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Guava Jelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Sep-20-07 01:00 PM
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3. Nope
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  -have you ever cheated on a SO? Rising Phoenix  Sep-20-07 12:57 PM   #0 
  - Don't mind me. Just making a list.  ohiosmith   Sep-20-07 12:59 PM   #1 
  - yes.  lionesspriyanka   Sep-20-07 01:00 PM   #2 
  - thanks for the honesty  Rising Phoenix   Sep-20-07 01:00 PM   #4 
     - its true aside from lisa i have cheated on all my so's.  lionesspriyanka   Sep-20-07 01:01 PM   #6 
        - If you warn, it isn't cheating.......  new_beawr   Sep-20-07 02:13 PM   #59 
        - i am evil. evil will get ya  lionesspriyanka   Sep-20-07 02:14 PM   #62 
        - LOL  cobalt1999   Sep-21-07 08:01 AM   #144 
           - i tell everyone on my second or third date, that i have cheated on all MY so's and probably  lionesspriyanka   Sep-21-07 11:11 AM   #150 
              - Yes, but how do they react?  cobalt1999   Sep-21-07 11:24 AM   #155 
                 - they shrug mainly.  lionesspriyanka   Sep-21-07 11:25 AM   #156 
  - Nope  GoPsUx   Sep-20-07 01:00 PM   #3 
  - Maybe in high school. But never a real relationship!  Shell Beau   Sep-20-07 01:01 PM   #5 
  - Yes, about 15 years ago  KitchenWitch   Sep-20-07 01:01 PM   #7 
  - Same here.  Dulcinea   Sep-20-07 02:01 PM   #45 
  - Same here, about 30 years ago. nt  raccoon   Sep-21-07 08:24 AM   #145 
  - What is a SO?  Gilligan   Sep-20-07 01:02 PM   #8 
  - significant other  lionesspriyanka   Sep-20-07 01:02 PM   #9 
  - Yes  Gilligan   Sep-20-07 01:03 PM   #11 
  - Significant Other  KitchenWitch   Sep-20-07 01:02 PM   #10 
  - Symphony Orchestra.  mainegreen   Sep-20-07 01:03 PM   #12 
  - You hussie!!!  jtg33   Sep-20-07 01:04 PM   #13 
  - I'm telling!  Gormy Cuss   Sep-20-07 01:48 PM   #32 
  - You've probably been waiting years to use that one, haven't you?  mainegreen   Sep-20-07 02:11 PM   #56 
  - Band sex means no strings  swimboy   Sep-20-07 02:42 PM   #98 
  - Sierra Oscar. Some military lingo. This place is weird. nt.  IndianaJones   Sep-20-07 01:05 PM   #14 
  - Storm Organ  EstimatedProphet   Sep-20-07 02:16 PM   #68 
  - I thought you were joking  hfojvt   Sep-20-07 03:06 PM   #117 
  - No  MissHoneychurch   Sep-20-07 01:05 PM   #15 
  - No, I have not - I've only lusted after Priyanka in my heart  NewJeffCT   Sep-20-07 01:23 PM   #16 
  - thats really funny  lionesspriyanka   Sep-20-07 01:26 PM   #17 
     - I'm not really joking  NewJeffCT   Sep-20-07 01:41 PM   #26 
  - That would be putting the cart before the horse.  billyskank   Sep-20-07 01:28 PM   #18 
  - horses and carts... jeez! you're a kinky one!  MissMillie   Sep-20-07 01:57 PM   #42 
  - No. It is the highest form of betrayal.  Midlodemocrat   Sep-20-07 01:31 PM   #19 
  - Hey, you!  Shakespeare   Sep-20-07 01:32 PM   #20 
  - Check your PM.  Midlodemocrat   Sep-20-07 01:33 PM   #23 
  - It is sometimes a little more complicated than that. nt.  IndianaJones   Sep-20-07 01:33 PM   #24 
  - Sorry. No, it isn't. If you are done with the person enough to  Midlodemocrat   Sep-20-07 01:35 PM   #25 
     - ...  Gormy Cuss   Sep-20-07 01:55 PM   #41 
     - Why, thank you, darlin'.  Midlodemocrat   Sep-20-07 01:57 PM   #43 
     - lots of relationships survive infidelity. they are no less valid than any other. nt.  IndianaJones   Sep-20-07 02:04 PM   #49 
     - Which isn't the topic. The topic is whether or not someone  Midlodemocrat   Sep-20-07 02:06 PM   #51 
        - Your response seems to me to attach a simple explanation for infidelity...  IndianaJones   Sep-20-07 02:12 PM   #58 
           - She didn't say that everyone who cheats is evil or morally bankrupt.  Shakespeare   Sep-20-07 02:14 PM   #63 
           - see below. nt.  IndianaJones   Sep-20-07 02:15 PM   #66 
              - Again, she's talking about the act, not the person.  Shakespeare   Sep-20-07 02:17 PM   #70 
              - And my point is that life is not merely good and evil acts....  IndianaJones   Sep-20-07 02:22 PM   #74 
                 - Can you give us an example of good, productive infidelity?  Midlodemocrat   Sep-20-07 02:23 PM   #75 
                 - I believe I said that it cannot be characterized as good.  IndianaJones   Sep-20-07 02:25 PM   #77 
                    - Well, the opposite of good is evil and since you indicated that  Midlodemocrat   Sep-20-07 02:26 PM   #78 
                       - That would assume that I subscribe to your black and white view of the universe.  IndianaJones   Sep-20-07 02:27 PM   #81 
                          - LOL. My universe if far from black and white.  Midlodemocrat   Sep-20-07 02:28 PM   #83 
                             - black is the opposite of white. I thought there was no nuance in the universe.  IndianaJones   Sep-20-07 02:31 PM   #86 
                                - Dude, you are totally talking in circles.  Midlodemocrat   Sep-20-07 02:35 PM   #89 
                                   - I may talk in circles, but I don't engage in broad brush characterizations of millions of people. nt  IndianaJones   Sep-20-07 02:38 PM   #93 
                                      - Wow. you travel in some pretty wild circles.  Midlodemocrat   Sep-20-07 02:39 PM   #95 
                                      - callous, disgusting, evil (the act...not the person...gotta keep repeating that one)  IndianaJones   Sep-20-07 02:47 PM   #106 
                                      - Yup. That's what I think.  Midlodemocrat   Sep-20-07 02:50 PM   #108 
                                      - 'Cause then it would be too easy to just make some crap up to verify my own views. ya know? nt.  IndianaJones   Sep-20-07 02:53 PM   #110 
                                      - Right. Because in the 'burbs, no one ever cheats on a spouse.  Midlodemocrat   Sep-20-07 02:56 PM   #112 
                                      - I believe it. Just as I am completely sure that you are not familiar...  IndianaJones   Sep-20-07 02:58 PM   #113 
                                      - Then enlighten me.  Midlodemocrat   Sep-20-07 02:58 PM   #114 
                                      - to conceive the Messiah. nt.  IndianaJones   Sep-20-07 03:08 PM   #118 
                                      - OMG. You ARE kidding, right?  Midlodemocrat   Sep-20-07 03:10 PM   #120 
                                      - If your SO is sterile. nt.  IndianaJones   Sep-20-07 03:15 PM   #121 
                 - All infidelity is not evil?  Shakespeare   Sep-20-07 02:32 PM   #87 
                    - I'm still waiting for an example of non evil or good infidelity.  Midlodemocrat   Sep-20-07 02:36 PM   #91 
                    - which moral code? judeo christian? ummm....Mary. nt.  IndianaJones   Sep-20-07 02:56 PM   #111 
                    - which standard of morality are you using for your definition of evil? judeo-christian? nt.  IndianaJones   Sep-20-07 02:36 PM   #92 
                       - hindu gods cheat in their stories. damn evil gods.  lionesspriyanka   Sep-20-07 02:44 PM   #101 
                          - this is obviously the judeo-christian moral code evil we are discussing...  IndianaJones   Sep-20-07 02:45 PM   #103 
              - Once more, with feeling.  Midlodemocrat   Sep-20-07 02:18 PM   #71 
                 - The problem with such black and white thinking is that any case given that shows...  IndianaJones   Sep-20-07 02:24 PM   #76 
                    - What are some non evil cases that you know of?  Midlodemocrat   Sep-20-07 02:26 PM   #79 
                       - Is there any case I could actually state that would cause you to reconsider your world view?  IndianaJones   Sep-20-07 02:29 PM   #84 
                          - Possibly. I'm just asking you to elaborate on any examples  Midlodemocrat   Sep-20-07 02:30 PM   #85 
                             - Since you use the term evil, define the boundaries for me....  IndianaJones   Sep-20-07 02:33 PM   #88 
                                - Actually, you are the one who used it first.  Midlodemocrat   Sep-20-07 02:35 PM   #90 
                                   - I simply implied it, quite correctly, from your own insults. nt.  IndianaJones   Sep-20-07 02:39 PM   #94 
                                      - Insults?  Midlodemocrat   Sep-20-07 02:40 PM   #96 
                                         - thoughtless, disgusting, callous, evil...of course all directed at the act...not the person.  IndianaJones   Sep-20-07 02:44 PM   #102 
                                            - And, you think committing infidelity is none of those things?  Midlodemocrat   Sep-20-07 02:46 PM   #104 
                                            - Really not cool pal  Puglover   Sep-21-07 02:05 PM   #159 
           - No excuse for cheating.  Midlodemocrat   Sep-20-07 02:14 PM   #64 
     - In theory, I agree with you....  SacredCow   Sep-20-07 03:10 PM   #119 
  - Your "form of betrayal" meter stops too short  Echos Myron   Sep-22-07 11:09 AM   #161 
  - I kissed someone else once  MissMillie   Sep-20-07 01:32 PM   #21 
  - If you cheat, they ain't significant  new_beawr   Sep-20-07 01:32 PM   #22 
  - BS  Taverner   Sep-20-07 01:43 PM   #27 
     - there are no shades of grey on the internet tav, its always all or nothing  lionesspriyanka   Sep-20-07 01:44 PM   #29 
     - I know, huh?  Taverner   Sep-20-07 01:46 PM   #30 
     - its not even a case of black and white. People seem to make it good vs evil. nt.  IndianaJones   Sep-20-07 02:06 PM   #50 
        - well its a well known fact that i am evil. which is fine, because all my ex's are friends with me  lionesspriyanka   Sep-20-07 02:08 PM   #53 
           - you are evil. may I suggest prayer? nt  IndianaJones   Sep-20-07 02:10 PM   #55 
              - sure.  lionesspriyanka   Sep-20-07 02:11 PM   #57 
     - If you cheat on someone, that someone isn't significant anymore  new_beawr   Sep-20-07 01:49 PM   #35 
        - How so?  Taverner   Sep-20-07 01:51 PM   #39 
           - Once you're near 50, you learn some things are indeed binary  new_beawr   Sep-20-07 02:03 PM   #47 
              - I think that's a very appropriate way to put this argument  MissMillie   Sep-20-07 02:09 PM   #54 
  - Do not believe in it and do not condone it  raptor_rider   Sep-20-07 01:43 PM   #28 
  - No, I would be afraid that Sweetie would take it as a personal rejection...  Deep13   Sep-20-07 01:46 PM   #31 
  - Nope  johnnie   Sep-20-07 01:48 PM   #33 
  - Yes.  Withywindle   Sep-20-07 01:49 PM   #34 
  - No. I wouldn't do that for any reason or dollar amount.  Zavulon   Sep-20-07 01:50 PM   #36 
  - Yup.  redqueen   Sep-20-07 01:51 PM   #37 
  - i love you my dearest hussie  lionesspriyanka   Sep-20-07 01:51 PM   #38 
     - hehehe  redqueen   Sep-20-07 01:54 PM   #40 
  - no  ikhor   Sep-20-07 01:59 PM   #44 
  - Nope. It's the ultimate act of dishonesty in a relationship.  Shakespeare   Sep-20-07 02:02 PM   #46 
  - Like I said to Gormy, another neighbor just discovered her husband  Midlodemocrat   Sep-20-07 02:04 PM   #48 
     - I don't, either.  Shakespeare   Sep-20-07 02:07 PM   #52 
     - You never can get it.  jobycom   Sep-20-07 02:27 PM   #80 
        - I'm sorry jobycom.  Midlodemocrat   Sep-20-07 03:05 PM   #116 
        - Thanks. I didn't know people even read my drivle, much less remembered it.  jobycom   Sep-20-07 08:52 PM   #130 
        - Well said!!  bicentennial_baby   Sep-20-07 05:19 PM   #124 
  - No  lelapin   Sep-20-07 02:13 PM   #60 
  - Once  john_jons   Sep-20-07 02:14 PM   #61 
  - Isn't that what they're for? I mean you can't...  TreasonousBastard   Sep-20-07 02:14 PM   #65 
  - Agreed........  new_beawr   Sep-20-07 02:16 PM   #69 
     - You are lucky number 69  Gilligan   Sep-20-07 02:19 PM   #72 
        - It's a position I'm willing to take  new_beawr   Sep-20-07 02:21 PM   #73 
  - No, and at this point I don't I ever can.  eyepaddle   Sep-20-07 02:16 PM   #67 
  - No. It's a definite deal-breaker.  LaraMN   Sep-20-07 02:27 PM   #82 
  - yes  Amaya   Sep-20-07 02:42 PM   #97 
  - Not just cute, extremely cute!  Midlodemocrat   Sep-20-07 02:43 PM   #99 
     - thank you!  Amaya   Sep-20-07 09:09 PM   #133 
  - this thread exemplifies why i intensely dislike monogamy.  xchrom   Sep-20-07 02:44 PM   #100 
  - hello princess  lionesspriyanka   Sep-20-07 02:46 PM   #105 
     - La Lioness!!!  xchrom   Sep-20-07 02:48 PM   #107 
  - Yes, that's how I knew the relationship was over  annonymous   Sep-20-07 02:51 PM   #109 
  - Yeah...  SacredCow   Sep-20-07 03:04 PM   #115 
  - No  Crabby Appleton   Sep-20-07 03:24 PM   #122 
  - I voted "yes" but it was over 10 years ago.  ceile   Sep-20-07 03:24 PM   #123 
  - TECHNICALLY yes. It was one of those situations where we both wanted to break up  DarkTirade   Sep-20-07 07:47 PM   #125 
  - Nope. And if somebody were to cheat on me, that would be the end of the relationship. n/t  Pushed To The Left   Sep-20-07 07:56 PM   #126 
  - I don't think so.Geez, it's bugging me that I cannot say so with 100% confidence.  Pacifist Patriot   Sep-20-07 07:57 PM   #127 
  - Not Yet  ByTheRiver   Sep-20-07 08:10 PM   #128 
  - If one says 'yes', does that mean one has no SO?  HypnoToad   Sep-20-07 08:29 PM   #129 
  - no i said yes, and i do have an SO  lionesspriyanka   Sep-20-07 09:03 PM   #131 
  - it means you lack the ability to discern morality...or don't care. nt.  IndianaJones   Sep-20-07 09:06 PM   #132 
  - I am so fucking appalled..  CrabbyPatty   Sep-20-07 09:46 PM   #134 
  - ...  Blue State Native   Sep-21-07 08:55 AM   #147 
  - Actually, I think being against cheating is very progressive!  Pushed To The Left   Sep-22-07 09:49 AM   #160 
  - Nope  Inchworm   Sep-20-07 09:50 PM   #135 
  - yes i have. many times.  Elrond Hubbard   Sep-20-07 09:58 PM   #136 
  - ...  kagehime   Sep-21-07 08:56 AM   #148 
  - evil  lionesspriyanka   Sep-21-07 11:12 AM   #152 
  - You manwhore.  WritingIsMyReligion   Sep-22-07 11:26 AM   #162 
  - Aye  BarenakedLady   Sep-20-07 09:59 PM   #137 
  - then we're both evil.  Elrond Hubbard   Sep-20-07 09:59 PM   #138 
  - me first. you second.  lionesspriyanka   Sep-21-07 11:11 AM   #151 
  - nope  Southpawkicker   Sep-20-07 11:45 PM   #139 
  - No  enigmatic   Sep-21-07 12:24 AM   #140 
  - Was my boss an SO?  bluedigger   Sep-21-07 12:36 AM   #141 
  - Yes I have  Roon   Sep-21-07 12:48 AM   #142 
  - No -- it's not different in the gay world  LostinVA   Sep-21-07 08:45 AM   #146 
  - sorry you were sick  lionesspriyanka   Sep-21-07 11:15 AM   #153 
  - Nope.  Orsino   Sep-21-07 06:43 AM   #143 
  - No.  huskerlaw   Sep-21-07 09:23 AM   #149 
  - And you call yourself a liberal.  Midlodemocrat   Sep-21-07 11:21 AM   #154 
     - I know, I know.  huskerlaw   Sep-21-07 11:41 AM   #157 
  - no...  bridgit   Sep-21-07 12:35 PM   #158 
  - No. Being in a committed relationship means just that  nini   Sep-22-07 11:39 AM   #163 
 

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