| 155. How Can You Expect Empathy from Someone Who Can't Imagine? |
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Sympathy, yes, but empathy? True empathy? You'll die holding your breath.
Most people who've never struggled with weight can't imagine what it would be like to *feel* gravity when hiking up a steep hill or climbing 5 flights of stairs. Nor can they imagine *being the one* who needs the extra-wide seat. Once upon a time, I was one of those skinny people - a stick with boobs; as a larger person now, I'm not going to waste a drop of energy condemning others for what they simply can't understand, nor demanding they feel the way I want them too.
Most white people - even those who don't carry racial prejudices around - couldn't begin to imagine what it would *truly* feel like to be pulled over by the police for no other reason than being black and driving a particular car. You might have an idea, but you could never really *know*.
You need to get over your own bitterness if you want to change anything. Negatively does not affect positive change.
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| -Discrimination Against Fat: The Last Acceptable Prejudice here at DU |
RationalRose |
Dec-23-03 06:56 PM |
#0 |
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There's no shortage of assholes in the world |
nothingshocksmeanymore |
Dec-23-03 06:58 PM |
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Oh what, so now we're picking on assholes? |
HEyHEY |
Dec-23-03 07:35 PM |
#16 |
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LOL-Assholes are people too! |
RationalRose |
Dec-23-03 07:39 PM |
#18 |
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I belong to a group called petoa |
HEyHEY |
Dec-23-03 07:54 PM |
#20 |
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I totally agree with you. |
Rainbowreflect |
Dec-23-03 06:58 PM |
#2 |
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"Well, I only eat when I'm hungry and I'm the perfect weight" says DUer |
RationalRose |
Dec-23-03 07:02 PM |
#7 |
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O gross! |
FloridaJudy |
Dec-23-03 09:35 PM |
#42 |
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They're problems go deeper than just hating fat people |
RationalRose |
Dec-23-03 09:45 PM |
#43 |
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He's not perfect. He's borderline FAT. |
BiggJawn |
Dec-23-03 11:03 PM |
#52 |
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How do they cost us money ? |
TrueAmerican |
Dec-23-03 06:59 PM |
#3 |
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Yeah, same lame argument used against smokers... |
BiggJawn |
Dec-23-03 11:08 PM |
#53 |
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Wait a minute..... |
Snow |
Dec-23-03 07:00 PM |
#4 |
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and everyone knows if diabetics ate better and hypertensives did yoga... |
nothingshocksmeanymore |
Dec-23-03 07:01 PM |
#6 |
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Yes, the judgementalism abounds... |
RationalRose |
Dec-23-03 07:06 PM |
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no |
nothingshocksmeanymore |
Dec-23-03 07:08 PM |
#11 |
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Thanks but with Will not here and the a-holes coming out of the woodwork |
RationalRose |
Dec-23-03 07:11 PM |
#12 |
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and skinny men just ate. |
camero |
Dec-24-03 04:58 PM |
#105 |
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Exactly--again. NSMA, you amaze me. |
blondeatlast |
Dec-26-03 07:58 AM |
#134 |
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I'm insulin dependent and I hear that ad nauseum. |
blondeatlast |
Dec-26-03 08:01 AM |
#135 |
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Yes, and doncha know that if we were |
liberalhistorian |
Dec-26-03 06:08 PM |
#225 |
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Overweight people don't all want to be that way |
ayeshahaqqiqa |
Dec-23-03 07:01 PM |
#5 |
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People should just chill out and go get to a buffet somewhere |
fishguy |
Dec-23-03 07:02 PM |
#8 |
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I was diagnosed with underactive thyroid |
RationalRose |
Dec-23-03 07:04 PM |
#9 |
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Why on earth would you care about the opinions of people that stupid? |
Rowdyboy |
Dec-23-03 07:22 PM |
#13 |
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it still hurts, no matter who says it. |
toddzilla |
Dec-23-03 07:31 PM |
#14 |
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And people in GD buy the whole American ideal |
RationalRose |
Dec-23-03 07:38 PM |
#17 |
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It's easy to say "why care" |
Kanary |
Dec-25-03 10:38 PM |
#113 |
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Unless their name ends with USH |
DS1 |
Dec-23-03 07:31 PM |
#15 |
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Thanks, Rose, for starting this thread. |
southerngirlwriter |
Dec-23-03 07:52 PM |
#19 |
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here's one way to look at it... |
dfong63 |
Dec-23-03 07:57 PM |
#21 |
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You are sooo completely right! Control! |
Kanary |
Dec-25-03 10:46 PM |
#114 |
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Kanary... |
OaktownGrrl |
Dec-26-03 12:16 PM |
#167 |
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Fat hatred is a real problem in the US and |
ikojo |
Dec-23-03 08:00 PM |
#22 |
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Obesity is also a real problem in the US |
Wonk |
Dec-23-03 08:14 PM |
#25 |
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I hope you are not saying that it is OK |
ikojo |
Dec-23-03 08:20 PM |
#27 |
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re: Atkins or whatever other diet, and how young is too young |
Wonk |
Dec-23-03 08:32 PM |
#31 |
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I'd like to see that 9-y-o on a bicycle. |
BiggJawn |
Dec-23-03 11:14 PM |
#55 |
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Please, please, tell this girl's parents to get her off that damn Atkins |
MadHound |
Dec-24-03 02:29 PM |
#93 |
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Have you seen the daughter?? |
TrogL |
Dec-24-03 06:39 PM |
#110 |
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Poor kid |
oldcoot |
Dec-24-03 05:50 PM |
#107 |
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Yup, she's a future anorexic |
RationalRose |
Dec-23-03 08:46 PM |
#34 |
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What That Father Is Doing Borders on Child Abuse (IMHO) |
CO Liberal |
Dec-23-03 11:29 PM |
#61 |
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You gotta stay out of GD!! |
YellowRubberDuckie |
Dec-23-03 08:04 PM |
#23 |
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Please introduce me to such men. |
ikojo |
Dec-23-03 08:12 PM |
#24 |
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Yeah it's pretty sad over there. |
bunnyj |
Dec-23-03 08:20 PM |
#26 |
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Ten or twenty years ago they would have said |
ikojo |
Dec-23-03 08:22 PM |
#28 |
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You are so right about the homosexuality thing. |
bunnyj |
Dec-23-03 08:26 PM |
#30 |
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I agree with you. |
rbnyc |
Dec-23-03 08:22 PM |
#29 |
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Yeah, I just got back from that discussion. |
scarlet_owl |
Dec-23-03 08:41 PM |
#32 |
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Well we're all looking for ways to show that we're morally |
bunnyj |
Dec-23-03 08:45 PM |
#33 |
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I was never overweight until a few years ago but would NEVER |
RationalRose |
Dec-23-03 08:49 PM |
#35 |
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It's the same folks who think that drug addicts are weak-willed |
Argumentus |
Dec-23-03 08:50 PM |
#36 |
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And what's sad is that a couple of people, who I otherwise respected, |
bunnyj |
Dec-23-03 08:57 PM |
#37 |
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Yes, bunnyj, folks whose posts I enjoyed I now look at differently |
RationalRose |
Dec-23-03 09:00 PM |
#38 |
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True... |
SiobhanClancy |
Dec-23-03 10:20 PM |
#46 |
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I think they should look in the mirror...at their whole self |
dawn |
Dec-23-03 09:21 PM |
#39 |
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I don't understand the anger. |
philosophie_en_rose |
Dec-23-03 09:22 PM |
#40 |
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When I last popped in here a few months back |
Laszlo_Hollyfeld |
Dec-23-03 09:29 PM |
#41 |
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in the fatist's narrow mind, |
RationalRose |
Dec-23-03 10:02 PM |
#44 |
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partly true |
Iverson |
Dec-23-03 10:15 PM |
#45 |
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And the Southern prejudice, the New England prejudice |
RationalRose |
Dec-23-03 10:21 PM |
#47 |
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It's a rite of passage. |
Iverson |
Dec-23-03 10:31 PM |
#48 |
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Hey, sometimes I'm fat, sometimes I'm really fat, sometimes I even |
mikehiggins |
Dec-23-03 10:37 PM |
#49 |
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Well, I would be a Queen if... |
Sugarbleus |
Dec-23-03 10:40 PM |
#50 |
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Your idea of treatment is right on! |
Kanary |
Dec-25-03 11:23 PM |
#116 |
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It's not just here |
curse10 |
Dec-23-03 10:46 PM |
#51 |
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Thanks for starting this thread, Rational Rose |
JulieRB |
Dec-23-03 11:11 PM |
#54 |
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No, I hear your pain...it's no fun benig ridiculed |
sleipnir |
Dec-23-03 11:15 PM |
#56 |
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Although I have nothing against overweight people... |
Blade |
Dec-23-03 11:18 PM |
#57 |
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Blade, I'm not asking you to bed me, just don't rag on me.... |
BiggJawn |
Dec-23-03 11:31 PM |
#63 |
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Pop alone won't do it... |
ming |
Dec-26-03 04:10 PM |
#215 |
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Welcome to DU! |
RationalRose |
Dec-26-03 04:15 PM |
#217 |
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I AM FAT. |
Bertha Venation |
Dec-23-03 11:19 PM |
#58 |
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Golly, you really ARE fat! (you can be in my club) |
Argumentus |
Dec-23-03 11:25 PM |
#59 |
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Hat: Cherokee, NC |
Bertha Venation |
Dec-23-03 11:28 PM |
#60 |
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STOP IT! I CAN'T TAKE ANYMORE! |
Argumentus |
Dec-23-03 11:32 PM |
#64 |
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that's the best kind of pain, my friend.... |
Bertha Venation |
Dec-23-03 11:36 PM |
#65 |
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Those are some cute kitties! |
scarlet_owl |
Dec-23-03 11:31 PM |
#62 |
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you realize that Richard's a member of the club, don't you? |
Bertha Venation |
Dec-23-03 11:37 PM |
#66 |
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Heh Heh. Sounds like my cat! |
scarlet_owl |
Dec-24-03 02:11 PM |
#92 |
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What sweet kitties! |
RationalRose |
Dec-24-03 12:07 AM |
#68 |
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Wooooooooooooohoooooooooooooooooo Bertha!!!! |
Sugarbleus |
Dec-24-03 12:14 AM |
#70 |
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You are beautiful. Everyone's body is their own little art piece |
nothingshocksmeanymore |
Dec-24-03 11:50 AM |
#74 |
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what a nice thing to say, NSMA |
Bertha Venation |
Dec-24-03 12:22 PM |
#78 |
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Bertha |
Skittles |
Dec-24-03 12:03 PM |
#76 |
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Skittles, that's Toby. |
Bertha Venation |
Dec-24-03 12:21 PM |
#77 |
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Bertha, I think you are beautiful. |
Rainbowreflect |
Dec-24-03 01:32 PM |
#88 |
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shucks |
Bertha Venation |
Dec-24-03 04:34 PM |
#103 |
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TELL'EM, Bertha! n/t |
diamondsoul |
Dec-24-03 01:37 PM |
#91 |
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You said it, Bertha! |
Kanary |
Dec-25-03 11:32 PM |
#117 |
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Oh Yeah... |
trekkerlass |
Dec-26-03 07:27 AM |
#133 |
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I just don't think its healthy... |
FDRrocks |
Dec-24-03 12:02 AM |
#67 |
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Okay. Then I have the perfect answer for you, drunken post or not: |
Bertha Venation |
Dec-24-03 11:47 AM |
#73 |
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Well would it be easier to say... |
FDRrocks |
Dec-26-03 02:36 AM |
#129 |
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Not if you're a stranger or a co-worker |
Bertha Venation |
Dec-26-03 12:47 PM |
#188 |
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You're wrong. |
diamondsoul |
Dec-24-03 12:56 PM |
#82 |
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You summed up yourself at the beginning of your post |
Kanary |
Dec-26-03 12:13 AM |
#123 |
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I do care about the personality |
FDRrocks |
Dec-26-03 02:41 AM |
#130 |
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Of course people are sensitive! That's a *GOOD* thing |
Kanary |
Dec-26-03 12:46 PM |
#187 |
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i just don't think people have an inherent right to judge others |
OhioStateProgressive |
Dec-26-03 10:13 AM |
#145 |
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The mods really should lock down those threads. |
classics |
Dec-24-03 12:13 AM |
#69 |
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Good point classic but.. |
Sugarbleus |
Dec-24-03 12:18 AM |
#71 |
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The second thread was an attempt by one of the bigots |
RationalRose |
Dec-24-03 12:35 AM |
#72 |
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No, don't lock the threads |
fortyfeetunder |
Dec-24-03 01:04 PM |
#83 |
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you are absolutely correct, Rose |
Skittles |
Dec-24-03 11:54 AM |
#75 |
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Yeah, I was shocked, too. |
dawn |
Dec-24-03 12:30 PM |
#79 |
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welcome to DU, dawn |
Bertha Venation |
Dec-24-03 12:38 PM |
#80 |
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Wow! Wierd coincidences all over DU |
diamondsoul |
Dec-24-03 12:41 PM |
#81 |
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You are such a contribution to DU..thanks for this post |
nothingshocksmeanymore |
Dec-24-03 01:11 PM |
#84 |
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Thanks NSMA! |
diamondsoul |
Dec-24-03 01:35 PM |
#89 |
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I had a similiar occurence for myself and my own hypocricy |
jonnyblitz |
Dec-24-03 01:36 PM |
#90 |
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No, I think it is a common human flaw |
RationalRose |
Dec-25-03 09:43 PM |
#111 |
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You are one of the good people |
Selwynn |
Dec-26-03 12:00 AM |
#120 |
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The comment about overweight people being unpleasant |
texasblueeyes |
Dec-24-03 01:14 PM |
#85 |
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"overweight people being unpleasant too look at" |
private_ryan |
Dec-26-03 12:08 AM |
#122 |
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WTF? |
OhioStateProgressive |
Dec-26-03 10:17 AM |
#147 |
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narrowminded? |
private_ryan |
Dec-26-03 12:41 PM |
#182 |
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your definition of beauty is small and narrow |
OhioStateProgressive |
Dec-26-03 12:58 PM |
#192 |
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Well if everyone were just on the Atkins diet like me.... |
beyurslf |
Dec-24-03 01:21 PM |
#86 |
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it isn't acceptable |
amazona |
Dec-24-03 01:25 PM |
#87 |
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Isn't this the truth? |
JulieRB |
Dec-24-03 02:41 PM |
#95 |
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What about predjudice against Southerners? |
ddye |
Dec-24-03 02:37 PM |
#94 |
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Oh, okay |
JulieRB |
Dec-24-03 02:42 PM |
#96 |
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Julie, |
ddye |
Dec-24-03 02:45 PM |
#97 |
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Also not acceptable |
RationalRose |
Dec-24-03 03:04 PM |
#98 |
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Thanks for starting this thread, |
Lindsay |
Dec-24-03 03:51 PM |
#99 |
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Welcome to DU |
Bertha Venation |
Dec-24-03 04:28 PM |
#102 |
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Just remember |
VelmaD |
Dec-24-03 04:01 PM |
#100 |
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Hardly the last prejudice here |
Forkboy |
Dec-24-03 04:11 PM |
#101 |
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I wish people would realize the obvious |
WindRavenX |
Dec-24-03 04:57 PM |
#104 |
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a note to people of all weights |
Iverson |
Dec-24-03 05:14 PM |
#106 |
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Just shut up and go back to your Ben and Jerry's Chunky Monkey, tubby. |
kixot |
Dec-24-03 05:53 PM |
#108 |
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Fat bottomed girls, you make the rockin' world go 'round. |
Paragon |
Dec-24-03 05:56 PM |
#109 |
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I knew that there was something about you I liked! |
Lady Freedom |
Dec-25-03 10:20 PM |
#112 |
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I'm overweight AND Catholic... |
nini |
Dec-25-03 10:59 PM |
#115 |
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Obesity and America |
solinvictus |
Dec-25-03 11:35 PM |
#118 |
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Yeah my mom has a condition - has nothing to do with eating too much... |
Selwynn |
Dec-25-03 11:59 PM |
#119 |
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first |
private_ryan |
Dec-26-03 12:01 AM |
#121 |
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It's not about your "empathy." |
Selwynn |
Dec-26-03 12:20 AM |
#124 |
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"who happen to come" |
private_ryan |
Dec-26-03 12:32 AM |
#125 |
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I say again -- and listen carefully this time. |
Selwynn |
Dec-26-03 01:16 PM |
#199 |
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That's not always true... |
dawn |
Dec-26-03 03:38 PM |
#211 |
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OK, then tell me how to deal with this |
TrogL |
Dec-26-03 12:41 AM |
#126 |
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I have been both underweight and overweight |
eileen_d |
Dec-26-03 12:55 AM |
#127 |
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They best not take up part of MY seat on a 12 hour flight. |
Maine Mary |
Dec-26-03 02:32 AM |
#128 |
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I would say your complaint is with the airline |
eileen_d |
Dec-26-03 03:13 AM |
#131 |
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I thought of that |
Maine Mary |
Dec-26-03 03:22 AM |
#132 |
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There's a time for astonishment, and that ain't it. |
Iverson |
Dec-26-03 09:13 AM |
#138 |
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Well said, Iverson. |
Bertha Venation |
Dec-26-03 11:07 AM |
#159 |
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Smokers often smoke to stay thin |
RationalRose |
Dec-26-03 11:20 AM |
#162 |
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Ei Yi Yi |
Maine Mary |
Dec-26-03 04:42 PM |
#222 |
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Oh, boy |
JulieRB |
Dec-26-03 08:22 AM |
#137 |
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Well stated! |
ming |
Dec-26-03 04:38 PM |
#221 |
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Mary |
chefgirl |
Dec-26-03 09:45 AM |
#143 |
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terrible |
OhioStateProgressive |
Dec-26-03 10:22 AM |
#150 |
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"Time for a new bill?" Are you serious? |
Bertha Venation |
Dec-26-03 10:34 AM |
#153 |
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I'm going to introduce a bill that only blonds with blue eyes |
RationalRose |
Dec-26-03 10:39 AM |
#154 |
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Hey, Rose, let's start our own airline! |
Bertha Venation |
Dec-26-03 11:04 AM |
#158 |
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Actually, I would like to extend that to all people |
RationalRose |
Dec-26-03 11:13 AM |
#160 |
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sounds good to me |
Bertha Venation |
Dec-26-03 12:22 PM |
#172 |
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It's the airlines' duty to create seats that accomodate all size people |
nothingshocksmeanymore |
Dec-26-03 01:10 PM |
#196 |
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Shocking Maine Mary! |
ploppy |
Dec-26-03 01:28 PM |
#204 |
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How do fat people cost you money? |
oldcoot |
Dec-26-03 03:11 PM |
#209 |
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I feel for you re: the plane ride, but the rest of your post? huh? |
dawn |
Dec-26-03 03:48 PM |
#212 |
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Yeah I agree it sucks, but not only the fat ones |
Kamika |
Dec-26-03 08:14 AM |
#136 |
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why are MOST people fat Kamika? |
private_ryan |
Dec-26-03 09:14 AM |
#139 |
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why do MOST people have epilespy, ryan? |
Iverson |
Dec-26-03 09:20 AM |
#140 |
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medically qualified to know why people are fat... |
private_ryan |
Dec-26-03 09:28 AM |
#141 |
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Dr. Private_Ryan reveals his glaring ignorance |
RationalRose |
Dec-26-03 10:06 AM |
#144 |
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eating less doesn't slow your metabolism |
private_ryan |
Dec-26-03 12:18 PM |
#168 |
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You still don't acknowledge the poverty component |
RationalRose |
Dec-26-03 12:37 PM |
#180 |
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it sucks being poor for a lot of reasons |
private_ryan |
Dec-26-03 01:03 PM |
#193 |
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Ignorance, too, is a choice |
BareKnuckledLiberal |
Dec-26-03 10:28 AM |
#151 |
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let's explore this, ryan |
Iverson |
Dec-26-03 11:45 AM |
#163 |
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"Of course you can still be fat, it's your choice." |
Bertha Venation |
Dec-26-03 12:21 PM |
#170 |
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hmmm... |
private_ryan |
Dec-26-03 12:33 PM |
#178 |
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I beg your pardon? |
Bertha Venation |
Dec-26-03 12:38 PM |
#181 |
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nope |
private_ryan |
Dec-26-03 01:05 PM |
#194 |
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nazis worried about "health" too(nt) |
OhioStateProgressive |
Dec-26-03 10:15 AM |
#146 |
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Yup-and it lead to the twisted Eugenics program |
RationalRose |
Dec-26-03 10:18 AM |
#148 |
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prejudice against the fat is nothing less than fascism |
OhioStateProgressive |
Dec-26-03 10:20 AM |
#149 |
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yes, it is less than fascism |
Iverson |
Dec-26-03 11:49 AM |
#164 |
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building a super race is fascism |
OhioStateProgressive |
Dec-26-03 12:04 PM |
#166 |
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sure |
Iverson |
Dec-26-03 12:20 PM |
#169 |
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of course it is 'more' |
OhioStateProgressive |
Dec-26-03 12:27 PM |
#175 |
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no diet nazi here at all |
private_ryan |
Dec-26-03 12:22 PM |
#171 |
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So an underactive thyroid is no excuse for gaining weight? |
RationalRose |
Dec-26-03 12:42 PM |
#183 |
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whatever |
private_ryan |
Dec-26-03 01:11 PM |
#197 |
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Who here has said, "It's not my fault that I gained weight" -- ?? |
Bertha Venation |
Dec-26-03 12:44 PM |
#184 |
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what does that have to do with anything?? |
Kamika |
Dec-26-03 10:31 AM |
#152 |
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People had better stop getting pregnant. |
Bertha Venation |
Dec-26-03 11:55 AM |
#165 |
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Cite, please |
JulieRB |
Dec-26-03 12:26 PM |
#174 |
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Yes, Ryan--cite? |
Bertha Venation |
Dec-26-03 12:30 PM |
#177 |
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what if I can? |
private_ryan |
Dec-26-03 12:45 PM |
#186 |
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for chrissakes, just post a cite |
Bertha Venation |
Dec-26-03 12:48 PM |
#189 |
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and here's the cite |
private_ryan |
Dec-26-03 01:14 PM |
#198 |
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Nice try. Do you realize that this issue is not black & white? |
Bertha Venation |
Dec-26-03 04:32 PM |
#219 |
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MY "OBESITY RELATED CLAIMS" FROM 2003 |
Bertha Venation |
Dec-26-03 12:35 PM |
#179 |
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for every one person who can't lose weight |
private_ryan |
Dec-26-03 01:07 PM |
#195 |
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how about a cite on this? |
Bertha Venation |
Dec-26-03 04:14 PM |
#216 |
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It's all a reflection of prejudice, and |
RationalRose |
Dec-26-03 04:18 PM |
#218 |
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Well, I have prejudices too, Rose. |
Bertha Venation |
Dec-26-03 04:38 PM |
#220 |
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Acceptance and awareness are often the first steps to handling an issue |
nothingshocksmeanymore |
Dec-26-03 01:17 PM |
#200 |
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I had to get out of GD after seeing the fat-bashing |
RadFemFL |
Dec-26-03 09:36 AM |
#142 |
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How Can You Expect Empathy from Someone Who Can't Imagine? |
Crisco |
Dec-26-03 10:45 AM |
#155 |
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I'm just horrified that others don't see the toxicity of their attitudes |
RationalRose |
Dec-26-03 10:56 AM |
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The RW Holds No Monopoly on Prejudice |
Crisco |
Dec-26-03 11:20 AM |
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oh, so there's nothing else but obesity and anorexia |
private_ryan |
Dec-26-03 12:25 PM |
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a difference that you just missed |
Iverson |
Dec-26-03 12:28 PM |
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medical disorder my ass |
private_ryan |
Dec-26-03 12:52 PM |
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I can name my Mom's doctor |
Selwynn |
Dec-26-03 01:23 PM |
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and I'm the offensive one |
private_ryan |
Dec-26-03 01:59 PM |
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Yes you are the offensive one. |
Selwynn |
Dec-26-03 02:09 PM |
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actually you are the offensive one |
Cheswick |
Dec-26-03 04:01 PM |
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whateva |
private_ryan |
Dec-26-03 04:04 PM |
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Well the weight loss industry is the champion of bullshit gimmicks |
nothingshocksmeanymore |
Dec-26-03 01:27 PM |
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Kobe inviting that girl to his room was a "lifestyle" choice too! |
nothingshocksmeanymore |
Dec-26-03 01:40 PM |
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Your inconsistency is showing, ryan. |
Iverson |
Dec-26-03 03:13 PM |
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It's easier to hide anorexia bec. it's more acceptable to be too thin than |
RationalRose |
Dec-26-03 12:52 PM |
#191 |
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I'm with you there. |
LWolf |
Dec-26-03 10:47 AM |
#156 |
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I found the obesity threads in General Discussion disgusting. |
annonymous |
Dec-26-03 12:45 PM |
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I want to say this again, because I'm sick of the attitude on this thread |
Selwynn |
Dec-26-03 01:25 PM |
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Good post |
RationalRose |
Dec-26-03 01:29 PM |
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I APOLOGIZE TO ANYONE I HAVE OFFENDED |
Maine Mary |
Dec-26-03 05:27 PM |
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Your words speak for you, Mary |
chefgirl |
Dec-26-03 06:21 PM |
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Actually I see more derogatory comments about skinny people here |
mitchum |
Dec-26-03 06:03 PM |
#224 |
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locking thread |
Moderator |
Dec-26-03 06:27 PM |
#227 |