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Fire Walk With Me Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Aug-02-07 10:51 PM
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62. Oh man, I'm sorry to hear this!
I'm one of those persons who is unable to have a quality relationship with others, am working upon myself diligently, and have no wish to inflict myself upon others unless I have some amount of maturity to offer (which might not happen).

I hope that you have had more happiness in the last 20 years than difficulty. I know many persons who have been married, or seriously involved, and have not made it to 20 years, so consider any joy that you've had, to have been worth the while. I hope that this perspective can come to you once you've worked through the upset and pain.

Do not end up blaming yourself. Be careful to watch yourself on that. Obviously, you're capable of being in a relationship for as long as you want to be, which is an accomplishment for anyone. You have this to offer, and nothing can diminish it.
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  -Projection is a lovely thing, don't you think? TOhioLiberal  Aug-02-07 08:09 PM   #0 
  - I hope that you will find a place to land from this upheaval.  Ptah   Aug-02-07 08:15 PM   #1 
  - Thanks Ptah...  TOhioLiberal   Aug-02-07 08:18 PM   #2 
  - are you gonna get alimony?  idgiehkt   Aug-02-07 08:20 PM   #3 
  - No alimony...  TOhioLiberal   Aug-02-07 08:26 PM   #5 
     - Well, I hope things improve for you from here on out.  idgiehkt   Aug-02-07 08:27 PM   #7 
     - My thoughts exactly.  BlueIris   Aug-02-07 08:29 PM   #10 
     - Doubtful...  TOhioLiberal   Aug-02-07 08:29 PM   #11 
        - Here is a song for you  idgiehkt   Aug-02-07 08:55 PM   #22 
        - Good song...  TOhioLiberal   Aug-02-07 09:41 PM   #42 
        - How do you know her?  LibraLiz1973   Aug-02-07 09:48 PM   #46 
           - This is where it gets interesting...  TOhioLiberal   Aug-02-07 09:56 PM   #51 
     - why not?  mzteris   Aug-02-07 09:00 PM   #27 
        - You've got mail...  TOhioLiberal   Aug-02-07 09:37 PM   #38 
  - It's going to be a year for me in about a week.  sfexpat2000   Aug-02-07 08:25 PM   #4 
  - I'm hanging...  TOhioLiberal   Aug-02-07 08:27 PM   #6 
     - Good.  sfexpat2000   Aug-02-07 08:28 PM   #9 
     - Good for you.  idgiehkt   Aug-02-07 08:41 PM   #16 
  - ....  Elrond Hubbard   Aug-02-07 08:28 PM   #8 
  - Thanks Elrond...  TOhioLiberal   Aug-02-07 08:33 PM   #13 
     - I'm glad to hear that.  Elrond Hubbard   Aug-02-07 09:08 PM   #29 
  - I'm sorry to hear you're going through this painful time but  Breeze54   Aug-02-07 08:31 PM   #12 
  - It's simple...  TOhioLiberal   Aug-02-07 08:35 PM   #14 
     - Well....  Breeze54   Aug-02-07 08:38 PM   #15 
        - I packed Doug's stuff up and paid to have it delivered  sfexpat2000   Aug-02-07 08:47 PM   #19 
           - My ex took his most important crap with him and  Breeze54   Aug-02-07 08:56 PM   #23 
              - One of my friends stacked her ex's stuff out on the driveway  sfexpat2000   Aug-02-07 09:00 PM   #26 
              - Just to clarify, his crap was in my basement for two years!!  Breeze54   Aug-02-07 09:54 PM   #50 
                 - What a great judge!  sfexpat2000   Aug-02-07 09:58 PM   #53 
                    - Wow! You beat me!! My one and only was  Breeze54   Aug-02-07 10:13 PM   #56 
                       - How old are your kids? Mine are okay despite their dad  sfexpat2000   Aug-02-07 10:22 PM   #58 
                          - They're all grown up now.. late twenties.  Breeze54   Aug-02-07 10:31 PM   #60 
              - I didn't help him PACK...  TOhioLiberal   Aug-02-07 09:20 PM   #30 
                 - That's an incredibly important skill to have.  sfexpat2000   Aug-02-07 09:32 PM   #36 
                    - Absolutely...  TOhioLiberal   Aug-02-07 09:39 PM   #40 
  - Well I'm Sorry...  Southpawkicker   Aug-02-07 08:42 PM   #17 
  - I think the shocks are ending...  TOhioLiberal   Aug-02-07 09:24 PM   #31 
  - Sorry  EstimatedProphet   Aug-02-07 08:44 PM   #18 
  - Thanks EP...  TOhioLiberal   Aug-02-07 09:25 PM   #32 
     - Y'know, as strange as this is...  EstimatedProphet   Aug-02-07 10:18 PM   #57 
  - TOL  lost-in-nj   Aug-02-07 08:49 PM   #20 
  - Thanks lost...  TOhioLiberal   Aug-02-07 09:25 PM   #33 
  - aw hon -  mzteris   Aug-02-07 08:54 PM   #21 
  - Not that I'm in a hurry...  TOhioLiberal   Aug-02-07 09:26 PM   #34 
  - delete dupe  mzteris   Aug-02-07 08:57 PM   #24 
  - What an inconsiderate motherfucker.  originalpckelly   Aug-02-07 08:59 PM   #25 
  - I don't know...  TOhioLiberal   Aug-02-07 09:31 PM   #35 
     - The thinking is, if they leave you, they leave that part of themselves  sfexpat2000   Aug-02-07 09:38 PM   #39 
        - very, very wise words  idgiehkt   Aug-02-07 09:40 PM   #41 
           - My worry...  TOhioLiberal   Aug-02-07 09:43 PM   #43 
           - After 20 years, you've learned how strong you are.  sfexpat2000   Aug-02-07 09:49 PM   #48 
           - Human beans.  sfexpat2000   Aug-02-07 09:47 PM   #45 
  - I am so sorry you have to go through this long, drawn out  ThomCat   Aug-02-07 09:06 PM   #28 
  - Thanks ThomCat...  TOhioLiberal   Aug-02-07 09:33 PM   #37 
  - Just keep moving forward  Debi   Aug-02-07 09:44 PM   #44 
  - Thats all I can do...  TOhioLiberal   Aug-02-07 09:49 PM   #47 
  - Just popping in  Inchworm   Aug-02-07 09:51 PM   #49 
  - Inchy...  TOhioLiberal   Aug-02-07 09:57 PM   #52 
  - Please remember to take care of yourself first.  Gormy Cuss   Aug-02-07 09:58 PM   #54 
  - Thanks Gormy Cuss...  TOhioLiberal   Aug-02-07 10:12 PM   #55 
  - Things get better  Taverner   Aug-02-07 10:26 PM   #59 
  - He's a slimeball  u4ic   Aug-02-07 10:42 PM   #61 
  - Oh man, I'm sorry to hear this!  Peake   Aug-02-07 10:51 PM   #62 
 

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