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necso Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Oct-16-06 11:59 AM
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11. I'd go up to the friend,
and ask if she had used the bed for such (not mentioning the wrapper -- this might predispose her to "cover"). If pressed for a reason for asking, I might say something like: "I dunno, it just kinda weirds me out."

But the friend could already be warned to lie. (That she hasn't said anything can be read multiple ways -- including that she'll lie if she has to -- but she won't go looking for an opportunity to do so... a common enough half-way stance.)

If your friend's girlfriend is cheating, she's doing so stupidly.

And this is doubly disrespectful.
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  -My buddy found a condom wrapper beside his girlfriend's bed HEyHEY  Oct-16-06 11:35 AM   #0 
  - At least she's being safe when she cheats...  MrCoffee   Oct-16-06 11:36 AM   #1 
  - The point is, cheating is wrong.  HypnoToad   Oct-16-06 12:23 PM   #23 
     - Posts Hypno, so I don't have to. No arrangement to be non-exclusive?  BlueIris   Oct-21-06 11:33 PM   #61 
  - I'd ask the friend if it were my buddy...  MrsGrumpy   Oct-16-06 11:38 AM   #2 
  - Instinct says  Divameow77   Oct-16-06 11:41 AM   #3 
  - Does this friend not have her own bed?  petronius   Oct-16-06 11:42 AM   #4 
  - See, that's my feeling on it...  HEyHEY   Oct-16-06 11:44 AM   #5 
     - Guess you forgot to pick it up this time  johnnie   Oct-16-06 11:58 AM   #10 
     - owwwwwww...  MrCoffee   Oct-16-06 12:01 PM   #12 
     - hahahaa  HEyHEY   Oct-16-06 12:04 PM   #13 
     - Yeah, I figure you were too busy worrying about the Bible  johnnie   Oct-16-06 12:05 PM   #14 
        - I just kept thinking "This is REALLY gonna piss off Jesus."  HEyHEY   Oct-16-06 12:06 PM   #16 
        - ah  tigereye   Oct-16-06 12:13 PM   #19 
     - rolfmao  idgiehkt   Oct-16-06 12:05 PM   #15 
     - Unless the guy's just a lazy f***  HypnoToad   Oct-16-06 12:30 PM   #30 
  - Not only is she cheating, she kind of wants him to know it. nt  janesez   Oct-16-06 11:45 AM   #6 
  - People can be cruel, and that's beyond sick.  HypnoToad   Oct-16-06 12:23 PM   #24 
     - Sure is.  janesez   Oct-16-06 12:25 PM   #26 
        - Damn straight.  _testify_   Oct-16-06 02:45 PM   #40 
  - Who knows?  KC2   Oct-16-06 11:46 AM   #7 
  - Sounds like it.  jobycom   Oct-16-06 11:53 AM   #8 
  - I hate to be a cynical youknowwhat but usually in these situations  sfexpat2000   Oct-16-06 11:57 AM   #9 
  - I'd go up to the friend,  necso   Oct-16-06 11:59 AM   #11 
  - I told him to just make a funny comment  HEyHEY   Oct-16-06 12:07 PM   #17 
     - Even better perhaps,  necso   Oct-16-06 12:13 PM   #20 
     - That would be a really effective way to tell  ComerPerro   Oct-16-06 12:45 PM   #32 
  - Probably, although...sure it wasn't his?  Taverner   Oct-16-06 12:10 PM   #18 
  - Totally cheating...  Hobarticus   Oct-16-06 12:20 PM   #21 
  - OMG!!! Is Your Sigline FOR REAL???  wildhorses   Oct-16-06 02:56 PM   #42 
     - I dunno....he's not talking about his time-travel experience  Hobarticus   Oct-16-06 02:57 PM   #43 
        - where did you find that?  wildhorses   Oct-16-06 02:59 PM   #44 
           - I hijacked it off another poster on a sports forum...  Hobarticus   Oct-16-06 03:04 PM   # 
              - on so many levels...  wildhorses   Oct-16-06 03:11 PM   #46 
                 - I dunno...all I know is, I gotta pack some heat  Hobarticus   Oct-16-06 03:14 PM   #48 
                    - HELL ...looks like we better bring  wildhorses   Oct-16-06 03:27 PM   #49 
  - Well, she could be making balloon doggies...  HypnoToad   Oct-16-06 12:22 PM   #22 
  - that actually sounds like a better excuse than "oh, I let my friend  anarch   Oct-16-06 12:24 PM   #25 
  - Is that what they're calling it these days?  NewWaveChick1981   Oct-16-06 12:25 PM   #27 
     - Hiya NWC1981!  HypnoToad   Oct-16-06 12:29 PM   #29 
     - Well, it was perfect....  NewWaveChick1981   Oct-16-06 12:51 PM   #33 
        - You should see the size of the giraffe's neck...  HypnoToad   Oct-16-06 03:58 PM   #50 
     - .  jobycom   Oct-16-06 12:36 PM   #31 
        - ...  NewWaveChick1981   Oct-16-06 12:51 PM   #34 
           - ....  jobycom   Oct-16-06 01:03 PM   #35 
              - You like that one, do you?  NewWaveChick1981   Oct-16-06 01:06 PM   #36 
                 - What you tryin' to do?  jobycom   Oct-16-06 01:17 PM   #38 
                    - Who, me???  NewWaveChick1981   Oct-16-06 03:14 PM   #47 
  - More than likely.  NewWaveChick1981   Oct-16-06 12:26 PM   #28 
  - That's about as dumb an excuse as "My friend asked me to hold these"  alcibiades_mystery   Oct-16-06 01:15 PM   #37 
  - She getting porked by some other guy, no doubt.  Evoman   Oct-16-06 02:39 PM   #39 
  - 31 to 2 against...you are some cynical bastids.  MrCoffee   Oct-16-06 02:46 PM   #41 
  - It could be much, much worse...... (EWWW factor)  CanuckAmok   Oct-16-06 03:04 PM   #45 
  - Oh come on!  Mojambo   Oct-16-06 04:16 PM   #52 
  - HOLY MOTHER...!!!  MJDuncan1982   Oct-16-06 04:18 PM   #53 
  - Whoa, dude! That's some expert piloting going on!  HypnoToad   Oct-16-06 04:44 PM   #57 
  - I found a naked woman in my bed once.  hunter   Oct-16-06 04:01 PM   #51 
  - The proper response, to quote the little kid from Animal House, is  Vidar   Oct-21-06 11:30 PM   #59 
  - Every girl I've ever known is obsessed with the cleanliness of her bed.  MJDuncan1982   Oct-16-06 04:21 PM   #54 
  - Only circumstantial evidence mind  billyskank   Oct-16-06 04:25 PM   #55 
  - Depends on what the definition of "is" is.  ieoeja   Oct-16-06 04:43 PM   #56 
  - Either cheating or totally trashy! Letting friends use your bed! Ichhh!  JVS   Oct-21-06 09:37 PM   #58 
  - Still goin' on?  benny05   Oct-21-06 11:32 PM   #60 
 

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