grown up of you to be in this situation apparantly repeatedly. nt |
La Lioness Priyanka |
Apr-01-09 10:55 AM |
#34 |
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I hope by "grown up feedback" you don't mean just from people who agree with you |
BurtWorm |
Apr-01-09 02:51 PM |
#56 |
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! |
Runcible Spoon |
Apr-02-09 06:55 PM |
#106 |
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you're gonna claim OTHER people are judgemental |
Djinn |
Apr-11-09 04:35 AM |
#144 |
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Control yourself. Period. |
amyrose2712 |
Apr-01-09 02:49 PM |
#55 |
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"get a grip on yourself" |
PassingFair |
Apr-01-09 04:52 PM |
#67 |
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Apparently it's the week for Critters2 to agree with Priyanka, |
Critters2 |
Apr-01-09 11:01 PM |
#88 |
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"Why is that so hard?" is your answer. Just saying. A little common |
madinmaryland |
Apr-02-09 08:55 PM |
#114 |
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+1 |
Zuiderelle |
Apr-03-09 10:33 AM |
#133 |
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Have the school provide skin paint so she don't look as exposed. |
LiberalFighter |
Apr-01-09 10:40 AM |
#25 |
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Thanks |
Bucky |
Apr-01-09 10:45 AM |
#30 |
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Relax and Enjoy The Show |
NashVegas |
Apr-01-09 10:41 AM |
#26 |
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If it's within the dress code, I'd do nothing. |
flvegan |
Apr-01-09 10:44 AM |
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+1 |
Midlodemocrat |
Apr-01-09 10:51 AM |
#32 |
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+1 |
NJmaverick |
Apr-01-09 10:56 AM |
#35 |
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Is there a female official that you can have talk to her? nt |
MrScorpio |
Apr-01-09 10:48 AM |
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Cleavage is in. I noticed that 3 years ago when working at an airport. |
applegrove |
Apr-01-09 01:47 PM |
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Wear shades. |
JVS |
Apr-01-09 01:51 PM |
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hey JVS, that restaurant is going like gang-busters! |
tigereye |
Apr-03-09 01:01 PM |
#140 |
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Sorry Bucky, |
newcriminal |
Apr-01-09 02:02 PM |
#42 |
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Ignore it |
Steven_S |
Apr-01-09 02:20 PM |
#43 |
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Yes. Ignore it.... |
Demoiselle |
Apr-01-09 05:25 PM |
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Work on your own self control. If it's a serious problem, she'll be told sooner or later. |
jobycom |
Apr-01-09 02:40 PM |
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How short is her skirt? |
rug |
Apr-01-09 02:40 PM |
#48 |
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Now stop that! |
DemBones DemBones |
Apr-01-09 02:42 PM |
#49 |
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I agree with the majority in this thread: don't worry about this girl's clothes. |
BurtWorm |
Apr-01-09 02:43 PM |
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This subject goes to the top of the list of things... |
Deep13 |
Apr-01-09 02:44 PM |
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You should just concentrate on doing your damn job |
Dappleganger |
Apr-01-09 02:45 PM |
#52 |
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Bucky, if it bothers you when she leans forward, move her |
DemBones DemBones |
Apr-01-09 02:46 PM |
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My suggestion exactly! |
hedgehog |
Apr-01-09 03:30 PM |
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Curious to know what cover story you will use for the seating change. nt |
Deep13 |
Apr-01-09 03:42 PM |
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"I am the teacher" will do nicely. nt |
DemBones DemBones |
Apr-01-09 06:57 PM |
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Wow. |
Deep13 |
Apr-02-09 08:22 AM |
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Teachers decide seating arrangements. |
DemBones DemBones |
Apr-02-09 09:12 PM |
#117 |
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I am da classroom Fuhrer und I say so! |
Deep13 |
Apr-03-09 09:19 AM |
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"Over cleavaged" |
Iggo |
Apr-01-09 03:35 PM |
#60 |
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You just need to stop looking |
NewJeffCT |
Apr-01-09 03:52 PM |
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Back away, don't look, |
Tangerine LaBamba |
Apr-01-09 03:57 PM |
#64 |
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Bad idea to talk about it w/the wife! |
Dappleganger |
Apr-01-09 05:21 PM |
#69 |
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Then that's a bad relationship with "the wife" |
Tangerine LaBamba |
Apr-01-09 05:25 PM |
#70 |
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Not necessarily a bad relationship. Let's get real here. |
Shell Beau |
Apr-01-09 11:09 PM |
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If he's been teaching for a few years, |
Tangerine LaBamba |
Apr-02-09 12:04 AM |
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Jealousy is a normal human emotion. |
Shell Beau |
Apr-02-09 09:21 AM |
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I don't recall claiming that |
Tangerine LaBamba |
Apr-02-09 04:01 PM |
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You did say this |
Shell Beau |
Apr-02-09 04:16 PM |
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What relationship of mine? |
Tangerine LaBamba |
Apr-02-09 05:33 PM |
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Wow! You must hang out in GD a lot. |
Shell Beau |
Apr-03-09 09:08 AM |
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I don't know what that means - |
Tangerine LaBamba |
Apr-03-09 09:28 AM |
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Your last response was condescending. Sounds like |
Shell Beau |
Apr-03-09 09:49 AM |
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Well, if you read a statement of facts |
Tangerine LaBamba |
Apr-03-09 10:36 AM |
#134 |
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Good God lighten up! |
Shell Beau |
Apr-03-09 10:47 AM |
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Happy April Fool's Day to you too! n/t |
RiffRandell |
Apr-01-09 04:25 PM |
#65 |
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Don't do anything on your own. |
Renew Deal |
Apr-01-09 05:32 PM |
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Unless it's distracting the hell out of the other students... |
krispos42 |
Apr-01-09 05:44 PM |
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Get a fucking grip people! |
RiffRandell |
Apr-01-09 06:04 PM |
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I have to say "poor girl!" |
Rising Phoenix |
Apr-01-09 07:07 PM |
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She's trying to manippleate you |
Blandocyte |
Apr-01-09 09:45 PM |
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LOL |
GoddessOfGuinness |
Apr-16-09 01:38 AM |
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Speak to a female teacher you trust...perhaps a talk is in order...Gal to Gal. |
RagAss |
Apr-01-09 09:48 PM |
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Speak to a female teacher you trust about it.... |
RagAss |
Apr-01-09 09:49 PM |
#79 |
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........ |
elshiva |
Apr-01-09 09:52 PM |
#80 |
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+1 |
RetroLounge |
Apr-01-09 10:06 PM |
#82 |
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Hello, RetroLounge, how are you? |
elshiva |
Apr-01-09 10:10 PM |
#83 |
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I'm fine, better now, thanks! |
RetroLounge |
Apr-01-09 10:14 PM |
#84 |
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Good. |
elshiva |
Apr-01-09 10:35 PM |
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+1 |
NewJeffCT |
Apr-02-09 06:41 AM |
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Those are udders not breasts |
cherish44 |
Apr-03-09 02:07 PM |
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+2! |
mainegreen |
Apr-02-09 08:36 PM |
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I am of the opinion that, so long as she isn't deliberately trying to expose herself, |
Lyric |
Apr-01-09 10:05 PM |
#81 |
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"Don't stand, don't stand so, don't stand so close to me..." |
nomorenomore08 |
Apr-01-09 10:18 PM |
#85 |
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Ouch. |
Dr. Strange |
Apr-02-09 09:05 PM |
#116 |
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When I taught, I knelt down next to the desks of female students when talking one on one |
Godhumor |
Apr-01-09 10:56 PM |
#87 |
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Aren't you the same person who was referring to your MS students |
Critters2 |
Apr-01-09 11:06 PM |
#89 |
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From a male teacher: |
ChoralScholar |
Apr-01-09 11:17 PM |
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well-aimed spitwads? |
leftofthedial |
Apr-02-09 12:20 AM |
#93 |
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Do your best |
JoDog |
Apr-02-09 07:43 AM |
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if it's within the boundaries of the school dress code, then it's fine |
Tektonik |
Apr-02-09 04:14 PM |
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Write some dirty online porn fiction about it. |
rcrush |
Apr-02-09 04:23 PM |
#102 |
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Administration and/or guidance counselor. STAT. No dress code in place? |
WinkyDink |
Apr-02-09 04:25 PM |
#103 |
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I was in a similar situation that made me extremely uncomfortable. |
Lil Missy |
Apr-02-09 05:28 PM |
#104 |
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Get some pants with pleats. |
crimsonblue |
Apr-02-09 07:48 PM |
#107 |
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Few weeks left. Leave it for someone else. n/t |
NOW tense |
Apr-02-09 08:28 PM |
#108 |
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Why would this be considered a problem? |
Generic Brad |
Apr-02-09 08:32 PM |
#109 |
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If I were 16 and know what I know now, I'd want her phone number |
santamargarita |
Apr-02-09 08:48 PM |
#113 |
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Gouge your eyes out with a rusty fork. It's the only way. |
Danger Mouse |
Apr-02-09 09:01 PM |
#115 |
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Best.Answer.Here. |
Jamastiene |
Apr-16-09 02:00 AM |
#158 |
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Get a pair of mirrored sunglasses and wear 'em to class. |
BreweryYardRat |
Apr-02-09 09:14 PM |
#118 |
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Make like Harvey Keitel in Bad Lieutenant and rub one out on her desk |
DS1 |
Apr-03-09 09:11 AM |
#120 |
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I had a classmate like that. |
Tommy_Carcetti |
Apr-03-09 09:31 AM |
#123 |
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huh huh you said "gape" |
datasuspect |
Apr-03-09 09:49 AM |
#126 |
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Just control yourself. |
UndertheOcean |
Apr-03-09 09:52 AM |
#127 |
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Get the dress code changed |
cherish44 |
Apr-03-09 09:53 AM |
#128 |
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get a handle on it |
datasuspect |
Apr-03-09 09:54 AM |
#129 |
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grasp the problem and choke it. |
datasuspect |
Apr-03-09 09:54 AM |
#130 |
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Teach Gym........ |
Burma Jones |
Apr-03-09 10:02 AM |
#131 |
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This thread is exhibit #1 why men should not go into teaching |
AngryAmish |
Apr-03-09 10:11 AM |
#132 |
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bullshit |
Djinn |
Apr-11-09 04:45 AM |
#146 |
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Wrong. |
AngryAmish |
Apr-11-09 06:36 AM |
#151 |
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Move her to the back row? (eom) |
gmoney |
Apr-03-09 10:40 AM |
#135 |
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At my work that would be called learing... |
snooper2 |
Apr-03-09 12:50 PM |
#137 |
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Oh, and to add- do you check out her ass |
snooper2 |
Apr-03-09 12:54 PM |
#138 |
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get a female teacher to tell her? |
tigereye |
Apr-03-09 12:55 PM |
#139 |
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The problem is the clothes - no clothes no cleavage |
Help_I_Live_In_Idaho |
Apr-03-09 01:38 PM |
#141 |
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eeuuuww |
Djinn |
Apr-11-09 04:29 AM |
#143 |
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Why did you kick this thread 8 days later? |
Lil Missy |
Apr-11-09 04:38 AM |
#145 |
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is there a rule that says you can't read and post to old threads? |
Djinn |
Apr-11-09 04:49 AM |
#147 |
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I'm just suspicious by nature. I thought the point had already been made. |
Lil Missy |
Apr-11-09 05:08 AM |
#148 |
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fair enough |
Djinn |
Apr-11-09 05:21 AM |
#149 |
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Not that I know of |
JVS |
Apr-16-09 01:12 AM |
#154 |
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One of the pitfalls (pun intended) of teaching high school... |
JCMach1 |
Apr-11-09 06:30 AM |
#150 |
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You could always be "mistaken" about the dress code. |
rucky |
Apr-11-09 06:38 AM |
#152 |
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A bunch of Judgie Judies and Jakes around here. |
Jetboy |
Apr-11-09 08:31 AM |
#153 |
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Wear one of these when she's in class... |
GoddessOfGuinness |
Apr-16-09 01:36 AM |
#155 |
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If your eyes are drawn to sixteen year old titties, crack open the want ads and find another job. |
LeftyMom |
Apr-16-09 01:39 AM |
#157 |
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