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johnnie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Oct-18-08 06:08 PM
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23. They are big people
Stay out of it
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  -SCRUPLES! If you knew that a friend of yours was having an affair on his wife... Writer  Oct-18-08 04:57 PM   #0 
  - She'll find out soon enough  taterguy   Oct-18-08 04:58 PM   #1 
  - I wish someone would have told me sooner  lost-in-nj   Oct-18-08 05:00 PM   #2 
  - Me too  lizziegrace   Oct-18-08 06:20 PM   #25 
     - And I at least  FloridaJudy   Oct-18-08 09:01 PM   #43 
  - nope. not my business. if you do, you will end up losing your friend and his wife  lionesspriyanka   Oct-18-08 05:01 PM   #3 
  - No  in search of sanity   Oct-18-08 05:02 PM   #4 
  - I sure wish somebody would have told me.  LeftyMom   Oct-18-08 05:04 PM   #5 
  - OOOO that's tough  HEyHEY   Oct-18-08 05:07 PM   #6 
  - No, not if you want to stay his friend. Also, a question,  elshiva   Oct-18-08 05:12 PM   #7 
  - No  OhioBlues   Oct-18-08 05:12 PM   #8 
  - Not gonna hurt her as bad if you tell her compared to her finding out a year later  Rabrrrrrr   Oct-18-08 05:13 PM   #9 
     - Well here's the thing  OhioBlues   Oct-18-08 05:21 PM   #14 
        - What about potential for disease? Possible pregnancy and child?  Rabrrrrrr   Oct-18-08 05:29 PM   #16 
           - Relationships are hard and when one partner strays there is a  OhioBlues   Oct-18-08 06:04 PM   #22 
  - I think telling is the honorable thing to do.  Rabrrrrrr   Oct-18-08 05:15 PM   #10 
  - dear god, do you have any friends, do you even know what the word friend means  pitohui   Oct-18-08 06:26 PM   #27 
  - Actually I agree with the poster you responded to.  moriah   Oct-18-08 07:37 PM   #35 
  - I'm glad you chimed in! Now I know for sure that I'm right.  Rabrrrrrr   Oct-18-08 07:39 PM   #36 
  - Are you serious? He's exactly right.  lildreamer316   Oct-18-08 09:02 PM   #44 
  - snitches and rats are ugly things to be  pitohui   Oct-19-08 12:59 PM   #68 
     - Oh, man, I'm crying tears from laughing!  Rabrrrrrr   Oct-19-08 02:55 PM   #75 
  - I do  quakerboy   Oct-19-08 03:32 AM   #50 
  - Wow. Just wow.  antfarm   Oct-19-08 12:30 PM   #65 
  - Coming from you, this is a hilariously funny post.  Midlodemocrat   Oct-19-08 02:18 PM   #71 
  - That is the right answer. Tell the friend you are giving him  Midlodemocrat   Oct-19-08 02:18 PM   #70 
  - I'd split from BOTH of them until the whole thing (marriage?) is over & settled!1  UTUSN   Oct-18-08 05:18 PM   #11 
  - MYOB  RetroLounge   Oct-18-08 05:19 PM   #12 
  - Slap your friend with a glove  Inchworm   Oct-18-08 05:20 PM   #13 
  - Writer let me ask you a question  lost-in-nj   Oct-18-08 05:21 PM   #15 
  - That's such a hard position to be in.  mutley_r_us   Oct-18-08 05:31 PM   #17 
  - Don't tell his wife and put a hold on the friendshipl  Inspired   Oct-18-08 05:35 PM   #18 
  - Personally, were it my friend, would tell him  Whoa_Nelly   Oct-18-08 05:50 PM   #19 
  - I agree with your post 100%.  last_texas_dem   Oct-18-08 07:08 PM   #31 
  - No..No..No...Nobody else's Business.  BlueJazz   Oct-18-08 05:52 PM   #20 
  - Not my business.  BarenakedLady   Oct-18-08 05:52 PM   #21 
  - They are big people  johnnie   Oct-18-08 06:08 PM   #23 
  - Yes, I would tell her--but anonymously.  oktoberain   Oct-18-08 06:18 PM   #24 
  - not if you care about the friend, if you hate and envy your friend have at it  pitohui   Oct-18-08 06:23 PM   #26 
  - I love your posts!  Rabrrrrrr   Oct-18-08 07:42 PM   #38 
  - very sensible comment  tigereye   Oct-18-08 11:03 PM   #45 
  - Just stunning.  antfarm   Oct-19-08 12:36 PM   #66 
  - No  Xipe Totec   Oct-18-08 06:45 PM   #28 
  - I don't know if I would tell the wife, but I couldn't stay friends...  I Have A Dream   Oct-18-08 06:50 PM   #29 
  - Well, certainly not before I slept with her, that would be highly unscrupulous.  billyoc   Oct-18-08 07:05 PM   #30 
  - No, but I would hate that situation  mokawanis   Oct-18-08 07:14 PM   #32 
  - No.  MrSlayer   Oct-18-08 07:33 PM   #33 
  - There is no universally correct answer. Depends on who played what role to bring this about.  mainegreen   Oct-18-08 07:34 PM   #34 
  - Wait, is this the prof that was hitting on you?  Dangerously Amused   Oct-18-08 07:42 PM   #37 
  - That's what I'm thinking. nt  Genevieve   Oct-19-08 11:58 AM   #61 
     - Right, if it is then that would change my answer.  Dangerously Amused   Oct-19-08 12:19 PM   #63 
  - yes  enigmatic   Oct-18-08 07:50 PM   #39 
  - I think your friend sucks for putting you in this position  GloriaSmith   Oct-18-08 07:54 PM   #40 
  - I would confront the friend, if he is a real friend.  kwassa   Oct-18-08 08:13 PM   #41 
  - Depends how much he'd be willing to pay for my silence  Orrex   Oct-18-08 08:56 PM   #42 
  - haha  realisticphish   Oct-19-08 06:57 AM   #56 
  - Yes. As it could affect her physical health, I would tell ASAP.  BlueIris   Oct-18-08 11:06 PM   #46 
  - Nope.  emilyg   Oct-18-08 11:19 PM   #47 
  - No  Nikia   Oct-19-08 01:05 AM   #48 
  - I might tell one of her close friends rather than telling her directly  petronius   Oct-19-08 01:10 AM   #49 
  - I know for a fact...  Iggo   Oct-19-08 05:57 AM   #51 
  - Hell no! I'd tell him that I know he's having an affair and say that it's probably not a good idea.  JVS   Oct-19-08 06:04 AM   #52 
  - I was the wife who was being cheated on.  ferrferr   Oct-19-08 06:07 AM   #53 
  - gasp  realisticphish   Oct-19-08 06:57 AM   #55 
     - Yeah .. you're right..  ferrferr   Oct-19-08 08:31 AM   #58 
        - wow  realisticphish   Oct-19-08 09:21 AM   #59 
  - Don't tell her, but tell your friend  realisticphish   Oct-19-08 06:56 AM   #54 
  - Use it to your advantage!  fourvahl   Oct-19-08 08:15 AM   #57 
  - So you do the right thing and tell the wife.  sarge43   Oct-19-08 09:55 AM   #60 
  - tattletales don't have good intentions  pitohui   Oct-19-08 12:55 PM   #67 
     - 'SCRUPLES"?: ironic.  Genevieve   Oct-19-08 01:02 PM   #69 
     - I'm not sure if you meant your post as an answer to mine, but  sarge43   Oct-19-08 02:20 PM   #72 
        - I'm in total agreement with you.  Genevieve   Oct-19-08 02:27 PM   #73 
           - Ah. I didn't realize. Thank you. n/t  sarge43   Oct-19-08 02:38 PM   #74 
  - How about what you tell your friend?  lunatica   Oct-19-08 12:16 PM   #62 
  - Absolutely.  Tilion   Oct-19-08 12:22 PM   #64 
  - The only way I'd even CONSIDER getting involved in something like that would be if  Zavulon   Oct-19-08 03:51 PM   #76 
  - Yes, because there's a chance she'll sleep with me to get even.  flvegan   Oct-19-08 04:30 PM   #77 
  - Been there, done that, wish I hadn't.  trof   Oct-19-08 04:50 PM   #78 
 

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