MissMillie
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Fri Mar-30-07 12:51 PM
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| 15. I'm sorry, but yes, that's creepy |
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not so much that you'd be interested in a younger woman, because well, who wouldn't be?
but why not date someone your own age? Don't you think you'd have a lot more to talk about with someone who is roughly at the same stage of life that you are?
And how the hell are 40ish women ever supposed to find a nice guy if all the 40ish men are dating 19-year-olds?
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| -Age v. dating opinions wanted |
LanternWaste |
Mar-30-07 12:09 PM |
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go for it |
leftofthedial |
Mar-30-07 12:13 PM |
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been there, done that |
NightWatcher |
Mar-30-07 12:13 PM |
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You should do what feels right to you |
alarimer |
Mar-30-07 12:15 PM |
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I would tend to wonder what you might have in common |
skygazer |
Mar-30-07 12:15 PM |
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you did ask: i think its creepy. |
lionesspriyanka |
Mar-30-07 12:19 PM |
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I'm a male closer to your age than 19, but |
ForrestGump |
Mar-30-07 12:22 PM |
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Good post, and you're right on the money |
LostinVA |
Mar-30-07 12:41 PM |
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if you have chemistry and common interests, what does age matter |
Ariana Celeste |
Mar-30-07 12:30 PM |
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It's up to the people |
LostinVA |
Mar-30-07 12:30 PM |
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The Lounge needs to be sanitized and purged. |
cboy4 |
Mar-30-07 12:42 PM |
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Stalin! You're back! |
GirlinContempt |
Mar-30-07 02:55 PM |
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Awww, thank you for the compliment! |
cboy4 |
Mar-30-07 04:22 PM |
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Purges! They're like hot soup on a cold day! |
GirlinContempt |
Mar-30-07 04:28 PM |
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Creepy. |
hippiechick |
Mar-30-07 12:36 PM |
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Depends. Sometimes creepy sometimes not. My parents had a 25 year difference. |
mainegreen |
Mar-30-07 12:42 PM |
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i dunno |
AZDemDist6 |
Mar-30-07 12:50 PM |
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Oh, sweet freakin' bald-headed Jesus! |
deucemagnet |
Mar-30-07 04:08 PM |
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The age isn't creepy.. |
Omphaloskepsis |
Mar-30-07 12:50 PM |
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I'm sorry, but yes, that's creepy |
MissMillie |
Mar-30-07 12:51 PM |
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Lesbian here |
Madspirit |
Mar-30-07 12:55 PM |
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*gasp* |
LostinVA |
Mar-30-07 01:01 PM |
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lol |
MissMillie |
Mar-30-07 01:05 PM |
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We should be! |
LostinVA |
Mar-30-07 01:06 PM |
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You're better than my ex... |
Madspirit |
Mar-30-07 01:31 PM |
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Lost, |
Karenca |
Mar-30-07 02:48 PM |
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Agreed n/t |
LostinVA |
Mar-30-07 03:20 PM |
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Let me add a caveat.... |
LanternWaste |
Mar-30-07 01:04 PM |
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I got what you meant |
LostinVA |
Mar-30-07 01:06 PM |
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It doesn't sound creepy at all. Go for it! |
classicfilmfan |
Mar-30-07 02:24 PM |
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Have you considered consulting a British pop band with your situation? |
RedStateShame |
Mar-30-07 01:05 PM |
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She'll be the one to tell you |
Oeditpus Rex |
Mar-30-07 01:06 PM |
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Would you date someone who was 21 years OLDER than you are? |
LisaM |
Mar-30-07 01:07 PM |
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There's a good question |
Madspirit |
Mar-30-07 01:33 PM |
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Me? Probably not. |
LisaM |
Mar-30-07 03:50 PM |
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Actually... |
Madspirit |
Mar-30-07 03:57 PM |
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OOPS! |
LisaM |
Mar-30-07 04:26 PM |
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Thank you |
JulieRB |
Mar-30-07 02:09 PM |
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I don't think it's creepy, but that's an EXCELLENT question. |
redqueen |
Mar-30-07 02:34 PM |
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Thanks for bringing it up - there's an EXTREME double standard in this area. Men |
kath |
Mar-30-07 03:39 PM |
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Not all men |
skygazer |
Mar-30-07 05:51 PM |
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Do you work together closely? |
alarimer |
Mar-30-07 01:24 PM |
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agreed |
XemaSab |
Mar-30-07 06:47 PM |
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I'm female, and No, this does not sound creepy to me. |
Karenca |
Mar-30-07 01:25 PM |
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If you're both legal adults, it's not creepy at all. |
NewWaveChick1981 |
Mar-30-07 01:28 PM |
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I agree |
photogirl12 |
Mar-30-07 02:58 PM |
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When I was in college - 18 to 22 year old women had no interest in me |
NewJeffCT |
Mar-30-07 03:05 PM |
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If you have to put an exclamation point after her age, it's likely a problem. |
ContraBass Black |
Mar-30-07 03:07 PM |
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Agreed. Nineteen factorial is ... |
Boojatta |
Mar-30-07 05:02 PM |
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Math joke alert! |
mainegreen |
Mar-30-07 07:15 PM |
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Go for it |
ismnotwasm |
Mar-30-07 03:07 PM |
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Although the age difference does give me pause, it's really... |
Pacifist Patriot |
Mar-30-07 04:07 PM |
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I was in your shoes once. |
flamingyouth |
Mar-30-07 04:21 PM |
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Excellent post n/t |
LostinVA |
Mar-30-07 04:26 PM |
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It's not the age difference as much as the fact that you work in the |
Arkansas Granny |
Mar-30-07 04:26 PM |
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Let me put it this way. I am 40 and my daughter is 19. |
Left Is Write |
Mar-30-07 05:08 PM |
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Just put her in the position to make each and every "first move"... |
ALiberalSailor |
Mar-30-07 05:10 PM |
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If it doesn't matter to the two people involved who cares what other people think? |
Forkboy |
Mar-30-07 05:42 PM |
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When I was 19, I would have flipped out and felt all grossed out |
treestar |
Mar-30-07 06:26 PM |
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It's not nearly so much the age difference that would concern me. |
sammythecat |
Mar-30-07 06:59 PM |
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As someone who frequently dates guys 20 yrs younger... |
Engi |
Mar-30-07 07:00 PM |
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Have fun, enjoy the company, and see what happens. Mr. BAL is 12 years my JUNIOR |
blondeatlast |
Mar-30-07 07:20 PM |
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