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BlackVelvet04 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jun-26-06 07:34 AM
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28. And what if she all of a sudden wanted to give it a go now?
If there isn't a love and passion on both sides it would be a miserable relationship.

Relationships, including marriage, just shouldn't be so tough. If it is something is wrong.
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  -At what point do you have to give up on someone you love? sir_captain  Jun-26-06 12:53 AM   #0 
  - What are your ages?  Floogeldy   Jun-26-06 12:54 AM   #1 
  - We're in our latish 20s  sir_captain   Jun-26-06 12:57 AM   #4 
     - Yeah, but most of 'em are poisoned by mercury!  HypnoToad   Jun-26-06 05:35 PM   #53 
  - Years ago in your case, she's no good for you!  JVS   Jun-26-06 12:55 AM   #2 
  - Probably mainly because I've enabled her to  sir_captain   Jun-26-06 12:59 AM   #5 
     - Whatever,just bail  JVS   Jun-26-06 01:02 AM   #7 
        - It sounds very simple,doesn't it?  sir_captain   Jun-26-06 01:04 AM   #8 
           - It is  JVS   Jun-26-06 01:04 AM   #9 
              - Sure, but not that easy  sir_captain   Jun-26-06 01:07 AM   #10 
  - 9 years ago  Nicole   Jun-26-06 12:57 AM   #3 
  - That's certainly the truth  sir_captain   Jun-26-06 01:00 AM   #6 
  - Perhaps it might be worthwhile to pursue counseling ......  CaliforniaPeggy   Jun-26-06 01:13 AM   #11 
  - Thanks Peggy!  sir_captain   Jun-26-06 01:19 AM   #14 
     - I hope she is willing too. 9 years is an investment. Not a fling.  HypnoToad   Jun-26-06 05:33 PM   #52 
  - If it's this hard, she's not the right girl  LeftyMom   Jun-26-06 01:14 AM   #12 
  - DING DING DING! That's your answer right there. When you find the "One"  Nickster   Jun-26-06 07:06 AM   #24 
  - I hope there isn't a "shining knight" complex somewhere in your mind,  Lydia Leftcoast   Jun-26-06 09:26 PM   #62 
  - 9 years?  u4ic   Jun-26-06 01:15 AM   #13 
  - Yeah, I know I can't fix her  sir_captain   Jun-26-06 01:27 AM   #17 
     - Oh, no  u4ic   Jun-26-06 01:33 AM   #20 
  - I say make it clear to them what you think, then make decisions from  Random_Australian   Jun-26-06 01:23 AM   #15 
  - Okay...there's love  reyd reid reed   Jun-26-06 01:25 AM   #16 
  - You're the "reserve guy". Break it off completely.  Blue-Jay   Jun-26-06 01:28 AM   #18 
  - Bingo.  Thtwudbeme   Jun-26-06 07:30 AM   #27 
  - Blue-Jay knows the score  JVS   Jun-27-06 12:14 AM   #63 
  - well don't know if these are words of wisdom but...  pitohui   Jun-26-06 01:29 AM   #19 
  - I hope this poster pays attention to you and Blue_jay.  Thtwudbeme   Jun-26-06 07:58 AM   #30 
  - If she cannot bring herself  necso   Jun-26-06 01:36 AM   #21 
  - When you realize you've lost your self-respect  kskiska   Jun-26-06 01:36 AM   #22 
  - Sounds like you need to rip off that bandage and move forward.  Iniquitous Bunny   Jun-26-06 06:54 AM   #23 
  - Wouldn't you rather be chosen, than to "end up" with someone?  Heidi   Jun-26-06 07:11 AM   #25 
  - Heidi is right....  khashka   Jun-26-06 07:28 AM   #26 
  - You don't want to be the one someone settles for.  lizziegrace   Jun-26-06 06:54 PM   #61 
  - And what if she all of a sudden wanted to give it a go now?  BlackVelvet04   Jun-26-06 07:34 AM   #28 
  - 9 Years?  cobalt1999   Jun-26-06 07:44 AM   #29 
  - Move on! You deserve better.  raccoon   Jun-26-06 08:19 AM   #31 
  - Move on  AngryAmish   Jun-26-06 08:22 AM   #32 
  - I agree with those who said she's probably stringing you along.  WritingIsMyReligion   Jun-26-06 08:25 AM   #33 
  - I'm sure you don't want to hear this  MissMillie   Jun-26-06 08:25 AM   #34 
  - When it hurts more than it feels good.  StellaBlue   Jun-26-06 08:26 AM   #35 
  - I always looked at it this way...  Roon   Jun-26-06 08:30 AM   #36 
  - Do you want to listen to your head or your heart?  miss_american_pie   Jun-26-06 08:30 AM   #37 
  - When your spend more time thinking and talking about  regularguy   Jun-26-06 11:36 AM   #38 
  - When it takes more from you than it feeds you.  Metta   Jun-26-06 03:52 PM   #39 
  - Be careful about ending up together. Usually by the time that happens  1monster   Jun-26-06 03:59 PM   #40 
  - The "move on" answerers must never have been in love - not really  janesez   Jun-26-06 04:10 PM   #41 
  - When I realized I'd rather be alone  lizziegrace   Jun-26-06 04:12 PM   #42 
  - It's Hard.....But Let It Go.........  querelle   Jun-26-06 04:15 PM   #43 
  - And do it GENTLY. Some people can be very cruel.  HypnoToad   Jun-26-06 05:29 PM   #51 
  - Walking away may actually drive her to you.  Scout1071   Jun-26-06 04:17 PM   #44 
  - exactly what I was gonna say! she might realize how much you mean  AZDemDist6   Jun-26-06 04:19 PM   #45 
     - Bingo. nt  Scout1071   Jun-26-06 04:29 PM   #46 
     - Bingo. nt  Scout1071   Jun-26-06 04:29 PM   #47 
  - At what point? When you jump out of her moving car.  hunter   Jun-26-06 05:21 PM   #48 
  - Incredible breakup story! I hope you weren't badly injured!!  IsIt1984Yet   Jun-26-06 05:26 PM   #50 
     - I was definitely the crazy in that relationship.  hunter   Jun-26-06 06:33 PM   #58 
  - Regardless, best of luck to you both.  HypnoToad   Jun-26-06 05:25 PM   #49 
  - I wonder if it is even in your control?  kiraboo   Jun-26-06 06:02 PM   #54 
  - Letting go hurts briefly, but hanging on to it hurts a lot longer.  bob_weaver   Jun-26-06 06:06 PM   #55 
  - Who is she to determine your happiness? Make your happiness independent  bob_weaver   Jun-26-06 06:08 PM   #56 
  - You need to move on. The sad thing is, once you do  GoddessOfGuinness   Jun-26-06 06:16 PM   #57 
  - For clarification, has she had other long term dating relationships during  Mayberry Machiavelli   Jun-26-06 06:39 PM   #59 
  - When They Give up on you!!!!  GoPsUx   Jun-26-06 06:46 PM   #60 

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