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Sat Nov-11-06 01:07 PM
Response to Reply #20 |
| 21. True. The bearer of bad news gets punished, a lot of the time. |
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Maybe the one who is getting cheated on already knows. They don't want to hear about it from you.
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| -If you knew someone was cheating |
GirlinContempt |
Nov-11-06 10:51 AM |
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Yes, without a doubt. |
_testify_ |
Nov-11-06 10:54 AM |
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that's called "busting game" |
datasuspect |
Nov-11-06 11:05 AM |
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if i was good friends with the person, yes. |
buddhamama |
Nov-11-06 11:08 AM |
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No |
proud2Blib |
Nov-11-06 11:31 AM |
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Yup. Most people probably know already. |
zanne |
Nov-11-06 04:39 PM |
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Definitely yes . . . |
Simply Fugue |
Nov-11-06 11:33 AM |
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No, I would not, my dear GirlinContempt......... |
CaliforniaPeggy |
Nov-11-06 11:35 AM |
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No, it's not your place. |
haruka3_2000 |
Nov-11-06 11:35 AM |
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I have a friend who is cheating with someone |
ikojo |
Nov-11-06 11:37 AM |
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I would *never* tell the innocent party, but I would wail on the cheater's ass (nm) |
Book Lover |
Nov-11-06 11:45 AM |
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No and yes and I will say why |
marlakay |
Nov-11-06 12:04 PM |
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Technically, it's not in your place to tell... |
HypnoToad |
Nov-11-06 12:05 PM |
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That's a double edged sword |
skygazer |
Nov-11-06 12:07 PM |
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I wish someone told me. |
No Surrender |
Nov-11-06 12:11 PM |
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If the person being being cheated on was someone I owed loyalty to |
petronius |
Nov-11-06 12:14 PM |
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It is better to stay out of it.. |
bleedingheart |
Nov-11-06 12:15 PM |
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Some problems require intervention. Not a comfy blanket and a pacifier. |
HypnoToad |
Nov-11-06 12:19 PM |
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it is just really complicated |
bleedingheart |
Nov-11-06 12:40 PM |
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thats kind of the thing I'm worried about |
idgiehkt |
Nov-11-06 12:49 PM |
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Bingo... |
HypnoToad |
Nov-11-06 12:54 PM |
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I once interfered in a relationship (trying to help) and it just gave me |
bleedingheart |
Nov-11-06 01:19 PM |
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this |
idgiehkt |
Nov-11-06 11:46 PM |
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Usually the reporting party gets more scorn than the cheater in the long run. |
LeftyMom |
Nov-11-06 12:57 PM |
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True. The bearer of bad news gets punished, a lot of the time. |
quantessd |
Nov-11-06 01:07 PM |
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A lot of the time they know everything they need to add it all up |
LeftyMom |
Nov-11-06 01:10 PM |
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True. |
HypnoToad |
Nov-11-06 01:10 PM |
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I won't do it. |
William Bloode |
Nov-11-06 01:33 PM |
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As someone who was the last one to know |
lizziegrace |
Nov-11-06 01:35 PM |
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absolutely not. |
xchrom |
Nov-11-06 01:37 PM |
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I would tell, only if they had just started dating. |
quantessd |
Nov-11-06 01:49 PM |
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I'd find a way to "anonymously" tell. |
oktoberain |
Nov-11-06 02:20 PM |
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I did that once. |
mac56 |
Nov-11-06 02:24 PM |
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every relationship is different |
judaspriestess |
Nov-11-06 02:29 PM |
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One of my best friends has been "the other woman" twice. |
bertha katzenengel |
Nov-11-06 02:36 PM |
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Absolutely. Think about the risk of STDs. |
Alexander |
Nov-11-06 03:33 PM |
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Yep |
lizziegrace |
Nov-11-06 03:56 PM |
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Yep again. Happened to someone I love dearly. |
Beausoir |
Nov-11-06 04:11 PM |
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*ding* *ding* *ding* we have a winner |
HypnoToad |
Nov-11-06 05:06 PM |
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If I knew their partner then yes. |
jmm |
Nov-11-06 03:36 PM |
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Who knows anybody, these days? |
HypnoToad |
Nov-11-06 05:07 PM |
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No - I did that once. |
Xipe Totec |
Nov-11-06 03:37 PM |
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This seems like such a no-brainer to me, but I guess I'm wrong... |
ALiberalSailor |
Nov-11-06 03:40 PM |
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honestly, it depends on who's being cheated on. |
GloriaSmith |
Nov-11-06 03:55 PM |
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I got cheated on and the Other person told me... |
baby_mouse |
Nov-11-06 04:00 PM |
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Under what circumstances? |
SOteric |
Nov-11-06 04:15 PM |
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I have a work acquaintance |
caty |
Nov-11-06 04:17 PM |
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I've done things |
GirlinContempt |
Nov-11-06 04:21 PM |
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There are some things |
caty |
Nov-11-06 05:05 PM |
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I knew the man and told the woman. |
lildreamer316 |
Nov-11-06 04:23 PM |
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I need to clarify a point before answering.... |
mike_c |
Nov-11-06 04:28 PM |
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You could hit it |
GirlinContempt |
Nov-11-06 04:29 PM |
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in that case telling would surely spare worse pain in the future.... |
mike_c |
Nov-11-06 04:33 PM |
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Most already know... and they don't want to hear about it |
aspencer |
Nov-11-06 04:46 PM |
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depends on who they are |
leftofthedial |
Nov-11-06 05:06 PM |
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You never know the full extent of the back story.... |
WCGreen |
Nov-11-06 06:52 PM |
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Often, the other person isn't aware of the extenuating circumstances either |
GirlinContempt |
Nov-11-06 07:42 PM |
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That is true.... |
WCGreen |
Nov-11-06 08:15 PM |
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That depends. Are they cheating with me? |
DawgHouse |
Nov-11-06 06:54 PM |
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Yep... |
YellowRubberDuckie |
Nov-11-06 07:03 PM |
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Gosh...I don't know... It would depend on a bunch of things. |
MrsGrumpy |
Nov-11-06 08:17 PM |
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Yeah for sure |
GirlinContempt |
Nov-11-06 08:18 PM |
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I would say that if it was a very good friend of mine, I'd do it in a heartbeat. |
MrsGrumpy |
Nov-11-06 08:20 PM |
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Only if the person being cheated on and I |
mutley_r_us |
Nov-11-06 08:19 PM |
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that seems to be the consensus |
GirlinContempt |
Nov-11-06 11:40 PM |
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It would depend on how well I knew both of them |
last_texas_dem |
Nov-11-06 08:31 PM |
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I had 3 people who knew my bf was cheating.. |
siouxsiecreamcheese |
Nov-11-06 10:29 PM |
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I lost my best friend for telling... |
Omphaloskepsis |
Nov-11-06 11:50 PM |
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People tend to shoot the messenger |
Generic Brad |
Nov-11-06 11:53 PM |
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