Reply #62: you know, I'm not that far away

[northzax]

and I'm a pretty big guy, want me to come up there and show him what it feels like to be on the receiving end? I would do it with pleasure.

I have the deepest sympathy for you, but you need to hear this (and what others have said) in all seriousness.

Anyone man who hits a woman is not a man, he is a coward and a pathetic human being. (obviously, physical self defense is the exception, if you were, say, stabbing him at the time, this is null and void, otherwise listen.) He will not stop. Something will always set him off, and he will always beat you. Always. There is only three ways for this to end: 1: you get the fuck away from him. 2: he kills you. 3: you kill him. Seems to me like option 1 is the best.

It is painful to say to yourself, and painful to hear, but he cannot be friends with you the way you would like him to. Sorry.

So, in summation: you leave, or one of you dies.

Still, my offer to get three friends, one of whom won a golden glove and another who's a black belt in Tae Kwon Do, and come beat the living shit out of the pathetic excuse for a man.