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Sat May-24-08 11:33 AM
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| 17. No one is asking what she was like? |
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If she was troubling the relationship, and he stuck it out through her death, he's already given her something that she perhaps may not have deserved. Depending upon her actions, that is. He may just be selfish, but there are always two sides to a two-person relationship.
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| -Mourning the loss of a loved one, my opinion...at least pretend you care |
DaveTheWave |
May-24-08 09:14 AM |
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Callous indeed |
turtlensue |
May-24-08 09:19 AM |
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Some people deal with loss differently. Maybe he got a shock from her death and he's scrambling to |
Nickster |
May-24-08 09:19 AM |
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Very possible |
DaveTheWave |
May-24-08 09:27 AM |
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That's what I was thinking. n/t |
hiaasenrocks |
May-25-08 04:31 PM |
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I wouldn't judge him too harshly. If he was a good |
LibDemAlways |
May-24-08 09:29 AM |
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I'm thinking that, as awful as it sounds, he did his grieving already... |
Chan790 |
May-24-08 09:45 AM |
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All that is true but his tone to us sounded more like... |
DaveTheWave |
May-24-08 09:59 AM |
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Anger is a stage of grief. Prehaps that is part of the reason |
havocmom |
May-24-08 11:26 AM |
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"I feel relieved more than sad" |
Hardhead |
May-25-08 12:40 PM |
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I think sometimes the passing of a sick loved one is a relief. |
Midlodemocrat |
May-24-08 10:05 AM |
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With my dad's marriage four months after his and mom's divorce |
DaveTheWave |
May-24-08 10:11 AM |
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Different people. |
Midlodemocrat |
May-24-08 10:13 AM |
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::chuckle:: It has been said a man does not leave a marriage unless he has somewhere to go |
havocmom |
May-24-08 11:29 AM |
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I think he is in denial, too. |
murielm99 |
May-25-08 03:27 AM |
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My dear DaveTheWave... |
CaliforniaPeggy |
May-24-08 11:07 AM |
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You are correct my dear Peggy |
DaveTheWave |
May-24-08 11:40 AM |
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I have spent much of the (almost) 9 months running away from myself... |
MrsGrumpy |
May-24-08 11:19 AM |
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No one should have ever questioned anything you did. |
Midlodemocrat |
May-24-08 11:21 AM |
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My inlaws constantly do... |
MrsGrumpy |
May-24-08 11:34 AM |
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I can't believe they would be so nosy. That's terrible! |
YellowRubberDuckie |
May-25-08 04:20 PM |
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It can be healthy to try new things and stake out new territory that is YOURS |
havocmom |
May-24-08 11:31 AM |
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I am having a difficult time with it not being the ours anymore... |
MrsGrumpy |
May-24-08 11:41 AM |
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Hey MrsG |
DaveTheWave |
May-24-08 11:38 AM |
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You know, I just can't understand that. I spend most of my time |
MrsGrumpy |
May-24-08 11:39 AM |
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my mom was quite literally a whirling dervish for nearly 3 years after we lost my |
yellowdogintexas |
May-24-08 08:30 PM |
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Thank you ydit.. |
MrsGrumpy |
May-24-08 08:57 PM |
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oh Mrs G, I am glad you read this; I was hoping you would. |
yellowdogintexas |
May-24-08 09:00 PM |
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My grandfather....... |
Jade Fox |
May-24-08 11:19 AM |
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No one is asking what she was like? |
Peake |
May-24-08 11:33 AM |
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For ten years they seemed happy, no better or worse than most |
DaveTheWave |
May-24-08 11:45 AM |
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IMO, when you marry somebody, you give your life to them... |
zanne |
May-24-08 12:15 PM |
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At least for their kids |
DaveTheWave |
May-24-08 12:22 PM |
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I'm not as understanding as the rest of you guys... |
zanne |
May-24-08 11:46 AM |
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Well yeah, but... |
Chan790 |
May-24-08 11:58 AM |
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Oh give him a break |
Southpawkicker |
May-24-08 12:24 PM |
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People grieve in different ways |
CC |
May-24-08 12:29 PM |
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Grief is very personal and individualized |
Old Hickory Fan |
May-25-08 01:28 AM |
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Well, it isn't as bad as my stepfather sleeping with what |
China_cat |
May-25-08 10:38 AM |
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My one uncle did that. Took "her" to the funeral, too. |
WinkyDink |
May-25-08 02:02 PM |
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Men and Women deal with sort of loss differently |
khashka |
May-25-08 11:30 AM |
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Rather odd. |
applegrove |
May-25-08 12:29 PM |
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My dad had his "girlfriend/drinking buddy" attend my mom's funeral |
graywarrior |
May-25-08 12:34 PM |
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The first thing I thought of reading this was... |
DaveTheWave |
May-26-08 07:03 AM |
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My mother immediately got new windows; a widowed friend re-painted her own house. |
WinkyDink |
May-25-08 02:00 PM |
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Everybody, including his kids think/know it's Sugar Daddy talking |
DaveTheWave |
May-26-08 07:10 AM |
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My sister's neighbor committed suicide |
rainbow4321 |
May-25-08 04:22 PM |
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Sounds like he is lashing out. |
Lady Freedom |
May-26-08 07:10 AM |
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