Inchworm
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Sat Oct-18-08 05:20 PM
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| 13. Slap your friend with a glove |
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and say WTF. Then hope for a while. There are too many variables open for much more. Maybe she knows and is getting a little side action herself. I myself would stay out of it and ask to be kept out of the loop.  |
| -SCRUPLES! If you knew that a friend of yours was having an affair on his wife... |
Writer |
Oct-18-08 04:57 PM |
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She'll find out soon enough |
taterguy |
Oct-18-08 04:58 PM |
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I wish someone would have told me sooner |
lost-in-nj |
Oct-18-08 05:00 PM |
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Me too |
lizziegrace |
Oct-18-08 06:20 PM |
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And I at least |
FloridaJudy |
Oct-18-08 09:01 PM |
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nope. not my business. if you do, you will end up losing your friend and his wife |
lionesspriyanka |
Oct-18-08 05:01 PM |
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No |
in search of sanity |
Oct-18-08 05:02 PM |
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I sure wish somebody would have told me. |
LeftyMom |
Oct-18-08 05:04 PM |
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OOOO that's tough |
HEyHEY |
Oct-18-08 05:07 PM |
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No, not if you want to stay his friend. Also, a question, |
elshiva |
Oct-18-08 05:12 PM |
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No |
OhioBlues |
Oct-18-08 05:12 PM |
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Not gonna hurt her as bad if you tell her compared to her finding out a year later |
Rabrrrrrr |
Oct-18-08 05:13 PM |
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Well here's the thing |
OhioBlues |
Oct-18-08 05:21 PM |
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What about potential for disease? Possible pregnancy and child? |
Rabrrrrrr |
Oct-18-08 05:29 PM |
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Relationships are hard and when one partner strays there is a |
OhioBlues |
Oct-18-08 06:04 PM |
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I think telling is the honorable thing to do. |
Rabrrrrrr |
Oct-18-08 05:15 PM |
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dear god, do you have any friends, do you even know what the word friend means |
pitohui |
Oct-18-08 06:26 PM |
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Actually I agree with the poster you responded to. |
moriah |
Oct-18-08 07:37 PM |
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I'm glad you chimed in! Now I know for sure that I'm right. |
Rabrrrrrr |
Oct-18-08 07:39 PM |
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Are you serious? He's exactly right. |
lildreamer316 |
Oct-18-08 09:02 PM |
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snitches and rats are ugly things to be |
pitohui |
Oct-19-08 12:59 PM |
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Oh, man, I'm crying tears from laughing! |
Rabrrrrrr |
Oct-19-08 02:55 PM |
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I do |
quakerboy |
Oct-19-08 03:32 AM |
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Wow. Just wow. |
antfarm |
Oct-19-08 12:30 PM |
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Coming from you, this is a hilariously funny post. |
Midlodemocrat |
Oct-19-08 02:18 PM |
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That is the right answer. Tell the friend you are giving him |
Midlodemocrat |
Oct-19-08 02:18 PM |
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I'd split from BOTH of them until the whole thing (marriage?) is over & settled!1 |
UTUSN |
Oct-18-08 05:18 PM |
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MYOB |
RetroLounge |
Oct-18-08 05:19 PM |
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Slap your friend with a glove |
Inchworm |
Oct-18-08 05:20 PM |
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Writer let me ask you a question |
lost-in-nj |
Oct-18-08 05:21 PM |
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That's such a hard position to be in. |
mutley_r_us |
Oct-18-08 05:31 PM |
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Don't tell his wife and put a hold on the friendshipl |
Inspired |
Oct-18-08 05:35 PM |
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Personally, were it my friend, would tell him |
Whoa_Nelly |
Oct-18-08 05:50 PM |
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I agree with your post 100%. |
last_texas_dem |
Oct-18-08 07:08 PM |
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No..No..No...Nobody else's Business. |
BlueJazz |
Oct-18-08 05:52 PM |
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Not my business. |
BarenakedLady |
Oct-18-08 05:52 PM |
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They are big people |
johnnie |
Oct-18-08 06:08 PM |
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Yes, I would tell her--but anonymously. |
oktoberain |
Oct-18-08 06:18 PM |
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not if you care about the friend, if you hate and envy your friend have at it |
pitohui |
Oct-18-08 06:23 PM |
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I love your posts! |
Rabrrrrrr |
Oct-18-08 07:42 PM |
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very sensible comment |
tigereye |
Oct-18-08 11:03 PM |
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Just stunning. |
antfarm |
Oct-19-08 12:36 PM |
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No |
Xipe Totec |
Oct-18-08 06:45 PM |
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I don't know if I would tell the wife, but I couldn't stay friends... |
I Have A Dream |
Oct-18-08 06:50 PM |
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Well, certainly not before I slept with her, that would be highly unscrupulous. |
billyoc |
Oct-18-08 07:05 PM |
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No, but I would hate that situation |
mokawanis |
Oct-18-08 07:14 PM |
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No. |
MrSlayer |
Oct-18-08 07:33 PM |
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There is no universally correct answer. Depends on who played what role to bring this about. |
mainegreen |
Oct-18-08 07:34 PM |
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Wait, is this the prof that was hitting on you? |
Dangerously Amused |
Oct-18-08 07:42 PM |
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That's what I'm thinking. nt |
Genevieve |
Oct-19-08 11:58 AM |
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Right, if it is then that would change my answer. |
Dangerously Amused |
Oct-19-08 12:19 PM |
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yes |
enigmatic |
Oct-18-08 07:50 PM |
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I think your friend sucks for putting you in this position |
GloriaSmith |
Oct-18-08 07:54 PM |
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I would confront the friend, if he is a real friend. |
kwassa |
Oct-18-08 08:13 PM |
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Depends how much he'd be willing to pay for my silence |
Orrex |
Oct-18-08 08:56 PM |
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haha |
realisticphish |
Oct-19-08 06:57 AM |
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Yes. As it could affect her physical health, I would tell ASAP. |
BlueIris |
Oct-18-08 11:06 PM |
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Nope. |
emilyg |
Oct-18-08 11:19 PM |
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No |
Nikia |
Oct-19-08 01:05 AM |
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I might tell one of her close friends rather than telling her directly |
petronius |
Oct-19-08 01:10 AM |
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I know for a fact... |
Iggo |
Oct-19-08 05:57 AM |
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Hell no! I'd tell him that I know he's having an affair and say that it's probably not a good idea. |
JVS |
Oct-19-08 06:04 AM |
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I was the wife who was being cheated on. |
ferrferr |
Oct-19-08 06:07 AM |
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gasp |
realisticphish |
Oct-19-08 06:57 AM |
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Yeah .. you're right.. |
ferrferr |
Oct-19-08 08:31 AM |
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wow |
realisticphish |
Oct-19-08 09:21 AM |
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Don't tell her, but tell your friend |
realisticphish |
Oct-19-08 06:56 AM |
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Use it to your advantage! |
fourvahl |
Oct-19-08 08:15 AM |
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So you do the right thing and tell the wife. |
sarge43 |
Oct-19-08 09:55 AM |
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tattletales don't have good intentions |
pitohui |
Oct-19-08 12:55 PM |
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'SCRUPLES"?: ironic. |
Genevieve |
Oct-19-08 01:02 PM |
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I'm not sure if you meant your post as an answer to mine, but |
sarge43 |
Oct-19-08 02:20 PM |
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I'm in total agreement with you. |
Genevieve |
Oct-19-08 02:27 PM |
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Ah. I didn't realize. Thank you. n/t |
sarge43 |
Oct-19-08 02:38 PM |
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How about what you tell your friend? |
lunatica |
Oct-19-08 12:16 PM |
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Absolutely. |
Tilion |
Oct-19-08 12:22 PM |
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The only way I'd even CONSIDER getting involved in something like that would be if |
Zavulon |
Oct-19-08 03:51 PM |
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Yes, because there's a chance she'll sleep with me to get even. |
flvegan |
Oct-19-08 04:30 PM |
#77 |
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Been there, done that, wish I hadn't. |
trof |
Oct-19-08 04:50 PM |
#78 |
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