elshiva
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Wed Feb-22-06 08:35 PM
Response to Reply #10 |
| 12. This is only the third time with him. But he is a great friend. |
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We do a lot of fun stuff together like go to the movies. He just is a big sweetheart with a temper problem. Poor baby and I was in his way.
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| -Thank You DU.This time I called the cops. It was too much. |
elshiva |
Feb-22-06 08:10 PM |
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You are in my thoughts ... |
CarolinaPeridot |
Feb-22-06 08:13 PM |
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Thanks, hon. |
elshiva |
Feb-22-06 08:14 PM |
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Be strong |
miss_american_pie |
Feb-22-06 08:14 PM |
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God bless you |
Kire |
Feb-22-06 08:16 PM |
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He is still my friend. Someday we will be together again. I hope |
elshiva |
Feb-22-06 08:20 PM |
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Okay. |
Kire |
Feb-22-06 08:21 PM |
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Good men don't black their friends out ... |
CarolinaPeridot |
Feb-22-06 08:40 PM |
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He is a good man, that I know. But few people understood him. |
elshiva |
Feb-22-06 08:46 PM |
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Listen sister : |
CarolinaPeridot |
Feb-22-06 08:48 PM |
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I don't think it is funny at all. |
elshiva |
Feb-22-06 08:49 PM |
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Please.... |
sendero |
Feb-22-06 09:13 PM |
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I don't know what is happening with him. I really don't have a third party |
elshiva |
Feb-22-06 09:16 PM |
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Just remember... |
sendero |
Feb-22-06 09:35 PM |
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Good you called...sorry you were beaten |
Whoa_Nelly |
Feb-22-06 08:16 PM |
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They took photos of the bruises. And there will be a restraining |
elshiva |
Feb-22-06 08:19 PM |
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Good job elshiva |
uppityperson |
Feb-22-06 08:23 PM |
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Here's the fact, elshiva dear |
Whoa_Nelly |
Feb-22-06 08:44 PM |
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Thanks, but I am already in therapy. |
elshiva |
Feb-22-06 08:45 PM |
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Lame answer |
Whoa_Nelly |
Feb-22-06 08:58 PM |
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LISTEN. I AM SORRY! I AM GETTING THERAPY. |
elshiva |
Feb-22-06 09:09 PM |
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Good |
Whoa_Nelly |
Feb-22-06 09:12 PM |
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Thank you, but there are limits to what a person can do in 24 hours! |
elshiva |
Feb-22-06 09:13 PM |
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Hope you do join and find you are not alone in what has happened to you |
Whoa_Nelly |
Feb-22-06 09:48 PM |
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I am joining. I just can't seem to please anyone. |
elshiva |
Feb-22-06 09:56 PM |
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it's about pleasing yourself and no one else |
Whoa_Nelly |
Feb-22-06 10:03 PM |
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What the hell!? |
YellowRubberDuckie |
Feb-22-06 08:24 PM |
#10 |
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This is only the third time with him. But he is a great friend. |
elshiva |
Feb-22-06 08:35 PM |
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He beats the crap out of you and you still want to be his friend? |
YellowRubberDuckie |
Feb-22-06 08:37 PM |
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Yes, I know it sounds crazy, but he loves me and I love him. |
elshiva |
Feb-22-06 08:39 PM |
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I'm sorry, but you sound like a battered woman defending her man. |
YellowRubberDuckie |
Feb-22-06 08:43 PM |
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I will stay away from him, but I do miss him and I do love him still. |
elshiva |
Feb-22-06 08:44 PM |
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Love should never hurt ! |
CarolinaPeridot |
Feb-22-06 08:44 PM |
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I am so sorry about what happened to you. |
elshiva |
Feb-22-06 08:47 PM |
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elshive, you need to learn about abusers, their tempers and how they cycle |
Whoa_Nelly |
Feb-22-06 08:51 PM |
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YEAH I KNOW IT WAS MY FAULT ALREADY. I AM SORRY! |
elshiva |
Feb-22-06 09:06 PM |
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Dude, it's not your fault |
LynzM |
Feb-22-06 09:12 PM |
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Thanks, again, he did not always do this, sometimes he was nice |
elshiva |
Feb-22-06 09:15 PM |
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It wasn't your fault -- you don't need to apologize to anyone but yourself |
Whoa_Nelly |
Feb-22-06 09:15 PM |
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Thanks. This is a big step for me. Don't know what is next. |
elshiva |
Feb-22-06 09:18 PM |
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It's NOT your fault |
tyedyeto |
Feb-22-06 09:16 PM |
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I am Not seeing him again. I am having a hard thinking straight |
elshiva |
Feb-22-06 09:19 PM |
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No, it is not your fault, and no, you have nothing to apologize for. |
CBHagman |
Feb-22-06 09:20 PM |
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Thanks, we got cell phones. He has got a restraining order. |
elshiva |
Feb-22-06 09:21 PM |
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Totally not your fault, babe. |
missb |
Feb-22-06 09:33 PM |
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You don't have to apologize. |
philosophie_en_rose |
Feb-22-06 09:46 PM |
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Well, I have really mixed feelings after reading this. |
mgdecombe |
Feb-22-06 09:27 PM |
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I am going to get special therapy in a support group starting |
elshiva |
Feb-22-06 09:40 PM |
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I am so glad. |
mgdecombe |
Feb-22-06 09:44 PM |
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Thanks. |
elshiva |
Feb-22-06 09:47 PM |
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I don't know the situation, but I'm sure he's not your "friend." |
Zookeeper |
Feb-22-06 08:30 PM |
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I want to let this person back into my life maybe in a year or so. |
elshiva |
Feb-22-06 08:36 PM |
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What?! |
Left Is Write |
Feb-22-06 08:42 PM |
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Thanks for your concern. I've seen the doctor. I am okay. |
elshiva |
Feb-22-06 08:43 PM |
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elshiva, I'm glad you called the cops |
SeattleGirl |
Feb-22-06 08:46 PM |
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He was very, very funny. But he hated the fact I do not like the |
elshiva |
Feb-22-06 08:48 PM |
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????? |
CarolinaPeridot |
Feb-22-06 08:50 PM |
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Oh, well, at least he had a good reason. |
smirkymonkey |
Feb-22-06 08:51 PM |
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Elshiva, dude, listen to yourself. |
LynzM |
Feb-22-06 08:56 PM |
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Well, I guess if you look at it like that, yeah he is a jerk. |
elshiva |
Feb-22-06 09:10 PM |
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Yes, elshiva, he's a jerk. |
SeattleGirl |
Feb-22-06 09:19 PM |
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No, oh my God. |
mgdecombe |
Feb-22-06 09:38 PM |
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Nice. Blame the victim. |
philosophie_en_rose |
Feb-22-06 09:52 PM |
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Thanks. Wise, wise words. I am very confused. I don't get a lot |
elshiva |
Feb-22-06 10:02 PM |
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Oh, I am so sorry you have been going through this. |
ThomCat |
Feb-22-06 08:51 PM |
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Do not let this vermin back in your life. Ever. |
Oregonian |
Feb-22-06 09:19 PM |
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Thanks, I am NOT seeing him again. |
elshiva |
Feb-22-06 09:20 PM |
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Good! Glad to hear it! |
Oregonian |
Feb-22-06 09:29 PM |
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Print out your reply to Oregonian |
missb |
Feb-22-06 09:35 PM |
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That is a good idea . |
CarolinaPeridot |
Feb-22-06 09:36 PM |
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Someone who beats you is NOT a "friend". Pure and simple. |
Shine |
Feb-22-06 09:24 PM |
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you know, I'm not that far away |
northzax |
Feb-22-06 09:39 PM |
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Thanks, hon. But the police have got him on a restraining order. |
elshiva |
Feb-22-06 09:43 PM |
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Elshiva: It is okay for you to feel conflicted. |
philosophie_en_rose |
Feb-22-06 09:44 PM |
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I've called the police, hon. And he is on restraining order. |
elshiva |
Feb-22-06 09:46 PM |
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I'm glad, but restraining orders are only a tool. |
philosophie_en_rose |
Feb-22-06 09:54 PM |
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Only a tool???? HUH?? |
elshiva |
Feb-22-06 10:01 PM |
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Good |
LeftyMom |
Feb-22-06 09:45 PM |
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Thanks, LeftyMom. |
elshiva |
Feb-22-06 09:46 PM |
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I have only one thing to say : |
CarolinaPeridot |
Feb-22-06 09:50 PM |
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elshiva...maybe print this thread out and take with you to share |
Whoa_Nelly |
Feb-22-06 09:52 PM |
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Thanks. I did with my friends and God's help save myself. |
elshiva |
Feb-22-06 09:59 PM |
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I've never hit a women in my life. I'm male and 43. |
Hissyspit |
Feb-22-06 09:56 PM |
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Thanks for never hitting a woman. That means A LOT! |
elshiva |
Feb-22-06 09:59 PM |
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Take good care of yourself, elshiva. |
tuvor |
Feb-22-06 09:57 PM |
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Thanks! Prayers mean a lot to me. |
elshiva |
Feb-22-06 10:00 PM |
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Locked |
BigMcLargehuge |
Feb-22-06 10:05 PM |
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