alarimer
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Sat Mar-14-09 01:43 PM
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| 6. I think you are right. |
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Moving in when you are not ready is a recipe for disaster.
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| -As a rule of thumb, how soon is too soon to move in together? |
alarimer |
Mar-14-09 01:31 PM |
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A good time frame is when you are ready. And if he does not give you that time, he's a creep. |
Lil Missy |
Mar-14-09 01:34 PM |
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If you have to ask, it's too soon, IMO |
Richardo |
Mar-14-09 01:34 PM |
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I think you are right. |
alarimer |
Mar-14-09 01:43 PM |
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And maybe someday they might just....hold hands in public (giggle) |
Taverner |
Mar-17-09 10:46 AM |
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Before you want him/her there is too early, no matter what he/she feels/says/assures you. |
Heidi |
Mar-14-09 01:36 PM |
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He's gotta put a ring on it before he moves in |
cherish44 |
Mar-14-09 01:38 PM |
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Part of me is afraid that I will never be able to live with anyone ever. |
alarimer |
Mar-14-09 01:42 PM |
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If that's you, why fear it? |
WinkyDink |
Mar-16-09 07:59 AM |
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Beyonce? n/t |
Yavin4 |
Mar-14-09 06:05 PM |
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He sounds kind of pushy |
MorningGlow |
Mar-14-09 03:53 PM |
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I agree with the three-month rule. |
alarimer |
Mar-14-09 05:37 PM |
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Two months sounds too soon. |
CJCRANE |
Mar-14-09 04:54 PM |
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I think so too. |
alarimer |
Mar-14-09 05:38 PM |
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It depends on the couple. But if you weren't ready, he should've respected that |
Lex |
Mar-14-09 05:00 PM |
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You won't have to ask anybody when the "real deal" comes along. |
BlueJazz |
Mar-14-09 05:03 PM |
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I am not sure I agree. |
alarimer |
Mar-14-09 05:40 PM |
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That's entirely possible. I was hit by Lightning..The real shitty Kind. |
BlueJazz |
Mar-14-09 09:36 PM |
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Well, if it worked out, good for them. |
raccoon |
Mar-16-09 08:07 AM |
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maybe he's the problem, sounds like it to me. |
AlCzervik |
Mar-14-09 05:39 PM |
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If he pressured you to move in then you made the right decision NOT to do it. |
davsand |
Mar-14-09 05:45 PM |
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When the lease is up |
dkofos |
Mar-14-09 05:51 PM |
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Don't do it the way I did it |
SPKrazy |
Mar-14-09 05:52 PM |
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if you love him and it feels right |
backwoodsbob |
Mar-14-09 06:07 PM |
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It depends. You have to trust your heart on matters like these. |
Mike 03 |
Mar-14-09 06:10 PM |
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This is his loss. If he can not get past that then you guys will never |
Tuesday Afternoon |
Mar-14-09 06:17 PM |
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An ex joke! |
Resuscitated Ethics |
Mar-14-09 06:54 PM |
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Maybe I'm a hopeless romantic, but I think these things just have a |
Critters2 |
Mar-14-09 06:59 PM |
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Ever. (n/t) |
Iggo |
Mar-14-09 07:18 PM |
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Unless you are dating a homeless gut two months is way to soon |
Lost in CT |
Mar-14-09 10:59 PM |
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Listen to the little voice in your head. |
BarenakedLady |
Mar-14-09 11:04 PM |
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You should be together at least a year! |
stewartcolbert08 |
Mar-16-09 05:25 AM |
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He sounds like a controlling type. "Dear Abby" just listed "too much, too soon" as one sign. |
WinkyDink |
Mar-16-09 07:57 AM |
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There is no rule of thumb. Just whenever it feels right. |
Lil Missy |
Mar-16-09 08:21 AM |
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If you have to post that question on an online webform - then it's too soon |
LynneSin |
Mar-16-09 08:23 AM |
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She moved in after we were engaged. |
Jimbo S |
Mar-16-09 08:32 AM |
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When it feels right. |
malta blue |
Mar-16-09 08:53 AM |
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a year-ish. though lisa and i moved in earlier than that |
La Lioness Priyanka |
Mar-16-09 09:04 AM |
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My girlfriend and I moved in together after 3 years, and even then as a trial gig |
DFW |
Mar-16-09 09:16 AM |
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depends on the people/situation. |
unpossibles |
Mar-16-09 04:53 PM |
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You know when you know. I was once bitten, twice shy. |
Dora |
Mar-17-09 01:13 PM |
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He's just using that as an excuse. If you had moved in, you'd |
amitten |
Mar-17-09 01:19 PM |
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What does a lesbian always bring on a second date? |
Roon |
Mar-17-09 01:25 PM |
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Maybe he wanted someone to pick up dirty socks. |
Sequoia |
Mar-17-09 01:41 PM |
#43 |
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