Reply #15: I was raised by a psychologist and here is what she would say

[Quixote1818]

Try not to let prejudices and the things society says are right tell you what to think or feel. Follow your heart and find the beauty in her free spirited ways. If she gets the impression you think she is odd or strange because of her attractions she will most certainly reject you because you would be sending a message there is something wrong with her. I would embrace who and what she is and help her feel good about her attractions as natural and beautiful. Lets face it you seem to have a real erotic fantasy about her with another person do you think that fantasy is wrong? Of course not it's a part of who you are. Have the guts to do what you really want to do. Don't suppress those feelings but embrace them and just have fun. Loosen up or you will be left again. Ross from Friends had the same problem. Remember?

If you follow your heart and what she does seems too weird then you must let go of her because you must embrace all of her even the things that society as put a negative light on. If you can't then you two are not meant to be. Accept her or move on.