Reply #54: Please remember to take care of yourself first.

[Gormy Cuss]

Fuck him. Let his roommate or some other friend of his schlep his stuff. He's being a user. That he has no car or license is his own problem. That sounds really harsh but you need to protect you because you are a woman of great value and it seems he no longer values you.

I've had several friends go through this type of breakup and the STBE always tried to get the wife to do everything for him. If he's anything like their spouses, he's not worried about you. He's guilty. Remember that every time he says anything that sounds conciliatory.

I'm sorry that you're going through this.