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Wed Apr-01-09 03:35 PM
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| -I need helpful suggestions. A student in my class is over cleavaged every day. |
Bucky |
Apr-01-09 09:55 AM |
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Someone needs a spiffy new cardigan. |
MrCoffee |
Apr-01-09 09:58 AM |
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If it is within dress code, what can you do? |
Shell Beau |
Apr-01-09 10:11 AM |
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this thread is useless without pics |
guitar man |
Apr-01-09 10:13 AM |
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sigh |
Bucky |
Apr-01-09 10:23 AM |
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a good pair of shades? |
guitar man |
Apr-01-09 03:37 PM |
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What exactly is the dress code? |
surrealAmerican |
Apr-01-09 10:14 AM |
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I would get a FEMALE teacher that you know and trust |
crispini |
Apr-01-09 10:14 AM |
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That is EXACTLY what I was going to suggest!!! |
HopeHoops |
Apr-01-09 10:17 AM |
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Is that on account of teh global warming? |
ashling |
Apr-03-09 09:42 AM |
#124 |
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that's what I was going to say... |
Maine-ah |
Apr-01-09 10:17 AM |
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Second that |
sarge43 |
Apr-01-09 02:53 PM |
#57 |
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I'll endorse this approach, as well. |
hippywife |
Apr-01-09 04:39 PM |
#66 |
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I'm a 57 year old teacher |
erinlough |
Apr-02-09 08:36 PM |
#111 |
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delete, repeat response |
erinlough |
Apr-02-09 08:36 PM |
#112 |
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Say nothing. Do nothing. There is no way this can work out well for you. |
RadiationTherapy |
Apr-01-09 10:17 AM |
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strongly second this. also not fair to embarrass her because of your issues |
La Lioness Priyanka |
Apr-01-09 10:30 AM |
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3rded |
NashVegas |
Apr-01-09 10:41 AM |
#27 |
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Yes! Your second sentence is what I meant. Thanks. |
RadiationTherapy |
Apr-01-09 11:04 AM |
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Agree'd this can only end badly. |
rcrush |
Apr-02-09 04:19 PM |
#101 |
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What a sticky situation. That would truly embarrass me,too. |
Swede |
Apr-01-09 10:18 AM |
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It would embarrass you? How? |
RadiationTherapy |
Apr-01-09 10:20 AM |
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You might enjoy the situation,but it would be as uncomfortible for me as the OP. |
Swede |
Apr-01-09 10:30 AM |
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Deleted message |
Name removed |
Apr-01-09 11:05 AM |
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To clarify my deleted post: I'm a fucking grown up - I would not "enjoy" ogling a 16 yr old. |
RadiationTherapy |
Apr-01-09 04:54 PM |
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It's that "in loco parentis" thing |
Bucky |
Apr-01-09 10:44 AM |
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There is no physical aspect of their body that a teen isn't completely aware of; |
RadiationTherapy |
Apr-01-09 11:07 AM |
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This was my first thought, poverty issues. |
siligut |
Apr-01-09 03:18 PM |
#58 |
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This reminds me of a line from "Made In America" |
HopeHoops |
Apr-01-09 10:18 AM |
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i suggest you talk to a higher authority.... |
madrchsod |
Apr-01-09 10:18 AM |
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I would discuss this with a female teacher or school nurse |
LynneSin |
Apr-01-09 10:21 AM |
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I thought about that. I've done that before. Sadly, it did not work out well |
Bucky |
Apr-01-09 10:29 AM |
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Twice!? Have you considered not caring at all? This is weird now. |
RadiationTherapy |
Apr-01-09 11:15 AM |
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You can't stop noticing, but I'd sure recommend you stop sharing |
Schema Thing |
Apr-01-09 02:27 PM |
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He hasn't shared her name or anything. |
Shell Beau |
Apr-01-09 02:31 PM |
#45 |
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no, not here. but I mean even with other teachers |
Schema Thing |
Apr-01-09 02:34 PM |
#46 |
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I agree about the school nurse |
AwakeAtLast |
Apr-01-09 10:36 AM |
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If we had a school nurse who did her job well, I'd agree |
Bucky |
Apr-01-09 10:38 AM |
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No, if she's within dress code limits she isn't the one with the problem. |
Dappleganger |
Apr-01-09 02:46 PM |
#54 |
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Ask a female coworker to address it.. |
skooooo |
Apr-01-09 10:22 AM |
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Here at the middle school |
vard28 |
Apr-01-09 10:26 AM |
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well you shouldnt attempt to control her clothes. you should attempt to get a grip on yourself |
La Lioness Priyanka |
Apr-01-09 10:29 AM |
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I roll my eyes at thee |
Bucky |
Apr-01-09 10:37 AM |
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roll your eyes all you want. i am not the one distracted by a 16 year olds boobs. nt |
La Lioness Priyanka |
Apr-01-09 10:38 AM |
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Maybe it's my fault |
Bucky |
Apr-01-09 10:51 AM |
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very grown up of you to be in this situation apparantly repeatedly. nt |
La Lioness Priyanka |
Apr-01-09 10:55 AM |
#34 |
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I hope by "grown up feedback" you don't mean just from people who agree with you |
BurtWorm |
Apr-01-09 02:51 PM |
#56 |
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! |
Runcible Spoon |
Apr-02-09 06:55 PM |
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you're gonna claim OTHER people are judgemental |
Djinn |
Apr-11-09 04:35 AM |
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Control yourself. Period. |
amyrose2712 |
Apr-01-09 02:49 PM |
#55 |
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"get a grip on yourself" |
PassingFair |
Apr-01-09 04:52 PM |
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Apparently it's the week for Critters2 to agree with Priyanka, |
Critters2 |
Apr-01-09 11:01 PM |
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"Why is that so hard?" is your answer. Just saying. A little common |
madinmaryland |
Apr-02-09 08:55 PM |
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+1 |
Zuiderelle |
Apr-03-09 10:33 AM |
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Have the school provide skin paint so she don't look as exposed. |
LiberalFighter |
Apr-01-09 10:40 AM |
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Thanks |
Bucky |
Apr-01-09 10:45 AM |
#30 |
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Relax and Enjoy The Show |
NashVegas |
Apr-01-09 10:41 AM |
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If it's within the dress code, I'd do nothing. |
flvegan |
Apr-01-09 10:44 AM |
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+1 |
Midlodemocrat |
Apr-01-09 10:51 AM |
#32 |
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+1 |
NJmaverick |
Apr-01-09 10:56 AM |
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Is there a female official that you can have talk to her? nt |
MrScorpio |
Apr-01-09 10:48 AM |
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Cleavage is in. I noticed that 3 years ago when working at an airport. |
applegrove |
Apr-01-09 01:47 PM |
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Wear shades. |
JVS |
Apr-01-09 01:51 PM |
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hey JVS, that restaurant is going like gang-busters! |
tigereye |
Apr-03-09 01:01 PM |
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Sorry Bucky, |
newcriminal |
Apr-01-09 02:02 PM |
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Ignore it |
Steven_S |
Apr-01-09 02:20 PM |
#43 |
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Yes. Ignore it.... |
Demoiselle |
Apr-01-09 05:25 PM |
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Work on your own self control. If it's a serious problem, she'll be told sooner or later. |
jobycom |
Apr-01-09 02:40 PM |
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How short is her skirt? |
rug |
Apr-01-09 02:40 PM |
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Now stop that! |
DemBones DemBones |
Apr-01-09 02:42 PM |
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I agree with the majority in this thread: don't worry about this girl's clothes. |
BurtWorm |
Apr-01-09 02:43 PM |
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This subject goes to the top of the list of things... |
Deep13 |
Apr-01-09 02:44 PM |
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You should just concentrate on doing your damn job |
Dappleganger |
Apr-01-09 02:45 PM |
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Bucky, if it bothers you when she leans forward, move her |
DemBones DemBones |
Apr-01-09 02:46 PM |
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My suggestion exactly! |
hedgehog |
Apr-01-09 03:30 PM |
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Curious to know what cover story you will use for the seating change. nt |
Deep13 |
Apr-01-09 03:42 PM |
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"I am the teacher" will do nicely. nt |
DemBones DemBones |
Apr-01-09 06:57 PM |
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Wow. |
Deep13 |
Apr-02-09 08:22 AM |
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Teachers decide seating arrangements. |
DemBones DemBones |
Apr-02-09 09:12 PM |
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I am da classroom Fuhrer und I say so! |
Deep13 |
Apr-03-09 09:19 AM |
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"Over cleavaged" |
Iggo |
Apr-01-09 03:35 PM |
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You just need to stop looking |
NewJeffCT |
Apr-01-09 03:52 PM |
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Back away, don't look, |
Tangerine LaBamba |
Apr-01-09 03:57 PM |
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Bad idea to talk about it w/the wife! |
Dappleganger |
Apr-01-09 05:21 PM |
#69 |
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Then that's a bad relationship with "the wife" |
Tangerine LaBamba |
Apr-01-09 05:25 PM |
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Not necessarily a bad relationship. Let's get real here. |
Shell Beau |
Apr-01-09 11:09 PM |
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If he's been teaching for a few years, |
Tangerine LaBamba |
Apr-02-09 12:04 AM |
#92 |
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Jealousy is a normal human emotion. |
Shell Beau |
Apr-02-09 09:21 AM |
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I don't recall claiming that |
Tangerine LaBamba |
Apr-02-09 04:01 PM |
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You did say this |
Shell Beau |
Apr-02-09 04:16 PM |
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What relationship of mine? |
Tangerine LaBamba |
Apr-02-09 05:33 PM |
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Wow! You must hang out in GD a lot. |
Shell Beau |
Apr-03-09 09:08 AM |
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I don't know what that means - |
Tangerine LaBamba |
Apr-03-09 09:28 AM |
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Your last response was condescending. Sounds like |
Shell Beau |
Apr-03-09 09:49 AM |
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Well, if you read a statement of facts |
Tangerine LaBamba |
Apr-03-09 10:36 AM |
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Good God lighten up! |
Shell Beau |
Apr-03-09 10:47 AM |
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Happy April Fool's Day to you too! n/t |
RiffRandell |
Apr-01-09 04:25 PM |
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Don't do anything on your own. |
Renew Deal |
Apr-01-09 05:32 PM |
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Unless it's distracting the hell out of the other students... |
krispos42 |
Apr-01-09 05:44 PM |
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Get a fucking grip people! |
RiffRandell |
Apr-01-09 06:04 PM |
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I have to say "poor girl!" |
Rising Phoenix |
Apr-01-09 07:07 PM |
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She's trying to manippleate you |
Blandocyte |
Apr-01-09 09:45 PM |
#77 |
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LOL |
GoddessOfGuinness |
Apr-16-09 01:38 AM |
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Speak to a female teacher you trust...perhaps a talk is in order...Gal to Gal. |
RagAss |
Apr-01-09 09:48 PM |
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Speak to a female teacher you trust about it.... |
RagAss |
Apr-01-09 09:49 PM |
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........ |
elshiva |
Apr-01-09 09:52 PM |
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+1 |
RetroLounge |
Apr-01-09 10:06 PM |
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Hello, RetroLounge, how are you? |
elshiva |
Apr-01-09 10:10 PM |
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I'm fine, better now, thanks! |
RetroLounge |
Apr-01-09 10:14 PM |
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Good. |
elshiva |
Apr-01-09 10:35 PM |
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+1 |
NewJeffCT |
Apr-02-09 06:41 AM |
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Those are udders not breasts |
cherish44 |
Apr-03-09 02:07 PM |
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+2! |
mainegreen |
Apr-02-09 08:36 PM |
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I am of the opinion that, so long as she isn't deliberately trying to expose herself, |
Lyric |
Apr-01-09 10:05 PM |
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"Don't stand, don't stand so, don't stand so close to me..." |
nomorenomore08 |
Apr-01-09 10:18 PM |
#85 |
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Ouch. |
Dr. Strange |
Apr-02-09 09:05 PM |
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When I taught, I knelt down next to the desks of female students when talking one on one |
Godhumor |
Apr-01-09 10:56 PM |
#87 |
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Aren't you the same person who was referring to your MS students |
Critters2 |
Apr-01-09 11:06 PM |
#89 |
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From a male teacher: |
ChoralScholar |
Apr-01-09 11:17 PM |
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well-aimed spitwads? |
leftofthedial |
Apr-02-09 12:20 AM |
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Do your best |
JoDog |
Apr-02-09 07:43 AM |
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if it's within the boundaries of the school dress code, then it's fine |
Tektonik |
Apr-02-09 04:14 PM |
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Write some dirty online porn fiction about it. |
rcrush |
Apr-02-09 04:23 PM |
#102 |
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Administration and/or guidance counselor. STAT. No dress code in place? |
WinkyDink |
Apr-02-09 04:25 PM |
#103 |
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I was in a similar situation that made me extremely uncomfortable. |
Lil Missy |
Apr-02-09 05:28 PM |
#104 |
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Get some pants with pleats. |
crimsonblue |
Apr-02-09 07:48 PM |
#107 |
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Few weeks left. Leave it for someone else. n/t |
NOW tense |
Apr-02-09 08:28 PM |
#108 |
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Why would this be considered a problem? |
Generic Brad |
Apr-02-09 08:32 PM |
#109 |
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If I were 16 and know what I know now, I'd want her phone number |
santamargarita |
Apr-02-09 08:48 PM |
#113 |
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Gouge your eyes out with a rusty fork. It's the only way. |
Danger Mouse |
Apr-02-09 09:01 PM |
#115 |
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Best.Answer.Here. |
Jamastiene |
Apr-16-09 02:00 AM |
#158 |
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Get a pair of mirrored sunglasses and wear 'em to class. |
BreweryYardRat |
Apr-02-09 09:14 PM |
#118 |
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Make like Harvey Keitel in Bad Lieutenant and rub one out on her desk |
DS1 |
Apr-03-09 09:11 AM |
#120 |
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I had a classmate like that. |
Tommy_Carcetti |
Apr-03-09 09:31 AM |
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huh huh you said "gape" |
datasuspect |
Apr-03-09 09:49 AM |
#126 |
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Just control yourself. |
UndertheOcean |
Apr-03-09 09:52 AM |
#127 |
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Get the dress code changed |
cherish44 |
Apr-03-09 09:53 AM |
#128 |
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get a handle on it |
datasuspect |
Apr-03-09 09:54 AM |
#129 |
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grasp the problem and choke it. |
datasuspect |
Apr-03-09 09:54 AM |
#130 |
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Teach Gym........ |
Burma Jones |
Apr-03-09 10:02 AM |
#131 |
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This thread is exhibit #1 why men should not go into teaching |
AngryAmish |
Apr-03-09 10:11 AM |
#132 |
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bullshit |
Djinn |
Apr-11-09 04:45 AM |
#146 |
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Wrong. |
AngryAmish |
Apr-11-09 06:36 AM |
#151 |
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Move her to the back row? (eom) |
gmoney |
Apr-03-09 10:40 AM |
#135 |
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At my work that would be called learing... |
snooper2 |
Apr-03-09 12:50 PM |
#137 |
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Oh, and to add- do you check out her ass |
snooper2 |
Apr-03-09 12:54 PM |
#138 |
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get a female teacher to tell her? |
tigereye |
Apr-03-09 12:55 PM |
#139 |
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The problem is the clothes - no clothes no cleavage |
Help_I_Live_In_Idaho |
Apr-03-09 01:38 PM |
#141 |
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eeuuuww |
Djinn |
Apr-11-09 04:29 AM |
#143 |
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Why did you kick this thread 8 days later? |
Lil Missy |
Apr-11-09 04:38 AM |
#145 |
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is there a rule that says you can't read and post to old threads? |
Djinn |
Apr-11-09 04:49 AM |
#147 |
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I'm just suspicious by nature. I thought the point had already been made. |
Lil Missy |
Apr-11-09 05:08 AM |
#148 |
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fair enough |
Djinn |
Apr-11-09 05:21 AM |
#149 |
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Not that I know of |
JVS |
Apr-16-09 01:12 AM |
#154 |
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One of the pitfalls (pun intended) of teaching high school... |
JCMach1 |
Apr-11-09 06:30 AM |
#150 |
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You could always be "mistaken" about the dress code. |
rucky |
Apr-11-09 06:38 AM |
#152 |
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A bunch of Judgie Judies and Jakes around here. |
Jetboy |
Apr-11-09 08:31 AM |
#153 |
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Wear one of these when she's in class... |
GoddessOfGuinness |
Apr-16-09 01:36 AM |
#155 |
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If your eyes are drawn to sixteen year old titties, crack open the want ads and find another job. |
LeftyMom |
Apr-16-09 01:39 AM |
#157 |
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