Reply #50: Update to my present situation:

[Manifestor_of_Light]

Been living with the present SO for 13 years. We couldn't get married until his wife #2 who had cleaned out the house and abandoned him, showed up and wanted a divorce last year, a mere 16 years after she cleaned him out and left.

So he got a divorce, finally. Now my problem is that there are two ex wives of his that are jerks that are Mrs. Hisname, and a daughter in law that is Mrs. Hisname who is a slavering frothing at the mouth screaming fundy, and I'm not sure that I want to have his last name because of the three Mrs. Hisnames that I would be ashamed to be connected to or mistaken for. And the worst part is that the first ex-wife has the same name that I do, and the second ex wife has my deceased sister's first name.