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elshiva Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Feb-22-06 08:36 PM
Response to Reply #11
13. I want to let this person back into my life maybe in a year or so.
Again, most of the time a sweetheart. Thanks for your concern.
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  -Thank You DU.This time I called the cops. It was too much. elshiva  Feb-22-06 08:10 PM   #0 
  - You are in my thoughts ...  CarolinaPeridot   Feb-22-06 08:13 PM   #1 
  - Thanks, hon.  elshiva   Feb-22-06 08:14 PM   #3 
  - Be strong  miss_american_pie   Feb-22-06 08:14 PM   #2 
  - God bless you  Kire   Feb-22-06 08:16 PM   #4 
  - He is still my friend. Someday we will be together again. I hope  elshiva   Feb-22-06 08:20 PM   #7 
     - Okay.  Kire   Feb-22-06 08:21 PM   #8 
     - Good men don't black their friends out ...  CarolinaPeridot   Feb-22-06 08:40 PM   #16 
     - He is a good man, that I know. But few people understood him.  elshiva   Feb-22-06 08:46 PM   #24 
        - Listen sister :  CarolinaPeridot   Feb-22-06 08:48 PM   #27 
           - I don't think it is funny at all.  elshiva   Feb-22-06 08:49 PM   #29 
     - Please....  sendero   Feb-22-06 09:13 PM   #41 
        - I don't know what is happening with him. I really don't have a third party  elshiva   Feb-22-06 09:16 PM   #46 
           - Just remember...  sendero   Feb-22-06 09:35 PM   #59 
  - Good you called...sorry you were beaten  Whoa_Nelly   Feb-22-06 08:16 PM   #5 
  - They took photos of the bruises. And there will be a restraining  elshiva   Feb-22-06 08:19 PM   #6 
     - Good job elshiva  uppityperson   Feb-22-06 08:23 PM   #9 
     - Here's the fact, elshiva dear  Whoa_Nelly   Feb-22-06 08:44 PM   #20 
        - Thanks, but I am already in therapy.  elshiva   Feb-22-06 08:45 PM   #23 
           - Lame answer  Whoa_Nelly   Feb-22-06 08:58 PM   #35 
              - LISTEN. I AM SORRY! I AM GETTING THERAPY.  elshiva   Feb-22-06 09:09 PM   #37 
                 - Good  Whoa_Nelly   Feb-22-06 09:12 PM   #39 
                    - Thank you, but there are limits to what a person can do in 24 hours!  elshiva   Feb-22-06 09:13 PM   #42 
                       - Hope you do join and find you are not alone in what has happened to you  Whoa_Nelly   Feb-22-06 09:48 PM   #72 
                          - I am joining. I just can't seem to please anyone.  elshiva   Feb-22-06 09:56 PM   #77 
                             - it's about pleasing yourself and no one else  Whoa_Nelly   Feb-22-06 10:03 PM   #85 
  - What the hell!?  YellowRubberDuckie   Feb-22-06 08:24 PM   #10 
  - This is only the third time with him. But he is a great friend.  elshiva   Feb-22-06 08:35 PM   #12 
     - He beats the crap out of you and you still want to be his friend?  YellowRubberDuckie   Feb-22-06 08:37 PM   #14 
     - Yes, I know it sounds crazy, but he loves me and I love him.  elshiva   Feb-22-06 08:39 PM   #15 
        - I'm sorry, but you sound like a battered woman defending her man.  YellowRubberDuckie   Feb-22-06 08:43 PM   #18 
        - I will stay away from him, but I do miss him and I do love him still.  elshiva   Feb-22-06 08:44 PM   #21 
        - Love should never hurt !  CarolinaPeridot   Feb-22-06 08:44 PM   #22 
           - I am so sorry about what happened to you.  elshiva   Feb-22-06 08:47 PM   #26 
     - elshive, you need to learn about abusers, their tempers and how they cycle  Whoa_Nelly   Feb-22-06 08:51 PM   #32 
     - YEAH I KNOW IT WAS MY FAULT ALREADY. I AM SORRY!  elshiva   Feb-22-06 09:06 PM   #36 
        - Dude, it's not your fault  LynzM   Feb-22-06 09:12 PM   #40 
        - Thanks, again, he did not always do this, sometimes he was nice  elshiva   Feb-22-06 09:15 PM   #44 
        - It wasn't your fault -- you don't need to apologize to anyone but yourself  Whoa_Nelly   Feb-22-06 09:15 PM   #43 
        - Thanks. This is a big step for me. Don't know what is next.  elshiva   Feb-22-06 09:18 PM   #47 
        - It's NOT your fault  tyedyeto   Feb-22-06 09:16 PM   #45 
        - I am Not seeing him again. I am having a hard thinking straight  elshiva   Feb-22-06 09:19 PM   #49 
        - No, it is not your fault, and no, you have nothing to apologize for.  CBHagman   Feb-22-06 09:20 PM   #51 
        - Thanks, we got cell phones. He has got a restraining order.  elshiva   Feb-22-06 09:21 PM   #53 
        - Totally not your fault, babe.  missb   Feb-22-06 09:33 PM   #57 
        - You don't have to apologize.  philosophie_en_rose   Feb-22-06 09:46 PM   #68 
     - Well, I have really mixed feelings after reading this.  mgdecombe   Feb-22-06 09:27 PM   #55 
        - I am going to get special therapy in a support group starting  elshiva   Feb-22-06 09:40 PM   #63 
           - I am so glad.  mgdecombe   Feb-22-06 09:44 PM   #66 
              - Thanks.  elshiva   Feb-22-06 09:47 PM   #71 
  - I don't know the situation, but I'm sure he's not your "friend."  Zookeeper   Feb-22-06 08:30 PM   #11 
  - I want to let this person back into my life maybe in a year or so.  elshiva   Feb-22-06 08:36 PM   #13 
  - What?!  Left Is Write   Feb-22-06 08:42 PM   #17 
  - Thanks for your concern. I've seen the doctor. I am okay.  elshiva   Feb-22-06 08:43 PM   #19 
  - elshiva, I'm glad you called the cops  SeattleGirl   Feb-22-06 08:46 PM   #25 
  - He was very, very funny. But he hated the fact I do not like the  elshiva   Feb-22-06 08:48 PM   #28 
     - ?????  CarolinaPeridot   Feb-22-06 08:50 PM   #30 
     - Oh, well, at least he had a good reason.  smirkymonkey   Feb-22-06 08:51 PM   #33 
     - Elshiva, dude, listen to yourself.  LynzM   Feb-22-06 08:56 PM   #34 
     - Well, I guess if you look at it like that, yeah he is a jerk.  elshiva   Feb-22-06 09:10 PM   #38 
        - Yes, elshiva, he's a jerk.  SeattleGirl   Feb-22-06 09:19 PM   #48 
     - No, oh my God.  mgdecombe   Feb-22-06 09:38 PM   #61 
        - Nice. Blame the victim.  philosophie_en_rose   Feb-22-06 09:52 PM   #74 
           - Thanks. Wise, wise words. I am very confused. I don't get a lot  elshiva   Feb-22-06 10:02 PM   #84 
  - Oh, I am so sorry you have been going through this.  ThomCat   Feb-22-06 08:51 PM   #31 
  - Do not let this vermin back in your life. Ever.  Oregonian   Feb-22-06 09:19 PM   #50 
  - Thanks, I am NOT seeing him again.  elshiva   Feb-22-06 09:20 PM   #52 
     - Good! Glad to hear it!  Oregonian   Feb-22-06 09:29 PM   #56 
     - Print out your reply to Oregonian  missb   Feb-22-06 09:35 PM   #58 
        - That is a good idea .  CarolinaPeridot   Feb-22-06 09:36 PM   #60 
  - Someone who beats you is NOT a "friend". Pure and simple.  Shine   Feb-22-06 09:24 PM   #54 
  - you know, I'm not that far away  northzax   Feb-22-06 09:39 PM   #62 
  - Thanks, hon. But the police have got him on a restraining order.  elshiva   Feb-22-06 09:43 PM   #64 
  - Elshiva: It is okay for you to feel conflicted.  philosophie_en_rose   Feb-22-06 09:44 PM   #65 
  - I've called the police, hon. And he is on restraining order.  elshiva   Feb-22-06 09:46 PM   #69 
     - I'm glad, but restraining orders are only a tool.  philosophie_en_rose   Feb-22-06 09:54 PM   #76 
        - Only a tool???? HUH??  elshiva   Feb-22-06 10:01 PM   #83 
  - Good  LeftyMom   Feb-22-06 09:45 PM   #67 
  - Thanks, LeftyMom.  elshiva   Feb-22-06 09:46 PM   #70 
  - I have only one thing to say :  CarolinaPeridot   Feb-22-06 09:50 PM   #73 
  - elshiva...maybe print this thread out and take with you to share  Whoa_Nelly   Feb-22-06 09:52 PM   #75 
  - Thanks. I did with my friends and God's help save myself.  elshiva   Feb-22-06 09:59 PM   #80 
  - I've never hit a women in my life. I'm male and 43.  Hissyspit   Feb-22-06 09:56 PM   #78 
  - Thanks for never hitting a woman. That means A LOT!  elshiva   Feb-22-06 09:59 PM   #81 
  - Take good care of yourself, elshiva.  tuvor   Feb-22-06 09:57 PM   #79 
  - Thanks! Prayers mean a lot to me.  elshiva   Feb-22-06 10:00 PM   #82 
  - Locked  BigMcLargehuge   Feb-22-06 10:05 PM   #86 

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