Symarip
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Wed Dec-03-08 08:48 PM
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I'm sorry this happened to you and I know what you're going through, to some degree. My wife left me when I was out at sea. I thought everything was A-Ok and one day I get a letter saying it's over. Insult to injury was coming home months later to a heap of shit, financially and emotionally. Everything was ruined and my life as I had come to know it was unrecognizable.
Keep your head up. It'll get better.
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| -My husband told me on the cell phone he wants a divorce |
buckettgirl |
Dec-03-08 08:39 PM |
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It sucks....mine emailed me that he was en route to reconnect with is college girlfriend... |
likesmountains 52 |
Dec-03-08 08:41 PM |
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Mine taped a note to the front door, that he was going home to his folks'. |
mycritters2 |
Dec-03-08 08:43 PM |
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Sounds like he is an odious bastard, and you will enjoy your freedom. |
Elrond Hubbard |
Dec-03-08 08:41 PM |
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Jesus. Some people have no spine. |
mainegreen |
Dec-03-08 08:42 PM |
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Wow. Sorry. But it sounds like you've got a good perspective. |
mycritters2 |
Dec-03-08 08:42 PM |
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Sounds like a good thing in the long run. |
LeftyMom |
Dec-03-08 08:43 PM |
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yes |
buckettgirl |
Dec-03-08 08:49 PM |
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You might be due spousal support. |
Liberal_in_LA |
Dec-03-08 10:36 PM |
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agreed! DON"T SIGN without advice. |
Liberal_in_LA |
Dec-03-08 10:35 PM |
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Understand what you are going through |
The Straight Story |
Dec-03-08 08:43 PM |
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First of all, I'm sorry you're going through this. |
flvegan |
Dec-03-08 08:44 PM |
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God, that sounds familiar. |
LeftyMom |
Dec-03-08 08:53 PM |
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What a fucking coward!! Gheesh!! |
Breeze54 |
Dec-03-08 08:45 PM |
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I didn't leave because he "kicked" me out |
buckettgirl |
Dec-03-08 08:52 PM |
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it's half yours |
CreekDog |
Dec-03-08 09:40 PM |
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You're well rid of him. |
FloridaJudy |
Dec-03-08 08:45 PM |
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I'm sorry for the pain |
leftofthedial |
Dec-03-08 08:47 PM |
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That sucks. |
Symarip |
Dec-03-08 08:48 PM |
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I am really, really sorry. |
ThomCat |
Dec-03-08 08:49 PM |
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It does suck but you'll look back someday and be relieved you got out of this mess. |
Inspired |
Dec-03-08 08:52 PM |
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Sorry. |
elshiva |
Dec-03-08 08:55 PM |
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Harumpf |
buzzycrumbhunger |
Dec-03-08 08:58 PM |
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Sounds like my ex |
supernova |
Dec-03-08 09:02 PM |
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Thank god you're away from him. Stay safe (and DON'T go back). nt |
BlueIris |
Dec-03-08 09:04 PM |
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all our friends thought he was bluffing - |
buckettgirl |
Dec-03-08 09:10 PM |
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you don't have to teach him that actions have consequences |
CreekDog |
Dec-03-08 09:43 PM |
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man, I'm really really sorry |
harmonicon |
Dec-03-08 09:08 PM |
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He sounds like a coward. |
crim son |
Dec-03-08 09:08 PM |
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OH - NO! No children! we did not have kids. |
buckettgirl |
Dec-03-08 09:12 PM |
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Awww. That's an incredible burden. |
crim son |
Dec-03-08 09:24 PM |
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I didn't at first, but |
buckettgirl |
Dec-04-08 09:46 PM |
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I know this sucks, but based on the last part of your post I'd honestly say that |
Zavulon |
Dec-03-08 09:36 PM |
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Two things people shouldn't do via text: fatherhood and divorce... |
originalpckelly |
Dec-03-08 09:46 PM |
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Aww, so sorry |
SillyFlower |
Dec-03-08 10:14 PM |
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Get an attorney. Get one immediately. |
KC2 |
Dec-03-08 10:17 PM |
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I'm so sorry to hear that. But at the same time it does sound like you recognize the |
dem629 |
Dec-03-08 10:18 PM |
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Please stay strong and do not go back to him under any circumstances. |
Oregonian |
Dec-03-08 10:31 PM |
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I hope this ends up being a really good thing. I am so sorry. This has to be so hard. |
Shell Beau |
Dec-04-08 09:49 PM |
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Damn, that's cold. |
redqueen |
Dec-04-08 09:50 PM |
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For what it's worth...I think this was a Good Day for you. |
BlueJazz |
Dec-04-08 11:27 PM |
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