La Lioness Priyanka
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Tue Jul-08-08 03:37 PM
Response to Reply #22 |
| 27. i agree and i think it means more to me. she has never wanted a wedding |
| -Am I being unfair? |
lionesspriyanka |
Jul-08-08 03:14 PM |
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It's hard to say you're necessarily being unfair. |
Kerrytravelers |
Jul-08-08 03:17 PM |
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i am already to be married but i want the time to have a wedding. |
lionesspriyanka |
Jul-08-08 03:19 PM |
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Ah. I see. |
Kerrytravelers |
Jul-08-08 03:21 PM |
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Can't you just have the wedding in New Jersey or Massachusetts? |
LynneSin |
Jul-08-08 03:18 PM |
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we can have a wedding in new york but for us to have marriage rights |
lionesspriyanka |
Jul-08-08 03:21 PM |
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Consider this- The opportunity to marry is still not written in stone |
nomad1776 |
Jul-08-08 03:21 PM |
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we could still get married in canada and have it be honored in ny |
lionesspriyanka |
Jul-08-08 03:21 PM |
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If that's not a problem than no, you are not being unreasonable |
nomad1776 |
Jul-08-08 03:32 PM |
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But California might rescind our marriage rights |
XemaSab |
Jul-08-08 05:29 PM |
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but canada wont. nt |
lionesspriyanka |
Jul-08-08 06:06 PM |
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If THAT happens, I want an invite! |
primate1 |
Jul-08-08 03:56 PM |
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i think we should do the legal thing in montreal. i love montreal |
lionesspriyanka |
Jul-08-08 03:57 PM |
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I've only driven through, but I would totally put in the effort to go if you did. |
primate1 |
Jul-08-08 04:21 PM |
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IMHO, have the ceremony now |
Midlodemocrat |
Jul-08-08 03:21 PM |
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Yes, this. |
Withywindle |
Jul-08-08 04:17 PM |
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It depends on the type of wedding you and Lisa are looking for. |
malta blue |
Jul-08-08 03:22 PM |
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yes. i think i want something in the middle. nothing elaborate, not a backyard BBQ either |
lionesspriyanka |
Jul-08-08 03:23 PM |
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I think you both need to be happy about your decision, and I understand both sides. |
PelosiFan |
Jul-08-08 03:23 PM |
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For what my opinion is worth: |
KC2 |
Jul-08-08 03:23 PM |
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its not being pressured into marriage. i guess i should emphasis that in my OP |
lionesspriyanka |
Jul-08-08 03:24 PM |
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Consider this. |
Midlodemocrat |
Jul-08-08 03:26 PM |
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Yep...We were married by our good friend |
bicentennial_baby |
Jul-08-08 03:27 PM |
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to them it is, i think a real wedding depends on what you want your wedding to be |
lionesspriyanka |
Jul-08-08 03:32 PM |
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Do you want the whole big church wedding? |
Midlodemocrat |
Jul-08-08 03:36 PM |
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small affair and a medium sized reception |
lionesspriyanka |
Jul-08-08 03:39 PM |
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I think you're in a tough spot. |
Midlodemocrat |
Jul-08-08 03:42 PM |
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thanks for the advice and the support. |
lionesspriyanka |
Jul-08-08 03:43 PM |
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Sorry lionesspriyanka |
KC2 |
Jul-08-08 03:35 PM |
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Why would a wedding in SF have to be a quickie? |
petronius |
Jul-08-08 03:27 PM |
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all my friends are on the east coast or in india. |
lionesspriyanka |
Jul-08-08 03:33 PM |
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Why does she want to get married now? |
Gormy Cuss |
Jul-08-08 03:33 PM |
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i think she does because its possible to do so |
lionesspriyanka |
Jul-08-08 03:35 PM |
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That's a tough one, then. |
Gormy Cuss |
Jul-08-08 03:40 PM |
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Just don't bring your cat. |
Midlodemocrat |
Jul-08-08 03:44 PM |
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Flowers are good at weddings. n/t |
Gormy Cuss |
Jul-08-08 05:18 PM |
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I Just Want To Arrange Your Honeymoon!!!! |
Parche |
Jul-08-08 03:33 PM |
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lol |
lionesspriyanka |
Jul-08-08 03:36 PM |
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are you a travel agent? |
Fran Kubelik |
Jul-08-08 03:38 PM |
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I think I understand. |
RadiationTherapy |
Jul-08-08 03:35 PM |
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i agree and i think it means more to me. she has never wanted a wedding |
lionesspriyanka |
Jul-08-08 03:37 PM |
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I suspected that. You win in my book. |
RadiationTherapy |
Jul-08-08 03:46 PM |
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Wow... okay. Let's see what if I can provide any useful advise... |
Writer |
Jul-08-08 03:40 PM |
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we haven't really sat them down and asked. |
lionesspriyanka |
Jul-08-08 03:42 PM |
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Ohhh. Well then it seems you may have some time, then, while you finish school, etc. |
Writer |
Jul-08-08 03:47 PM |
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we would still have to get the legal stuff done in canada or california |
lionesspriyanka |
Jul-08-08 03:51 PM |
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Okay. |
Writer |
Jul-08-08 03:55 PM |
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How about this... |
huskerlaw |
Jul-08-08 04:02 PM |
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an anniversary party lacks the meaning of a wedding to me |
lionesspriyanka |
Jul-08-08 04:04 PM |
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No, I don't think it's just you |
huskerlaw |
Jul-08-08 04:08 PM |
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I would feel the same way |
latebloomer |
Jul-08-08 04:11 PM |
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my 2 cents. |
redwitch |
Jul-08-08 04:18 PM |
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If you go get married, you have the legal part done and you have legal protections now. |
Rabrrrrrr |
Jul-08-08 04:23 PM |
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Just Hop A Plane and get married |
Southpawkicker |
Jul-08-08 05:20 PM |
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Sounds like you don't really want to make it official |
XemaSab |
Jul-08-08 05:28 PM |
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sounds like maybe you need to learn how to read. nt |
lionesspriyanka |
Jul-08-08 05:28 PM |
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Oh? |
XemaSab |
Jul-08-08 05:34 PM |
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yes, not because i dont want to marry her, but because i want to have a ceremony too |
lionesspriyanka |
Jul-08-08 05:36 PM |
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But if you want to make it official in the eyes of the state |
XemaSab |
Jul-08-08 05:38 PM |
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which by the way isnt weekend. its a whole week in california. |
lionesspriyanka |
Jul-08-08 05:39 PM |
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Have the wedding in NYC then go to SF for a honeymoon and get the legal stuff done there? |
Saint Etienne17 |
Jul-08-08 05:31 PM |
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weddings take time to plan. this is the problem |
lionesspriyanka |
Jul-08-08 05:32 PM |
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Can you delay the wedding until winter vacation? |
Saint Etienne17 |
Jul-08-08 05:39 PM |
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yeah. i think this is where my objection is. i want a normal wedding |
lionesspriyanka |
Jul-08-08 05:41 PM |
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Decide what your priorities are, as a couple, then choose. |
Shine |
Jul-08-08 05:31 PM |
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the CA rule not standing isnt such a big deal, because we can get married in canada |
lionesspriyanka |
Jul-08-08 05:33 PM |
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Oh, that's cool....plus, it's closer! |
Shine |
Jul-08-08 05:37 PM |
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Have you discussed this with her? |
DarkTirade |
Jul-08-08 05:33 PM |
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yes we have, but the problem here is both of us are right |
lionesspriyanka |
Jul-08-08 05:34 PM |
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Yeah, that always sucks. |
DarkTirade |
Jul-08-08 05:34 PM |
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Why change your status right now at all? |
Maddy McCall |
Jul-08-08 05:34 PM |
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thats exactly my point. |
lionesspriyanka |
Jul-08-08 05:37 PM |
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How sensible of you. |
Shine |
Jul-08-08 05:40 PM |
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I think it all depends on your definition of a "real" wedding |
skygazer |
Jul-08-08 05:52 PM |
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to me the legalties are less important right now |
lionesspriyanka |
Jul-08-08 06:04 PM |
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.... |
skygazer |
Jul-08-08 07:28 PM |
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I'd like to congratulate you on snagging a white woman. nt. |
IndianaJones |
Jul-08-08 06:30 PM |
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you too nt |
lionesspriyanka |
Jul-09-08 08:48 AM |
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weddings are designed to be a complete nuisance |
GloriaSmith |
Jul-08-08 07:47 PM |
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i feel like i have too much on my plate and cannot possibly organize |
lionesspriyanka |
Jul-09-08 07:27 AM |
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matrimony with acrimony usually doesn't bode well. better solve the problem or cancel it all. |
MichiganVote |
Jul-09-08 08:49 AM |
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A wedding is something that should never be rushed! |
NewJeffCT |
Jul-09-08 08:53 AM |
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