Marie26
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Sun Apr-01-07 07:32 PM
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It's really rare to find one who's willing to actually talk to a woman, or care about what's in her head. I'm sorry your wife had a bad time - but it sounds like she's got a very supportive husband and family. Best wishes to both of you.
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| -Why can't folks just talk to a pretty woman without being jerk offs???? |
The Straight Story |
Apr-01-07 07:18 PM |
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Because, deep down, we're really just funny looking chimps |
LeftyMom |
Apr-01-07 07:21 PM |
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Not really. |
jpgray |
Apr-01-07 07:26 PM |
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The TV Idolizes Beauty - The Proles Are Encouraged To Seek Beauty |
lostnotforgotten |
Apr-01-07 07:22 PM |
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It's completely possible and happens lots. Depends on the bar, the people, lots of things. |
jpgray |
Apr-01-07 07:25 PM |
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These are men who have run out of ideas to meet women. nt |
iconoclastic cat |
Apr-01-07 07:30 PM |
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You took her to a place where guys are drunk and looking to get laid... |
porphyrian |
Apr-01-07 07:26 PM |
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Jeez, find a better bar that isn't a meat locker |
Little Wing |
Apr-01-07 07:27 PM |
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It was not always that way to some extent there |
The Straight Story |
Apr-01-07 07:59 PM |
#26 |
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Try a local theater group instead. |
annabanana |
Apr-01-07 07:30 PM |
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As an ex-bartender, I can honestly tell you that guys make |
Cleita |
Apr-01-07 07:31 PM |
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I would die to have an intelligent face-to-face conversation with |
Texas Explorer |
Apr-01-07 07:31 PM |
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That's how guys are. |
Marie26 |
Apr-01-07 07:32 PM |
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Nah--I think both sexes are prone to some superficial attraction and pursuit behavior |
jpgray |
Apr-01-07 07:33 PM |
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Ooookay then. |
Marie26 |
Apr-01-07 07:41 PM |
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Everybody is judged and evaluated on appearance |
jpgray |
Apr-01-07 07:44 PM |
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So you are saying men are usually NOT more aggressive about it?. |
Vincardog |
Apr-02-07 12:35 AM |
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i don't think women get as mean when rejected as some guys do |
bettyellen |
Apr-01-07 10:28 PM |
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"Entitled" |
Truthiness Inspector |
Apr-02-07 12:53 AM |
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I was never that way, so it strikes me as sad |
The Straight Story |
Apr-01-07 07:50 PM |
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She needs to go someplace other than a bar if she just wants to talk |
Lorien |
Apr-01-07 07:33 PM |
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Good ideas |
The Straight Story |
Apr-01-07 07:45 PM |
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But that's damn sad..... |
BlackVelvet04 |
Apr-01-07 10:41 PM |
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It's Simple... |
givemebackmycountry |
Apr-01-07 07:33 PM |
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Find some place that's more social, less drunky drunky. |
Selatius |
Apr-01-07 07:36 PM |
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I've been asking the same question for years. |
smirkymonkey |
Apr-01-07 07:37 PM |
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If wishes were ponies, perhaps, but that's just not how guys, as an aggregate, are. |
BlooInBloo |
Apr-01-07 07:39 PM |
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If your wife is that attractive and you knew that her looks and personality... |
TWriterD |
Apr-01-07 07:47 PM |
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Simply put: |
The Straight Story |
Apr-01-07 07:53 PM |
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You think that stuff doesn't happen at a Meetup? |
thecatburgler |
Apr-01-07 11:46 PM |
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Helen of Troy, is that you? |
TWriterD |
Apr-02-07 08:58 AM |
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Apparently, I'm not conventionally attractive, because I simply do not have this problem. |
Left Is Write |
Apr-02-07 10:54 AM |
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The same reason that you mentioned she is "super in bed"? |
omega minimo |
Apr-01-07 07:50 PM |
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Yeah - but they don't know that :) |
The Straight Story |
Apr-01-07 07:57 PM |
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No. The reason you mentioned it and the reason they are jerk-offs is |
omega minimo |
Apr-01-07 08:00 PM |
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Exactly. What an odd remark for a post which is ostensibly about the objectification of women.nt |
Reterr |
Apr-01-07 08:35 PM |
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Um yeah we didn't really need to know that either. |
chimpsrsmarter |
Apr-01-07 09:57 PM |
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Perceptive as Always, omega |
Hidden Stillness |
Apr-02-07 12:04 AM |
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Topdogging has become the national pasttime. |
omega minimo |
Apr-02-07 12:15 AM |
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What cured me of this as a teen... |
skids |
Apr-01-07 07:56 PM |
#24 |
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As high minded as this all sounds |
DireStrike |
Apr-01-07 10:48 PM |
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This belongs in the lounge |
cali |
Apr-01-07 08:02 PM |
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It's a commentary to me on society and how we treat others |
The Straight Story |
Apr-01-07 08:10 PM |
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Sorry, I disagree. |
cali |
Apr-01-07 08:18 PM |
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Definitely the vibes. |
spacelady |
Apr-01-07 10:10 PM |
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Try being perceived as "unattractive" |
JulieRB |
Apr-01-07 09:00 PM |
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I know what you mean, JulieRB |
Cabcere |
Apr-02-07 12:02 AM |
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What the hell were you thinking |
Bronyraurus |
Apr-02-07 12:07 AM |
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I was thinking the same thing cali |
Reterr |
Apr-01-07 08:33 PM |
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Guys go to bars to get laid, not to have deep meaningful conversations. |
MrSlayer |
Apr-01-07 08:06 PM |
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My wife is 48 years old and still good looking, long brunette hair, pretty face... |
Jonathan50 |
Apr-01-07 08:06 PM |
#30 |
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When my daughter was 15, we were eating |
DemBones DemBones |
Apr-01-07 08:50 PM |
#39 |
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(a) You can't get a hit unless you swing... |
BlooInBloo |
Apr-01-07 10:30 PM |
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Don't know what do with it if they catch it.. |
Jonathan50 |
Apr-01-07 10:33 PM |
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I had a graduate school friend who looked like a young Faye Dunaway, and |
Lydia Leftcoast |
Apr-01-07 10:05 PM |
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I'm not sure what you are trying to say by "graduate school men" |
Jonathan50 |
Apr-01-07 10:35 PM |
#54 |
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Shy and insecure, mostly |
Lydia Leftcoast |
Apr-01-07 11:07 PM |
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The teasing is from jealousy.. |
Jonathan50 |
Apr-02-07 01:23 AM |
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I think she'd have felt worse if |
DemBones DemBones |
Apr-01-07 08:17 PM |
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She sounds like a real treasure. And fortunately for her, she |
JerseygirlCT |
Apr-01-07 08:24 PM |
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I'm a little confused--why did you just drop her off rather than accompany her? |
Mayberry Machiavelli |
Apr-01-07 08:27 PM |
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No one to watch our 6 yr old (nt) |
The Straight Story |
Apr-01-07 09:05 PM |
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Best NOT to be 'attractive' and go to a bar because,... |
sicksicksick_N_tired |
Apr-01-07 08:40 PM |
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I always had an instant cure for it |
Skittles |
Apr-01-07 09:50 PM |
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"Does this look infected?" |
chimpsrsmarter |
Apr-01-07 10:05 PM |
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LOL, Skittles! |
JulieRB |
Apr-01-07 10:08 PM |
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I never f***ing "put up" with ANYTHING from men |
Skittles |
Apr-01-07 10:20 PM |
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You go, girl |
JulieRB |
Apr-01-07 11:43 PM |
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You dropped her off at a BAR and expected something different from what happened??? |
Roland99 |
Apr-01-07 10:11 PM |
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Sorry dude,it's human nature. |
Swede |
Apr-01-07 10:13 PM |
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Women like a provider,men like a productive female. |
Jonathan50 |
Apr-01-07 10:37 PM |
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because your statement turns us all into johns and whores |
liontamer |
Apr-02-07 07:33 AM |
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Jesus |
BoneDaddy |
Apr-01-07 10:36 PM |
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If this is the biggest problem you have in your life, I envy you ... eom |
TheBorealAvenger |
Apr-01-07 10:44 PM |
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I have both male and female friends that i can talk to about just |
rasputin1952 |
Apr-01-07 10:44 PM |
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because "men and women can never be friends" |
orleans |
Apr-01-07 10:46 PM |
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Because usually only confident guys hit on hot ladies |
krispos42 |
Apr-01-07 10:54 PM |
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You are so wrong! |
Truthiness Inspector |
Apr-02-07 01:12 AM |
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He he he! So their confidence was self-delusional |
krispos42 |
Apr-02-07 01:20 AM |
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I wish I could meet some of the people on DU |
Quixote1818 |
Apr-01-07 10:57 PM |
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You might want to try going to a Unitarian Universalist congregation.. |
Jonathan50 |
Apr-02-07 01:31 AM |
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i understand what you're saying but honestly, didn't you know this would happen |
OmmmSweetOmmm |
Apr-01-07 11:18 PM |
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Doesn't matter. It's his SO - it's other guys' faults no matter what. |
BlooInBloo |
Apr-01-07 11:28 PM |
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How is this not a lounge thread? |
nam78_two |
Apr-01-07 11:27 PM |
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I agree-I emailed the mods-I hope they move it.NT |
Reterr |
Apr-01-07 11:44 PM |
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Why do men forget they're men? |
lynyrd_skynyrd |
Apr-01-07 11:37 PM |
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why can't drunk guys in a bar hit on good-looking single women without being called jerks? |
QuestionAll |
Apr-01-07 11:42 PM |
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What do you assume women get gussied up for you? |
thecatburgler |
Apr-01-07 11:55 PM |
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That's why I liked going to gay bars so much... |
badgerpup |
Apr-01-07 11:49 PM |
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Why can't men just jerk off instead of starting WWIII? |
omega minimo |
Apr-01-07 11:52 PM |
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Couldn't resist, could you |
Little Wing |
Apr-02-07 08:48 AM |
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Next time she just wants conversation and dancing, try a gay bar |
Bucky |
Apr-01-07 11:59 PM |
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The music is usually better too... |
libnnc |
Apr-02-07 12:39 AM |
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Holy crap! |
MonkeyFunk |
Apr-02-07 12:02 AM |
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Yeah, that never used to happen! |
DemBones DemBones |
Apr-02-07 01:05 AM |
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This is a vanity thread |
tkmorris |
Apr-02-07 01:18 AM |
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Don't you wish your girlfriend was hot like mine! |
BlooInBloo |
Apr-02-07 01:20 AM |
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No kidding-I know I can just hide thread or ignore it |
nam78_two |
Apr-02-07 01:31 AM |
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It amazes me this thread hasn't been moved to the lounge! What |
B Calm |
Apr-02-07 04:46 AM |
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Damned good observation. It's not appropriate for this forum, by any stretch of the imagination. n/t |
Judi Lynn |
Apr-02-07 04:58 AM |
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Didn't you hear? The sexes are at war. |
tomreedtoon |
Apr-02-07 02:14 AM |
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Say, hic, yer kina cute |
HEyHEY |
Apr-02-07 03:17 AM |
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must be an anomaly, a bar is usually a good place to meet |
Crabby Appleton |
Apr-02-07 06:22 AM |
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the better question to ask, imo, is: |
buddhamama |
Apr-02-07 06:24 AM |
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I understand your plight. |
slj0101 |
Apr-02-07 06:25 AM |
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The command of Darwinism: HAVE SEX NOW! NOW! NOW DAMMIT! |
Deep13 |
Apr-02-07 07:52 AM |
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She sounds like a wonderful woman. |
BarenakedLady |
Apr-02-07 07:54 AM |
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You set her up for it |
kdsusa |
Apr-02-07 09:14 AM |
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Unless the bar is filled with 25-year olds willing to play the role of "Benjamin." |
TWriterD |
Apr-02-07 09:44 AM |
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I'd say your wife |
mzteris |
Apr-02-07 09:19 AM |
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It's the venue |
realisticphish |
Apr-02-07 10:20 AM |
#108 |
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I could talk to her as a person |
GoPsUx |
Apr-02-07 11:09 AM |
#110 |
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