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BelleCarolinaPeridot Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jun-24-06 11:42 PM
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I have an admirer. Its really sweet ...
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but for now I only like him as a friend. We went out for coffee the other day just to talk and right now I only like him as a friend. I have told him that many times - I just hope that he does'nt think that I am leading him on because right now I am only focused on myself and learning to love myself again. He is really sweet and polite. We work at the same place - he works even though he does'nt have to. Because of his background and where is lives (in a very affluent neighborhood-so affluent that some people don't drive through there because its like youcan'ttouchthis rich) he could easily be a rude SOB , snobby , stuck up but he is far from that. The old ladies at work take care of him and cook him food. I thought it was sweet because last night he had collard greens and hamhocks for the first time and he enjoyed it. I admit,I felt a bit intimidated because of his family. But they raised him well. He is a really good guy. He told me that he could make me really happy and I just laughed (you don't know how many times I have heard that)and that I came into his life for a reason (part of me says that is heartfelt, the other part of me is thinking that I hope he is not obsessing over me). I am afraid that I might hurt the boy - sometimes people are just too sweet and thats sad because I always want a good guy and when one comes my way,I shrug it off. But I do have a reason - I don't know him well enough to have feelings like that and I told him. I just hope he does'nt get his hopes up - I am coming out of a relationship and that's why I need time to myself for a while.And I told him that too. I hope he understands that I just want to be friends now and I can't promise him anything.

(he could have those other debutantes where daddy pays for everything but he wants me the girl who still lives at home and works 40 hours a week - life is so weird sometimes.Its not about the money,its about the heart and I am a good person so it fits)
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  -I have an admirer. Its really sweet ... CarolinaPeridot  Jun-24-06 11:42 PM   #0 
  - sweet n/t  petersond   Jun-24-06 11:42 PM   #1 
  - I have been in his shoes  LSK   Jun-24-06 11:48 PM   #2 
  - You're right.  CarolinaPeridot   Jun-24-06 11:52 PM   #3 
  - aww you remind me of a man.......  TexasLady   Jun-24-06 11:56 PM   #4 
  - Yes they still make men like that ...  CarolinaPeridot   Jun-25-06 03:51 AM   #10 
  - Good luck!  KC2   Jun-24-06 11:57 PM   #5 
  - He is as sarcastic as I am. And he has put me in my place many times LOL  CarolinaPeridot   Jun-25-06 12:17 AM   #7 
     - How did he put you in your place?  Kire   Jun-25-06 04:55 AM   #19 
        - Well like I said I have a sassy attitude lol.  CarolinaPeridot   Jun-25-06 04:43 PM   #23 
  - When you're ready, give the guy a chance  Dude_CalmDown   Jun-25-06 12:16 AM   #6 
  - Sounds good....  khashka   Jun-25-06 12:26 AM   #8 
  - I won't admit it lol  CarolinaPeridot   Jun-25-06 12:44 AM   #9 
  - Collards are good!  haruka3_2000   Jun-25-06 03:54 AM   #11 
  - Sound to me like he's giving you a crock....  corporatemedia   Jun-25-06 03:56 AM   #12 
  - :)  CarolinaPeridot   Jun-25-06 04:01 AM   #13 
     - I hope you know I was just kiddin with a play on words. My real sentiment.  corporatemedia   Jun-25-06 04:10 AM   #14 
        - i know what you meant...  CarolinaPeridot   Jun-25-06 04:19 AM   #15 
           - NO, as I said, I was just kiddin...  corporatemedia   Jun-25-06 04:26 AM   #16 
              - I know LOL I gotcha :)  CarolinaPeridot   Jun-25-06 04:30 AM   #17 
                 - Groovy. n/t  corporatemedia   Jun-25-06 04:32 AM   #18 
  - He's got your interest. Be honest with him -- let him take you on a date.  IdaBriggs   Jun-25-06 07:21 AM   #20 
  - Be careful. Or if nothing else let him know NOW.  HypnoToad   Jun-25-06 07:50 AM   #21 
  - I know it feels to be led on.  CarolinaPeridot   Jun-25-06 03:40 PM   #22 
  - Persistance pays.  NNadir   Jun-25-06 04:52 PM   #24 

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