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Crazy Dave Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-24-08 11:40 AM
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21. You are correct my dear Peggy
I've always hated judgmental people and now I'm acting like one :hi:
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  -Mourning the loss of a loved one, my opinion...at least pretend you care DaveTheWave  May-24-08 09:14 AM   #0 
  - Callous indeed  turtlensue   May-24-08 09:19 AM   #1 
  - Some people deal with loss differently. Maybe he got a shock from her death and he's scrambling to  Nickster   May-24-08 09:19 AM   #2 
  - Very possible  DaveTheWave   May-24-08 09:27 AM   #3 
  - That's what I was thinking. n/t  hiaasenrocks   May-25-08 04:31 PM   #44 
  - I wouldn't judge him too harshly. If he was a good  LibDemAlways   May-24-08 09:29 AM   #4 
  - I'm thinking that, as awful as it sounds, he did his grieving already...  Chan790   May-24-08 09:45 AM   #5 
  - All that is true but his tone to us sounded more like...  DaveTheWave   May-24-08 09:59 AM   #6 
  - Anger is a stage of grief. Prehaps that is part of the reason  havocmom   May-24-08 11:26 AM   #14 
  - "I feel relieved more than sad"  Hardhead   May-25-08 12:40 PM   #39 
  - I think sometimes the passing of a sick loved one is a relief.  Midlodemocrat   May-24-08 10:05 AM   #7 
  - With my dad's marriage four months after his and mom's divorce  DaveTheWave   May-24-08 10:11 AM   #8 
  - Different people.  Midlodemocrat   May-24-08 10:13 AM   #9 
  - ::chuckle:: It has been said a man does not leave a marriage unless he has somewhere to go  havocmom   May-24-08 11:29 AM   #15 
  - I think he is in denial, too.  murielm99   May-25-08 03:27 AM   #34 
  - My dear DaveTheWave...  CaliforniaPeggy   May-24-08 11:07 AM   #10 
  - You are correct my dear Peggy  DaveTheWave   May-24-08 11:40 AM   #21 
  - I have spent much of the (almost) 9 months running away from myself...  MrsGrumpy   May-24-08 11:19 AM   #11 
  - No one should have ever questioned anything you did.  Midlodemocrat   May-24-08 11:21 AM   #13 
  - My inlaws constantly do...  MrsGrumpy   May-24-08 11:34 AM   #18 
     - I can't believe they would be so nosy. That's terrible!  YellowRubberDuckie   May-25-08 04:20 PM   #42 
  - It can be healthy to try new things and stake out new territory that is YOURS  havocmom   May-24-08 11:31 AM   #16 
  - I am having a difficult time with it not being the ours anymore...  MrsGrumpy   May-24-08 11:41 AM   #22 
  - Hey MrsG  DaveTheWave   May-24-08 11:38 AM   #19 
  - You know, I just can't understand that. I spend most of my time  MrsGrumpy   May-24-08 11:39 AM   #20 
  - my mom was quite literally a whirling dervish for nearly 3 years after we lost my  yellowdogintexas   May-24-08 08:30 PM   #30 
     - Thank you ydit..  MrsGrumpy   May-24-08 08:57 PM   #31 
        - oh Mrs G, I am glad you read this; I was hoping you would.  yellowdogintexas   May-24-08 09:00 PM   #32 
  - My grandfather.......  Jade Fox   May-24-08 11:19 AM   #12 
  - No one is asking what she was like?  Peake   May-24-08 11:33 AM   #17 
  - For ten years they seemed happy, no better or worse than most  DaveTheWave   May-24-08 11:45 AM   #23 
     - IMO, when you marry somebody, you give your life to them...  zanne   May-24-08 12:15 PM   #26 
        - At least for their kids  DaveTheWave   May-24-08 12:22 PM   #27 
  - I'm not as understanding as the rest of you guys...  zanne   May-24-08 11:46 AM   #24 
  - Well yeah, but...  Chan790   May-24-08 11:58 AM   #25 
  - Oh give him a break  Southpawkicker   May-24-08 12:24 PM   #28 
  - People grieve in different ways  CC   May-24-08 12:29 PM   #29 
  - Grief is very personal and individualized  Old Hickory Fan   May-25-08 01:28 AM   #33 
  - Well, it isn't as bad as my stepfather sleeping with what  China_cat   May-25-08 10:38 AM   #35 
  - My one uncle did that. Took "her" to the funeral, too.  WinkyDink   May-25-08 02:02 PM   #41 
  - Men and Women deal with sort of loss differently  khashka   May-25-08 11:30 AM   #36 
  - Rather odd.  applegrove   May-25-08 12:29 PM   #37 
  - My dad had his "girlfriend/drinking buddy" attend my mom's funeral  graywarrior   May-25-08 12:34 PM   #38 
  - The first thing I thought of reading this was...  DaveTheWave   May-26-08 07:03 AM   #45 
  - My mother immediately got new windows; a widowed friend re-painted her own house.  WinkyDink   May-25-08 02:00 PM   #40 
  - Everybody, including his kids think/know it's Sugar Daddy talking  DaveTheWave   May-26-08 07:10 AM   #46 
  - My sister's neighbor committed suicide  rainbow4321   May-25-08 04:22 PM   #43 
  - Sounds like he is lashing out.  Lady Freedom   May-26-08 07:10 AM   #47 
 

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